Thank you for all your continued patronage.
This is Mano from the Osaka branch.
The other day, with a male member on the topic of "future offer measures"
Thank you for the opportunity to have tea with you.
The frequency of offers has decreased recently compared to before...?
And it was a male member who was also interested in me,
I'm sure you've met a wonderful woman and are doing well!
I don't think so..., on the contrary,
It was a message from a man who was just about to worry about the member.
Arrive at the meeting cafe seat, exchange greetings,
The first opening from men,
"Actually, I'm getting tired of dating clubs lately..."
When,
To be honest, it was a word that I imagined even before I met you.
I feel that it is the club's responsibility for the continued matching mistakes,
I was speechless for a moment.
As I listened to the story,
“I used to be very particular about my type, but I don’t think I will be bound by that part anymore.”
"Even if I go on a date, I'm tired of relationships that end in one time"
"I feel like I'm being swayed in a roundabout way"
"Even if I look at the female member page, I don't know which women are good."
Such..
In fact, there may be men who withdrew from the club because of the same feeling.
I thought.
For all male members, how do you feel when you register?
Seeking excitement and healing in everyday life,
I think it means enjoying the extraordinary time.
That is the opposite feeling similar to love fatigue,
The dilemma of offering a new woman.
I thought I had a solution.
When I asked why it didn't lead to the second and subsequent dates,
I haven't been asked out on a date since the second time.
why? ? !How? ? !
The answer is,
"Even if a woman contacted me after breaking up on the first date, I didn't hear back after that."
It was that.
Rather than contacting the woman for the second and subsequent dates,
It was said that there are many situations where you wait for a contact from a woman.
I think women are passive even when they meet at dating clubs.
From the woman before, it won't last after the second time..,
I have received similar advice.
women on the first date
"Maybe they didn't like it" or
"The next promise was not made on the first date"
For this reason, some women find it difficult to contact them.
Even more so, I will support you in dating an adult,
I don't want you to think that I'm just contacting you because I'm having trouble with money..
When,
Women also have various worries, and it seems that there are things they think about after the first date.
We met at a dating club.
Women are also registered with support, so
When inviting a woman to the second and subsequent dates,
To some extent, describe the specific restraint time and date content,
And I think it's good manners to invite you with a solid support content.
(After watching 〇〇 from what time, would you like to go eat 〇〇? What time will we disband, etc.)
Some women in dating clubs register while feeling guilty somewhere,
Until about the third time, an invitation from a man may be important.
It takes a few times to get to know each other even a little, and to open up to the woman and get a sense of security.
It's a great meeting, so while the distance between your hearts is shrinking on the first date!
Before the woman's feelings cool down!
I would like you to approach me for a second date.
Simply as a way to overcome the tiredness of the dating club,
Seeking new encounters, making offers to new women, and having expectations for the next woman.
This is also a loop that always haunts the encounter between men and women,
After a series of unsuccessful encounters
"I wonder if it won't go well next time..." I hope for the first date, suppressing my expectations even before the date...
You joined for fun, but this is putting the cart before the horse.
When you think things aren't going well, "hope for the next woman"
This is common in ordinary relationships between men and women,
Not just "going to the next" or "not compatible",
Looking back on how things went well,
I think it's a good idea to make use of it in the future.
As a club, rather than repeating dates that don't feel right,
We hope that you will have a good meeting and be satisfied.
Also, if you are a male member and know the solution,
I would love to have you as a professor.
I am still studying.
Being able to have a wonderful encounter at the Universe Club
I think it's more important than anything else
So that the male and female members of the club do not feel uneasy,
I would like to provide you with helpful guidance.
Universe Club
Osaka Branch
Ami Mano
I only met the two women for the first time.
First we have dinner, then we change places and go to a bar, and then we start talking about when we'll meet next time.
At that moment
"I'm a little busy for the time being, so it's going to be a long time."
I don't know what to say, but I think it's almost the end of the first time.Even though we made an appointment to meet a month later, it was canceled at the last minute.
The person I met for the first time last month was also busy, so the next appointment was a month later.And it's time to meet next week.
I'm checking the survival of the bean line so that the edge won't be cut off.
I often offer new members, so maybe it's because I'm flooded with offers for women who have just joined, so my schedule may be full for about a month.
Right now, I'm regularly meeting with the four women I met at the club, but it's hard to get excited when it's hot and rainy.
Certainly, I feel that something like fatigue has come out.Dating uses a lot of power.
I can meet women who I have met about 20 times regardless of such fatigue.Never meet again on the way!There were times when I thought.
After all, the feeling may not be understood until it matches many times.
From Halloween to Christmas for me.I feel so excited.
I'm free today
Thank you for your comment!
> "I'm a little busy for the time being, so it's going to be a long way off."
I don't know what to say, but I think it's almost the end of the first time.
→ Since the woman is sending a signal that there will be no second time at that point,
Saves you the trouble of chasing.
Hearing those words, "I'm free today," will you be disappointed?
On the other hand, I would like you to cut off your feelings on the train and go home refreshed.
> I'm checking the survival with a line so that the edge won't be cut.
→ I was very excited.
But sometimes it's a good idea to contact you after a while?I think.
It's troublesome to bargain, but it's too natural to be contacted by someone like "I'm free today"
There is also a tendency for women to sit cross-legged too much.
>Now, I'm regularly meeting with the four women I met at the club.
→ There are also 4 women and a man who is meeting Constance
I think there are few, so I would like you to tell me the trick,
But I think that's why "I'm free today" is popular.
>I can meet women I've met about 20 times without having to worry about being tired.
Never meet again on the way!There were times when I thought.
After all, the feeling may not be understood until it matches many times.
→I am very happy to hear that you have been with us for a long time.
just me?It may be, but I don't say "I won't see you again" to a man I really don't want to see.
When I really think so, it fades out quietly...
> For me, it's about from Halloween to Christmas.
I feel so excited.
→There is also a woman who is meeting with Constance.
Maybe it's because I have a lot of room in my heart.
It's also the season I want you to pass by quickly if you don't have a partner lol
It's a personal matter, but I'm excited for the coming season with fireworks festivals✨
The sound of fireworks and glittering lights are strangely exciting!
Thank you for taking the time to comment for the first time today.
I was very happy!
Thank you in the future.