happy retirement and sad retirement

Thank you for all your continued patronage.
Half a year has passed since I joined the company, but I still get lost in Umeda in my private life.
This is Fukunaga from Universe Club Osaka Branch.

last timeI wrote my first column for male members.But,
This time"Happy Retirement and Sad Retirement"with the titleAbout the reasons why women withdraw after dating and the feelings of the staff at that timeI will write a blog for you.
It's going to be a long sentence like an example, so I'd appreciate it if you could read it when you have time.

A woman who has finished a date may contact you to withdraw from the membership.
At that time, if you don't mind, I will ask you to tell me the reason, but the reason can be roughly divided into the following three.

① I met a good man
② I was told to stop by a man
③ I thought dating was hard and not suitable for me

When I write it like thisThere is a possibility of withdrawal even if it was a good date or a bad dateI understand this.

In any case, the result of women quitting is the same, but the feelings at that time are completely different.

■ ① I was able to meet a good man
①で“I met a good man, so I want to withdraw. I’m glad I mustered up the courage to join the Universe Club.I recently received an email stating,goodAnd the inside of the office became a blessing mood.
Because the number of registered women is reduced by one"It was great"not"Don't say that and let's continue! Isn't it better to have more than one papa?"may be a business, but in this case, as far as I know, such an unreasonable detention is not done.

② I was told to stop by a man
②で"The man I dated told me to quit the club, so I'm leaving."Unfortunately there are times.
It depends on the situation, but basically I ask the woman if it is okay to confirm the facts, and if it is okay, I will confirm with the man.
I think that you want to continue the relationship with that person in the future, so I'm sure the date itself was good, or at least not bad.
"I want to make the one I like my own"I understand how you feel, and I think it depends on how you convey it and how you perceive it, but ifExtortionif you are doingViolation of the rulesTherefore, please refrain from doing so.

③ I thought dating was hard and not suitable for me
③で"I don't think dating clubs are for me, so I'm leaving."And sometimes I get an email.There are various reasons for that, and I'm sure it wasn't a good meeting, but if you met multiple people and thought, it's a different story, but if it's the first date,I'd like to meet a few more people before making a decision.I think.
People are people, so there will definitely be compatibility and not compatibility,There are a lot of really nice men out there, so I don't want you to lose the chance to meet a wonderful person who might be waiting for you later..

■Finally
There are pros and cons to the industry in the world, but even if the relationship between the two is accompanied by a price, it is true that in the case of pattern ①, at least we were able to provide a wonderful encounter for these two people. I feel that there is no difference between this and other industry recognized by the world, such as a recruitment agency that connects companies and a marriage agency that supports marriage between people.
Reduce the pattern of withdrawal in ② or ③ as much as possible,I would like to aim for women to withdraw from the pattern of ①.
It feels contradictory to write that I am aiming to withdraw, but it is not a scheme that going on dates with various people because it does not lead to good encounters will increase the number of dates and sales will increase, but if you create a lot of good encounters and join the Universe Club. It is a scheme that sales will increase as a result of many women coming because of the track record and reputation of having good encounters.Win-Win-Win for men, women, and clubsWe would like to aim for

Thank you for reading to the end.
Thank you for your continued support of Universe Club.

Universe Club Osaka Branch (Umeda)
Ryota Fukunaga