Recently, to ease the tension of women during interviewsOneeWhen I acted as

quite seriousOneeThis is shimoda, who has been thought to be.
Huh, is that wrong?Don't say that!

This year's winter is likely to be colder than usual due to the "La Niña" phenomenon.

Are you all staying warm?

Shimoda, who has a low vocabulary, eats ramen (with wasabi as a condiment)
"Mmm, it tastes like sushi."And

to a woman during a photo shoot
"It's nice!" or "It's super nice!"
I have only one pattern of praise words.

Look at the ramen in which all the vegetables in Jiro-style ramen are replaced with meat
"Meat Violence"It's a little pitiful vocabulary that makes me smug,

Although it is a poor word,
I would like to share some thoughts on recent women's relationship type B.

From a man after a recent date
"Even though I'm a type B, I was told that future relationships would be difficult. I'm not prepared enough!"
or

from women
"Even though I'm a type B, I didn't want to be lured in."
We rarely get feedback.

Of course, women are doing dating type fraud,
It's not uncommon to say that you don't think about having a relationship that goes beyond meals from the beginning.

However, humans are creatures that want to run away if they are chased,
I think it might be better to try pulling instead of pushing.

When you say goodbye on the first date
"You came on a date, so when can we go next time? Can we go to the hotel next time?"And so on,

When I saw the demonstration sales
"Oh, you buy it when you stop and watch, right?when do you buy? ”
I thought it was the same as being asked.

……Yeah, something is wrong.

In fact, I think that men are filled with expectations about how many dates they can have a deep relationship,

On the female side, it's not a matter of the number of times, it's difficult to have a clear relationship,
If there is a feeling, it is not unreasonable to have such a relationship,
Isn't that what it feels like?

However, the feeling of a woman is quite difficult,
It is a troublesome place that there is no such thing as "OK if you do this!" .

I also wrote an article about this in the column, so please take a look!

I think there are many people who are busy during the year-end and New Year holidays, so please take care of yourself!

Happy new year! (a little early)

Ryo Shimoda

Dating Club "Universe Club" is recruiting male and female members with high vocabulary from all over the country.

An interview, an interview, and an examination are required for admission.

For details, please contact the local concierge