Thank you always for your support.

For those of you who routinely check the blog for updates, I would appreciate it if you could take a look at it without asking if it's you.

Even during the period of self-restraint, I was still commuting to work from time to time, but in June it became very crowded on the train, so I didn't sit right away even if there was a vacant seat. These days, I'm commuting to work while being interested in the etiquette of the Japanese people, thinking that it's great that everyone is conscious of their distance from others without being instructed by anyone.

I also tried an online drinking party.It's surprisingly fun, isn't it?I've been denying it a lot, but isn't it good to meet online?I finally thought.I am very impressed with the speed with which members respond.

I'm starting to feel the benefits of online, but just real information doesn't win.

Just when I thought I was already married, a mom-hunting site that only male college students can register became a hot topic in the company, so I thought it would be nice to have a younger one, so I quickly registered!Are you serious when you say it's an occupational disease?

 

・You're the older type!

・I'm a graduate student studying law!

・I started because I wanted to meet someone older than me, but soon I will refrain from doing so and I haven't been able to meet anyone!I'd love to talk to you if you don't mind.

・Are you happy to be matched with such a beautiful older sister?

・Aren't you too beautiful?

・Maybe it will be very satisfying, lol

 

Thankfully, I received a lot of messages, and I matched about XNUMX people in XNUMX days, responded to XNUMX people, and narrowed it down to XNUMX person.

Even if I'm excited, I know my purpose.I started researching about XNUMX in XNUMX senior moms who get pocket money!

 

First of all, we exchange LINE and meet.It's a cardinal rule.

Shinjuku, where we meet,

Mamiya: I'm XNUMX minutes late. Sorry.

Graduate student: It's okay, how are you dressed?

Mamiya: A black jacket and a skirt.

I look around in front of GUCCI...wait for XNUMX minutes...

Mamiya: We've arrived!

LINE unread... XNUMX minutes passed...

 

Key!Yarareta! ! ?I'm sorry that you're an aunt! ! !

 

I thought it would be nice if my delusional date was a kid who would eat tea and eat well, and I would be rewarded with a treat. Get your change as transportation expenses!I was thinking about the date plan, but in an instant I was brought back to reality.

 

A cute handsome guy cancels at the last minute

 

A new addition to my word dictionary.I will never be deceived again.

I like a child who is naive and keeps his promises.He seemed to understand a little about the feelings of a male member who had a painful experience, but had to make a new offer and end up failing again.

 

Social distancing isn't something that just started, but it's okay because I've been keeping a distance from people on a regular basis.Sorry for being twisted.

From online to real dating, from real dating to online, neither will be compromised in the future, but the conflict of encounters is likely to continue...

When I spend too much time at home because I keep my distance from other people, I tend to watch videos. miserable

At that point, I heard a comment about my club from a female member.I received an opinion that Mr. Mamiya?

It's out for male members to tell women!I thought, but I was sorry that I had to be conscious of being seen around.

Looking back at my club comment, it's true that there are only negative things written and I don't recommend it at all!

I wondered why.

When I was in charge of "customer voice" before, I wondered if I could do something about the anguish of misunderstandings between men and women by responding to questionnaires.

In conclusion, if you want to improve the accuracy of date matching, you will return to the basics of interviews, that first contact with male and female members is important.

 

I wrote badly in the comments, but it would be nice to meet you!Isn't it better to be happy with each other?I thought it would prevent mismatches, but

It's just a way of saying

For example, dark skin → healthy skin color

A little chubby → Feminine plump feeling

Accustomed → type that men do not leave alone

Or something?

 

It may be an excuse, but basically my stance remains the same.But the way people perceive it is far beyond my imagination.I don't agree, but I also regretted that I should not reject it, and that I had to further improve my vocabulary and sensibility.I'm sorry.

 

It may be days when you can't see the light from the tunnel with nowhere to go, but it's people's thoughts that are scarier than corona.I thought I should do a good deed.Tokyo alert is my fault, surely.

Canceling at the last minute is your responsibility, getting hurt is also your responsibility, and if you take responsibility for everything, it will be a little easier.

The other day, I gave a lecture on how to educate new employees online, and I took up the topic of blogging.Even if the sentences are uncoordinated and difficult to read like mine, the phrasing is not bad, and although I am not proud of it, I am so impressed with the literary talents of the new graduates that I have no need to teach them anymore.It won't be long until everyone goes to work.I raised the hurdle at the end, but please look forward to the new self-introduction blog.

Universe Club Tokyo Unit Enma Mamiya