Thank you all for your help.

It was June when there were many staff who got sick due to cold or heat.

I've heard of May disease, but June was Takita's most conflicted month.

I'm not the type to be swayed by the weather, whether it's raining or sunny

Maybe it's because I'm in my mid-thirties, but I feel like my body has changed a little.

Also, I apologize for talking about myself, but Takita's grandmother turned 83 last month.

My strong-willed sister recently told her grandmother

“Grandma, if you immediately decline an invitation from someone, they won’t invite you next time!!”

“Grandma, always talk about worries and anxieties! Be positive!!!”

It's like he said that in a strong tone.

Grandmother in Takita

"I don't know how to make it difficult for young people to move their bodies and not to bother them," he says sadly.

Of course, it's because I want to see my grandmother forever

Stay positive with just your feelings!I can understand the feeling of my sister who thinks.

But only the person himself knows his true feelings.

There is learning that it seems to be similar but it is completely different.

Takita used to be an oddball, as you can probably imagine, and he wore nice clothes for the countryside, traveled abroad, and was from a not-poor family.

Did you stand out from your childhood because of that?It was a nostalgic existence, and elementary and junior high school was easy prey for seniors and classmates.

I feel that in the countryside, people who deviate from the norm were not seen very well.

However, Takita was also a person who wanted to express his own opinions quite frankly, so I think that was also the reason.

Maybe I was just imposing my own ideas.Thinking about it now.

In the past, I was not very good at socializing, and I wondered what a friend was.I wonder where my friends are from where to where

There was a time when I thought about the distance between people, probably until I was in high school.

People around me think I'm not good at it, but I still get nervous and get tired.

When he was around 20 years old, I felt that Takita changed little by little from the parable of human relations called Hedgehog's Dilemma.

A parable about human relationships created by psychologist Freud based on the fable of the philosopher Schopenhauer.

 In human relationships, if you get too close to each other, you will be hurt and hurt, and the relationship will deteriorate. 

On the other hand, if you keep a distance, you will become estranged and you will not be able to build a close relationship.The story that people have their own optimal sense of distance

Parents and children can see unpleasant things if they are too close.

Best friends, couples, bosses, subordinates.

But there are definitely good things in people, and I want to be someone who can find them.

Ever since I started thinking about Takita, I've always been afraid of humans, but I think it's really fun to get to know them.

There were many difficulties when I joined this dating club.

For example, I know how men feel.That means.

Moreover, I am blessed or hurt by efforts, luck, personal connections, and various other things that are not around me.

People who have much more experience in life than Takita

I've been wanting to know what those people want for a long time.

Women who have never had a relationship with a job, who have experienced loneliness that Takita has never experienced,

Those who have been severely hurt by others, those who are extremely dependent on something

Some of them are wonderful, but some of them have twisted personalities!Hundreds of interesting people who think.

It was difficult to get to know him.

Women who work in sex and AV are the type that I haven't seen around me until now.

What kind of weird person is doing this?There was also myself who had prejudice.

So, I learned a little bit about the industry from Kida.

There are levels in customs, and there are people who are working hard with pride, not being reluctant to do AV.

I also learned that there are many.

It's also really difficult to set.

The feeling that you can't understand until the two of you get together.

This is a difficult thing to see from the staff side.

The difficult thing I think about right now is about the men and women themselves

It means that it is difficult to meet for the second time and lead to the second date.

Getting an offer is also a miracle

Let's go on a date and spend about 4 hours for the first time

What percentage of couples have a second date?

From a member the other day

I went on a second date with Gko-chan, who Takita-san introduced me to!

To tell you the truth, it was the first time I met you in the universe and wanted to see you again.I received a report.

Oh, right?

I haven't been able to introduce you to the encounters that have the strength of ties that you can meet for the second or third time.I thought.

Of course, from a man's point of view, a referral fee is charged each time a woman is introduced.

If possible, I would like to have a proper and continued relationship.Although many people think that

It's not free and above all a waste of time to try to invest time in an unsatisfactory woman again

From a woman's point of view, now it's not just a dating club

It's a dating site, a dad activity app, and there's no point in putting up with it and continuing.

The motive for joining a man who recently joined

[because it is popular]

Takita never felt more scared than those words.

The fad will come to an end.

Now, even if the number of men and women who join the club increases due to the trend, we will continue to appreciate the original and true splendor of our work.

If you don't understand it properly, the end will come sooner or later.

Dating clubs are dying out, though men and women will never stop meeting.

New things are important.But I want to be old-fashioned.I think so.

A dating club is a place to find lovers.

heart healed, healed

A relationship that fills and fills the body.

Of course I won't deny that my father is a foodie and earns pocket money.

I think that if you put yourself in the other person's shoes and think a little more, you'll be able to meet even better.

I think that the staff will grow if they work more like men and women.

How much do you want me

I don't like this, but this is OK!

There is a time limit!

Once your claim is hidden in your heart, first of all, know what men are looking for in yourself.

Think like a man.

You can't register at a place like this while you're eating, so how much?And

For women who are full of anxiety

It may be true that men are superior, but please try to understand the feelings of women a little more.

100% out of 20% of first time women can't say their true feelings. (Takita-like)

At first, it may be that each other is making concessions.

But the beginning is the key.

The first is a thin, thin thread.

I would be happy if you could stack it one by one and make it a strong relationship.

It became a rambling sentence again, but people's hearts are difficult, but if you understand them, you will be happy

I would be happy if I could tell you that.

Universe Club Tokyo

Ai Takita