2024/02/29

10 patterns of bad feedback after a date

We become indebted to. This is Matsubara from the Kyoto branch.
If a date unfortunately doesn't develop into a good relationship, what are the reasons?
We have picked up the actual voices.Let's get right to it!

 

female → male

・We walked quite a bit from the meeting place to the meal place.In that case, we wanted to meet at the meal place.
・Dirty way of eating
・The exchange of messages before meeting is too frequent/too long
・Forcing no rubber
・High-pressure ・Talk to the store staff

male to female

・I can see how they want to just get transportation expenses and break up in a short time.
- Wearing casual clothes even though you are eating at a hotel restaurant is not appropriate for the occasion.
・Complain about other men
・I didn't receive a thank you note after the date.
・Low energy and lack of excitement in conversation

There are some harsh opinions, but what this means is that you just need to stop acting like the above!

female → male

・We walked quite a bit from the meeting place to the meal place.In that case, we wanted to meet at the meal place.
→Everyone is afraid of being found out, and most people want to avoid activities that expose their faces, such as walking a lot. It is safe to meet at a store or take a taxi.

・Dirty way of eating
→Akan

・The exchange of messages before meeting is too frequent/too long
→I understand how you feel, but you might get tired if you communicate so often even before you have built a relationship.Maybe it would be better to have a light chat in addition to the business.🦆

・Forcing no rubber
→Akan, that's out of the question, why? Stop it now.

・High-pressure ・Talk to the store staff
→Be a gentleman to both women and store staff.Women are also full of anxiety before their first date.If you treat them like a gentleman, your sensitivity will increase significantly.

male to female

・I can see how they want to just get transportation expenses and break up in a short time.
→Stop it and respect men. 

・Even though I was eating at a hotel restaurant, I was dressed casually even though I had told them I wanted a formal meal.
→ "I don't have formal clothes..." If that's the case, please let us know in advance!

・Complain about other men
→That's out of the question. Is it necessary to hear other people's stories in the first place?

・I didn't receive a thank you note after the date.
→Contact me, definitely contact me

・Low energy and lack of excitement in conversation
→I don't feel bad for being interested in men. Even if you're not good at talking, you should be able to listen hard! Please be interested and ask any questions about work or anything!

 

I sincerely hope that you will be able to build a wonderful relationship with each other with consideration and respect since this is your precious opportunity to meet m(_ _)m
If you have any concerns about your date, please feel free to contact our staff ☺

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