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Do you often reveal your real name when dating, or do you often call each other by your club name?
I suddenly wondered about such a thing, so I thought about the merits and demerits of each in my own way.

This time it will be an article mainly for male members.

(Here is the previous article)

Advantages of the faction that reveals the real name

Easier to trust

In contrast to men who make offers after knowing a certain amount of information about women, women know very little about men except for men who are dating profiles.
Also, I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to first dates.

Therefore, there is an advantage that you can make the woman feel at ease (= easier to trust) by telling her real name and place of work.

The distance between our hearts seems close

For men who want to have a pseudo-romance, calling each other by their club names may make them feel distant.
I think it's also an advantage to call each other by your real name and also by your first name because it feels more like a lover.

Disadvantages of the faction that reveals the real name

Personal information is transmitted even when things go wrong

We have also written a pledge, and I don't think anyone will abuse it in the first place. I'm worried that I might be ripped off.

Advantages of Club Names (*This is the main topic)

you can separate yourself

Example: If your real name is Saburo Takenaka and your club name is Ichiro Tanaka
If you are introduced by a friend or meet someone at work, we will meet you with some information about Mr. Takenaka's personality and occupation.
And the story of the embarrassment that happened there will remain with Mr. Saburo Takenaka.

On the other hand, if you meet as Mr. Ichiro Tanaka at a dating club, you can create a completely new self separated from Mr. Saburo Takenaka, and you can take bold actions. (* Of course, crimes and acts that hurt women are not allowed.)

For example, even if you are normally quiet, you can become a cheerful character that makes people laugh, or you can become a spoiled character.

In other words, I think that you can liberate yourself, who is usually restrained by your position or established character, or you can take bold action.
Among them, I became aware of a new side of myself that I had not noticed until now (=self discovery).

Disadvantages of club names

feel the distance between hearts

Even if you go on dates many times and become intimate, you don't call each other by your real name, so I feel a bit of a wall.

I'm having trouble making a restaurant reservation

When you make a reservation at a restaurant, you will probably use your real name, so there is a possibility that a woman will find out your last name.

Summary

Those who want to enjoy a pseudo-romance should reveal their real names, and those who want to be safe or who want to act boldly should call each other by their club names.I came to the conclusion that it might be.

I'm not sure if the merits of the club name can be conveyed well due to my lack of writing ability,"There are other merits and demerits like this."And“Because I am ○○, I am in the ○○ group.”I would appreciate it if you could give me a comment like this.

Other comments are of course welcome!

If you have any comments, I will be happy to reply to all of them! !

Thank you for reading to the end.
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Universe Club Osaka Branch
Ryota Fukunaga