Thank you for visiting the Universe Club blog.
This is Kazuma Hamada from the Fukuoka branch.

In this blog, I would like to tell you about a sad thing that happened recently.

Recently, I was drinking with a friend who was talking about the desire for approval in my previous blog, "The essence of dating clubs is considered by young people."

I'll call him Rhythm here because his face looks a little like Stupid Rhythm.
* Since it is a great deal, we will reproduce that time in a conversation format.

Hamada: But yeah. You look like you're having fun with her.

Rhythm: Not really.

Hamada: Well.

…that's right.

to women on dating apps

"Let's go to the hotel!"

This man, who sent me tons of messages every night with no twists or turns, had actually been saying for a long time that he was thinking of getting married.

Rhythm: I'm busy.

Hamada: “Speaking of which, lately I’ve been really busy with things related to her.”

Rhythm: Well, I have a child.

Hamada: “…Huh?”

Rhythm: "Huh? Didn't I say that?"

Rhythm "I'm two months pregnant now"

When I heard this word, I couldn't understand the meaning so much that I thought I had forgotten Japanese for a moment.

Anyway, I don't know what to say, so I decided to capture it as a blur

Hamada: “Why not!”

When I made a strong tsukkomi

Rhythm "Seriously..."

he was serious.

Apparently, they were really going to get married.

It seems that Rhythm-kun managed to do what was called a ``successful marriage'' on the internet, ``a perfect marriage''.

When I found out that one of my few friends was getting married, I suddenly felt lonely when I thought that I wouldn't have many chances to drink with them from now on.

Perhaps because of that loneliness, Hamada suddenly thought.

"I'll get married too..."

For the time being, Hamada has no contact other than Rhythm, even if he wants to hold a joint party.

I thought I'd go to the town con.

Apply from a website.

Many events are posted on this site.

For the time being, the domineering Hamada thought, "I don't mind anything as long as I meet him!"

And then we arrived at the venue...

A clerk-like person is busy working in an ordinary izakaya.

However, strangely, there is no one like a town constaff...

Hamada: “I’m sorry.

Izakaya clerk ``Machikon?

This guy, while creating an atmosphere like what are you talking about, the clerk seems like he can't grasp the situation I'm talking about.

For the time being, I said, "I'll come back later and check it again," so I went outside and looked at the email on the application screen.

…Then the schedule of the event was a completely different day and it was a different schedule with work.

Is this what it feels like to be about to collapse?

Rhythm got married and became a father.

On that day, I went to the application site while drinking so much alcohol by myself

"I'm sorry. I made a reservation without confirming the schedule."

``I know that you won't get your money back, so I'm only reporting that you're absent.''

I was doing something like a defeat process that didn't even fight.

I was immediately contacted by the site.

"If you apply for another event this time, we will refund the fee for this matter."

I let go of the glass I was drinking at once and this time I looked at the details so that there would be a hole and made a reservation on a day without work!

And on the day! ! ! !

The venue was a very stylish bar.

Hamada: “I’m sorry!

Bar clerk: “Ma… Chico… huh?”

(Huh? Deja vu...?)

Bar clerk "Oh! Machicon!"

(Oh good…)

Bar clerk ``The street party has been canceled. Didn't you contact me?''

Hamada"!?"

When I looked at my phone in a hurry, I saw an email about 3 hours ago.

"This event was canceled due to lack of participants..."

…Then please listen to Kazuma Hamada

"Cancellation on the day of the whole town"

……just kidding.

Of course, I wasn't in a good mood at the time, but I thought that because of my profession, there might be times like this.

"Can't you help?"

I went home while defiantly.

But Hamada.

I thought about how I could have prevented this kind of ending.

First, Hamada's responsibility.

Responsibility of Hamada (user side)
・I booked an event without knowing my schedule (this is the culprit of everything)
・I didn't see any contact from the event organizer after booking

I think it comes down to this.

If I were to use a club as an example...
・ Without confirming the date and time that the woman is available for a date, make an offer based on the excitement of the moment without looking at any information, saying, "That's cute! Hi-ho!"
・When I was freeing my own schedule, I didn't notice that the woman sent me an email saying that the date was NG.

I don't think there is such a crazy male member in our club, but I thought it would be better to check the profile enough, and I was ashamed to write about my experience.

We recommend that you read the profile information thoroughly.

On a different note, there are only a few days left until April 4th (Tuesday) for the Western Japan Transportation Expense Campaign!

We look forward to receiving inquiries from many male members.

Universe Club Fukuoka Branch
Kazuma Hamada