2018/04/18

I thought I knew it, but I realized that it's lame

 

Thank you for all your continued patronage.
It's very cold today, but the temperature will warm up from this weekend!It seems to go up.

This isn't Takita's diary, so it's not a good idea to write too much about your personal feelings.
Please forgive me.

When I called my grandmother recently,
I'm kind of uneasy.scared.I feel uneasy about going out somewhere.He said.

Viewed from Takita
At the age of 82, I was able to eat, move on my own, talk to my grandchildren, and even have great-grandchildren.
Grandma is a happy person.even if you talk

from my grandmother
When I might be sick and unable to move, and when I might become senile
I don't want to burden myself with nursing care, so if I can't go to the bathroom by myself, I'll go to a facility as soon as possible.That's what I feel like.

But grandma.
People have grown up thanks to the unconditional love of their parents since they were born and the people around them.
When my parents were busy, my grandma took a taxi and played rhythmic gymnastics, piano, skating, and violin.
It's because you took me to the dance class, six times a week, that I didn't become a latchkey kid.
When I was in high school, I had to get on the first train at 5:55 in the morning for morning practice.
Grandma was making bento from 4 in the morning.Even if I gradually become unable to do something
I haven't been able to repay even 100/1 of the kindness I've received.I told him that I should rely on people around me like I did when I was born again.

I cried when I hung up the phone.

People can't see the surroundings at all when they are hard on themselves.
Now Takita himself is trying his best to live in Tokyo
I was relieved that the power to feel was waning.

I used to feel guilty working for the Universe Club.
However, I have grown so much now.
And at first, they couldn't even remember my name, Ai Takita.
I'm looking at Takita's blog now.We have more opportunities to speak out at events and more.

What is Takita's purpose in communicating about himself?
This person is the staff.Because I want you to know.Because we want you to feel safe.
And because we want you to trust us.

It's important to think about this job.
However, Takita believes that what you feel in your heart is the most important thing.

I am often misunderstood.

Because this industryCheat from men and steal money.
Women are Sakura.Actually, I guess I can manipulate women.

Some men continue to choose good women
Some men wonder why they go to this type of woman.

Conversely, there are women who receive inquiries from men who are a bit of a maniac in everything.
There are also women who are only highly rated men who get offers.

For example, let's say you have a bucket full of rice.
There are three red rice grains in the bucket.even if it is said
If you can't find the red grain of rice
Does it really contain rice grains?Isn't it in when you doubt it?I can't believe it.

On the other hand, when I was watching him put three red grains of rice in,
I think I will keep looking until I find it with certainty.

Before the small doubts and discomfort gradually grew, Takita
What men want and what women want
Men's feelings and the other side of women's words

I feel that it is one of the important jobs to correct the things that are out of sync with each other.

Also, what I really feel when I'm in the position of raising juniors,
that isI hope you know you don't know what to say, that means.

Just the other day, Tokyo staff Mr. A (male)
men'sShe was such a womanto the feedback that
I got it!We will share it internally!I found you replying with
oh my god!I thought.

Men, listen to me with a little joke!against the glue
Fixed phrase!A reply like

No no no no.
I don't think so.

I told you that I want you to think more about what men want to say and how you want them to respond.

Most of the men in Universe Club are said to be business owners or successful people.
In fact, it may be that you want to express your dissatisfaction in your heart.

Everyone is kind, so suddenly
You bastard!Are you licking me! !It used to be said that
Not much is said now.

I can't talk to the staff who don't even know what I want to say.
I think that there may be male members who think so.

Of course, Takita doesn't think he understands everything the man wants to say.
But maybe you want to sayOr is this your understanding?and
We are conscious not to think that we have confirmed and understood.

There is no one who is immersed in complaints for just one mistake.
When the flow until then or when an irrelevant answer comes to the point
Even if you spend precious time and money, it's not worth paying for such a misunderstanding staff!and
I think it's frustrating.

Especially Japanese people have a tatemae
What kind of woman were you?Even if there is a lot of dissatisfaction after hearing that
There were no particular problems.I feel like I've been answered.

Our service can never be a perfect score of 120 points.
I tried my best, I tried hard, I knew
for professionalsit doesn't work as intendedI think.

I would like to become a professional of the dating club together with my juniors.

Universe Club Tokyo Main Store
Ai Takita

Author of this article

2013.1.25 Joined Universe Club: Members at the time (Kida, Aso, Uta, Takita) 2019.4.15-2022.1.4 Take maternity leave.She has returned to being a mother of two.She still finds the work that deals with delicate feelings very interesting and difficult.There are many ways to meet her, but she loves the unique secret garden of dating clubs.She believes that what she tells women strictly = she really can have a good experience with women.I think that a woman who understands her position and understands her own position can have a wonderful experience and polish women through the dating club.She wants to be honest with men as well.Favorite job: The time spent interviewing women and being consulted by men about women Least favorite job: computer work, IT terminology talk to this staff

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