2018/08/12

What is NG conversation and Karesen on the first date?

Thank you for all your continued patronage.
Today is another hot and humid day.Is everyone on obon holiday yet?
This is Takita from Universe Club Tokyo Main Store.

Takita is excited about Koshien from morning to evening and softball games at night.
Koshien has a lot of close matches and is very interesting, and there are many hidden handsome guys, and Takita is an impure man who smiles when he sees those plump thighs and buttocks.

Hurry up and write a blog!I thought.

Two major themes today

The first isAbout first date conversation.
When I receive feedback from men and women after a date, I get a lot of feedback about the conversation.

I had a lot of fun talking, but depending on the content, the woman who was smiling may actually be uncomfortable.

When it comes to that scene, I think that the two people who are new to each other are having a conversation while looking at each other.

It may be a caution that I squeezed out and talked about in that tense space.

① Hanashi of men and women who dated in the past

No matter what kind of story this is, I don't have a very good impression because I think that I will be the topic of conversation next.
The woman I met before, I didn't like 〇〇.Compared to that, you're a good woman.no matter how much you praise
I think there is a possibility that you may think that your mouth is light and close your heart.
I felt a little lonely when I was told that I had spoken ill of the woman I dated in the past + I also said ill of Universe Club.
It is important to agree and empathize with anything, but there may be many women who dislike agreeing with negative conversations.

② Hanashi of the membership site

I promised that I would not tell men about the classes that women belong to or comments written by staff members.
Is it the easiest topic to talk about when you are silent?
Come to think of it, why is your class standard?And
It seems that there are also people who talk about things such as the staff wrote in the comments.

③ Hanashi of personal information

Those who want to get to know a woman's real name, school, family structure, and house,
It seems that some people are pressing to show their ID, but it is very scary.Until the woman opens her heart for the first time
It tends to be better not to push too much.

I hope you will pay attention to these three things.

What is the easiest conversation to have?

① I asked about the reason for registering
② Try to introduce yourself to each other, ask them to introduce themselves and check how much you can cover

"I'd like to know more about _______________ in various ways, so if someone asks me something I don't like, I can tell you to keep it a secret."
It may be a good idea to ask a question with a word

and the second themeWithered men who like girls = witheredI learned the word.

The other day, Mr. M, a very rich and stylish manager, requested that he would like to meet Takita once, so I had tea with him for about an hour.

Mr. M is in his 40s and has a good physique.

What kind of place do you usually play?And
Talking about M-sama's type of woman
Mr. M talked about his boyfriend while talking about his hobby golf and talking about various things.

Mr. M suddenly

"I think Karesen is good~"
Please talk to me, he sen?is it?When asked

Withered only = Withered only

That's it.

It's a bad expression, but isn't it necessary to have a dating club targeting wealthy men who are old (withered) as men?That's what it means.

As I get older and become a grandpa (around 70s), I rarely have the opportunity to talk to young women.

He listens to what I have to say and cares about me.

I feel like I can't even talk to young women as a matter of course in my private life.That's why he said that he understands the feelings of older people who go to see young and beautiful women at clubs in Ginza.

Mr. M will also eat, talk, and enjoy freely after that, even if he becomes a grandpa in the future.

I don't know if there are women out there who will enjoy that
There is no resistance at all even in the grandpa generation, and women who enjoy themselves are very valuable, so it may be very valuable to recruit women exclusively for dryness.I received a story from a male perspective.

I think that the expression "withered" is not a very pleasant expression for elderly people.
I learned that even men in their 40s who are currently popular are worried about the future, and that they still want to be in love no matter how old they are. It was an hour when I felt that it was big.

A person like Takita, who lives a normal life, and a business owner who always looks ahead to the future, have a completely different point of view.

If you keep that opinion in mind when you work, you will be very excited about the present, which is not yet completed, and you will learn a lot.

Previously, when I went to study at SM's dating club, I thought that if my tastes and preferences were limited, I would be able to eliminate a large amount of mismatching.

Women in their 70s and older who like men, even if they are not transcendentally beautiful, that alone may be one of their strengths.

There is always something to learn when meeting men.

I would also like to thank you for giving me the opportunity to talk with the president and managers, who I would not normally be able to meet so easily.

Universe Club Tokyo Branch
Ai Takita

Author of this article

2013.1.25 Joined Universe Club: Members at the time (Kida, Aso, Uta, Takita) 2019.4.15-2022.1.4 Take maternity leave.She has returned to being a mother of two.She still finds the work that deals with delicate feelings very interesting and difficult.There are many ways to meet her, but she loves the unique secret garden of dating clubs.She believes that what she tells women strictly = she really can have a good experience with women.I think that a woman who understands her position and understands her own position can have a wonderful experience and polish women through the dating club.She wants to be honest with men as well.Favorite job: The time spent interviewing women and being consulted by men about women Least favorite job: computer work, IT terminology talk to this staff

4 Replies to “What is NG Conversation and Karesen on First Date?”

  1. This kind of article is good for reference.

    On a date the other day, I met a woman and was quickly bombarded with questions and withered.
    In a short time to move from the meeting place to the restaurant
    First of all, whether you are married, the number and frequency of dates, and are you dating any women?I was asked in rapid succession such as
    I was tired of it, but I changed my mind positively and faced the date (laughs)

    Also, the topic of the first date is good, and the topic of Univa staff is good to talk about.
    Mr. 〇〇 in the interview was 〇〇, right?

    Next time, when I go on a date with the woman interviewed by Mr. Takita,
    Mr. Takita's waist seems to be XNUMX centimeters?
    Is it okay if I shake the topic? !

    1. hot blog fan
      good morning.Thank you for reading! You're a very positive woman lol. hey!!
      yes!Mr. Takita's waist is said to be close to 90 cm.
      But why, Mr. Hojo, do you know that?Did you find out what women don't want to say about their waist?!If Enjo-sama doesn't say so, please use Takita by all means♪

  2. I want to see Mr. Takita again!Thank you for your blog.Anyway, the second half (^_^) is the first half.
    It is a message to the existing male and female members, and it is also a proposal to women, including those who have not yet joined, saying, "Why don't you raise the age group of men and have a shallow relationship?"That's excellent.

    1. Dear Pleasure Pilot Good morning!! Thank you for your comment!!Is that so? I'm very happy!I just realized that Takita's study of the word Karesen is a message to existing members and a proposal for women! I am grateful to Mr. M (who taught me Karesen).When I heard the story, I thought, yeah, do you need a woman for the grandpa generation?I thought a little about it, but I thought again that I still haven't been able to offer it from the perspective of men.Papa-katsu is trendy, but encounters between men and women are limitless.

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