Thank you for all your continued patronage.
This is Fukunaga from the Universe Club Osaka branch.
I would like to write about an incident that happened a while ago that disappointed a man.
This is the story of Mr. D, a friendly male member in his 40s, and Mr. E, a university student.
The setting was decided smoothly, and we even made a reservation for the restaurant based on Mr. E's preferences.
It was a date from the evening, but about 30 minutes before the date, one notice came to the club.
"Mr. E changed his relationship type from C to B."(If you change the relationship type, you will be notified)
Yeah!Isn't this today's date?And soon!murmured the office.
I immediately called Mr. D to report it, but he didn't answer, so I just sent a text message,
When I called Mr. E and asked the reason for the change,"Is it okay to change? The person I dated before was very pushy and it was hard to refuse, so I chose B."And that.
“I would like to confirm with D-sama how you feel, but time is running out, so please go straight ahead.”End the conversation.
At that time, Mr. D called me back and apologized for reporting the circumstances.
“No matter how long it takes, it’s too late?And that.
I really appreciate it.I just felt sorry.
It was like he was dumbfounded rather than angry.
I was able to get a date as planned, but it seems that it was not a good meeting, probably because I was feeling cold.
I'm not saying that changing your dating type is bad.
However, in this case, I should have changed my mind at the end of the previous date, so I should have changed it at that point.
At that point, I could have asked the woman why she changed her relationship type and how she was feeling, and made a decision after reporting to the man.
The relationship type is only a guideline.
Ultimately, I think it depends a lot on how you feel.
However, the size that is emphasized differs depending on the man, but it is one of the important factors in deciding whether to go on a date, just like looks and the impression of the video.
Of course, I would like you to make a careful decision, and if you change your mind, please let me know.
I hope to be of service.
Universe Club Osaka Branch
Mr. Fukunaga
I'm a man, but unfortunately I don't think women are the only ones to blame in this matter.
I'm a woman, so I think I might change my mind at the last minute.
After thinking about it for a long time, I think you may find yourself thinking, "I really don't want to be forced to ask you out...".
I can understand the feelings of the male members who are angry about the change of relationship type just before, but it is not a custom, so it is better to be open-minded and relaxed enough to accept it. I think.
Fukunaga-san, please don't blame yourself more than necessary because women aren't a job either.
Oh, it was a misspelling of "women are human too".
Mr. Nakagawa
Thank you for your comment!
I had assumed that it was after the previous date that a woman's feelings changed,
Maybe that's where my hesitation came from, and maybe it was on that day that I finally changed my mind from C to B.
It may have been a little biased toward the male perspective, or the perspective of the staff.
Your comment has broadened my horizons.
Since this is a job that involves people, there will be troubles like this on a daily basis, but I would like to work on it positively.
Thank you for your valuable opinion.
Is there such a difference between C and B?
If it's C, it's just that the guard seems to be a little loose, but since it's C, it's an adult relationship from the first day!I don't think so.So far, it's been C only once since the first day.
That's why when I meet a woman from C, I almost never ask her out on the first day.It's the second time, isn't it?
If you can make progress from the first date to the second date, you may think that the feeling is right.
The women who chose B and the women who chose C don't differ much in terms of adults' attitudes and attitudes toward dating.
But when I met the woman in C, she was very guarded, so when I suggested changing to B, she immediately changed to B.
Well, I think it's better to think that A and D are in separate frames, and the difference between B and C is subtle, but what do you think?
Eye head 12:50
Thank you for your comment!
Also, sorry for the late reply.
First of all, I laughed a little at the name like a radio name!
Thank you for your opinion that B and C are not that different.
If you have a sense of 12:50 on the inner corner of the eye, you can divide it into A, BC, and D.
Some men said that there is a wall between B and C like AB and CD, so
I thought it was really different.
Thank you for your valuable opinion.
I am a female member.
I also think that the difference between B and C is subtle like Mr.
I chose C when I registered, but I was confused because I was invited to an adult relationship as if it was just a matter of eating, without prior negotiations, as if it were only natural.
Only one person told me that I heard that you were hesitating for B, and there was only one person for the first meal.
He's very smart, and since then we've grown into an adult relationship, but he treats women with care, so I'm always looking forward to meeting him.
After choosing B, I feel that I am getting offers from people who still want to meet, even if they are a little less fun, so I am welcoming them on dates with peace of mind.
Anonymous
Thank you for your comment!
Also, sorry for the late reply.
Thank you for your feedback from a female member's point of view.
It was very helpful for me to talk about my experience.
In the case of Anonymous, by changing the relationship type,
The stance of men who give offers has changed.
＞「I always look forward to meeting you.」
I am glad that I was able to meet a good person by looking at this place.
Please build a good relationship from now on♪
Whether it's A, B, C, or D, if they meet, they're the same, but the point is, as you said, it's not customs, so even if it's E, the woman has the right to refuse, and the reason for that can be anything. So, on the contrary, if the man himself is attractive, the manual conditions that have been prepared until now will be blown away at once and you will instantly fall into a wonderful relationship.
From that point of view, it can be said that there is nothing wrong with women. I think it's better not to change the profile content in.Or, instead of silently changing, consult with the club and have the other party act as an intermediary and ask for a judgment.Changing the number of stars and the requirements for a man between the time you receive an offer and the time you meet is just rock-paper-scissors.The other day, there was a blog about not selling discounts to female members.I hope that club management will become even stricter.
well
Thank you for your comment!
Also, sorry for the late reply.
> "If you have received the offer after receiving the application, I think it would be better not to change the contents of the profile at that time."
I appreciate your opinion.
Perhaps because of those voices, we are now able to know when and from what to what.
>"Changing between the time you receive an offer and the time you meet is rock-paper-scissors."
That's right.This blog was too short-lived, so I wasn't able to consider the change in advance, but even though the woman's feelings have changed, please don't change the relationship type as it is. (Of course Maamaa-sama didn't say that) I think it's a worse thing.
Basically, when the evaluation drops or the relationship type changes, we would like to promptly report it to the man and ask for his judgment.
＞「Unilateral Profile Change」
In order to prevent this from happening, first of all, I will try to conduct a thorough interview during the basic initial interview and use club comments as a basis for making decisions.
Thank you for your valuable opinion.