2019/03/31

Operation to overcome shyness

We become indebted to.
This is Fukuda from Universe Club Omiya Branch.

This time it is a blog for shyness by shyness!

When I am doing an interview, I am sometimes told, "You're a good storyteller!"
Fukuda is not a good talker at all, and in private he is completely shy.
Even during an interview, when I find out that someone is shy, I somehow feel a sense of familiarity!

By the way, 7% of Japanese people seem to be shy!
I want to do something about my shyness!
I want to be able to talk more!
Isn't there a lot of people who think so?

"What are your hobbies?"
"Listening to music"

For example, I think that some people end the conversation like this.

As an improvement,

The law of and You
"Listening to music"
+ "What song do you listen to?"

■ Say what you think
"Listen to music"
+ "Recently, the songs of the artists I listened to were very good."

Just adding something trivial + α will expand the range of conversation at once!

Conversely, conversations that give the other person a negative image are
- Difficult political issues
・ Good or bad appearance
・Dirty jokes

In particular, we have received a lot of comments from female members about dirty jokes, saying, "The other stories were good, but I didn't draw them."
Of course, some people may be okay with such conversations, but I think it's better to avoid a little if you're meeting someone for the first time.

Ideally, a conversation that doesn't end with a yes or no,
It's quite difficult to suddenly be able to have a good tempo conversation...
But if the other person also talks to me,
I am interested in myself!I feel so happy!

How about starting with a small step to overcome shyness?

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