Thank you for always watching.
I'm Katsuki, who recently started a recording diet.
During interviews, I often come across women with a high sense of beauty.
As an interviewer myself, every day makes me think that I must dress well.
Yes, it's a different story.
I often receive the following email from a male member the day after a date.
"I made an offer because I'm dating type C, but when I asked her out, she said it would be better to start with a meal!
Isn't this a dating type scam! !The music club is guiding the dating type! ! ! ”
I think there are quite a few such contacts between staff.
But I would like to take this opportunity to tell you.
that is"disclaimer.
The fact that the club side is inducing the dating typeimpossible.
In the first place, dating type C is OK if the feeling matches, so the probability of being invited from the first day is 2% with 50 choices of YES or NO.
I've heard people say, ``All the women in dating type C have been good from the first day!''
I think it's because the feeling matched the woman.
"Your winning rate is high~"
But,previousFemaleとwoman this time Thedifferent woman
why"Please start with meals" "I can only think about meals" "I was guided to the dating type by the club"Did you say
I'm afraid that if I refuse on the spot, I'll be furious,If it's the club's fault, we'll somehow get through this place,The financial conditions didn't match, and I didn't think it was okay to be held., For these reasons, women are refused, such as "I can only think about meals."
As a woman, I'm full of anxiety until I meet you.
Before we met, I never had direct contact with him, and the music club taught me about men.club nameとAge distributionとwork contentとwhat kind of man are youIt is a sentence of about 3 lines written.
So meeting on the day and having sex is quite a hurdle.
I would like women to become gentlemanly men who can think, "I can have an adult relationship with this person."
From that day on, I wouldn't want to have sex with a man who rationalizes what I can't do.Not invited in the first place.
*But I don't mean to hold women's shoulders.
Among the many female members, she chose me and treated me to delicious food.
I want you to think about how to refuse based on that.
It's scary to say NO directly, I know how you feel.
Then you can send a thank-you email after the date, so
"Thank you very much for your precious time today. I was happy to invite you, but I couldn't think about the future with you.
Please tell me your feelings straight like this.
I think it's rude not to tell the other person how you really feel.
After that, even if I cut off contact or blocked him, the club would say, "Why didn't you go out with me?!"
No questioning.
A concierge is a role that gives you an opportunity to meet people, even setting up a date.
After that, if possible, I would like to develop a relationship with just the two of us.
I don't know how it ends!
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Katsuki Madoka
It's pretty tough.Well, there are considerable individual differences in the awareness of women's relationship types even if they are of the same rank.Even if the concierge thinks that the concierge has fully explained it, and as a result he thinks he understands how women receive it, some people have a completely different understanding.In many cases, I make decisions based on my preconceived notions or what I think I understand.On top of that, my interpretation changes depending on my mood.It seems that there are times when a male member gives a funny explanation and a woman takes it seriously and changes it.I don't think it's going to go well if you try to read too much from the comments and more.On top of that, I'm sure they'll say things you wouldn't expect in real-life excuses.I think men know that too.Please allow me to complain a little and clear my sorrow.
Dear sat1, Thank you for always looking at my blog!Is it a relief... I didn't think of that.Certainly, if you complain, there are only staff.In that case, I would be happy if you could say, "Hey Katsuki-san! Listen to me!" (laughs)
First of all, I think you should keep in mind the fact that male members are private and people who are not friendly to women are not friendly clubs.Just because you joined the club doesn't mean you'll suddenly become popular.My impression is that the two people at the Chiba branch are doing good interviews.I don't think each branch has guided the dating type, but it's an hour, an hour and a half interview, and I don't think she can be a 1% accurate dating type.I think that the type of relationship you choose will be influenced by the psychological state of the woman interviewed on the day, and it may change depending on the time lag until the date.The person I met recently was a person whose relationship type changed from A to B to C in a short period of time.When I asked him why he chose A on the date, he said that he was nervous on the day and chose A. , The day after the date, when I reported to the branch that I was a good girl and was definitely C, it was immediately changed to platinum.Has the branch manager changed?It's not Mr. Takita (laughs)
Even though it's just "I was hated, I was dumped", there will never be an old man who can't admit to himself that simple fact (= I was hated even by a woman who depends on money), so the staff I think that people will work hard forever.If possible, it would be nice if you could devise a system that would allow male members to give feedback as to why they were dumped.
Dear A, Thank you for your comments!After all, I think there are people who think badly about the club because they trust the women more than the staff because they actually meet the women.In the future, even if I receive a similar message, I can only tell you the content of the blog, but I think it's a story that won't go away forever, so I'll do my best to explain it! > If possible, a mechanism for male members to get feedback on "why did you get dumped?"If you refuse to do so to a woman, I will give you guidance during the interview so that you can clearly tell her, and I would also like to consider if there is anything else I can do!
Well, Madoka-san, probably more than half of the settings end up being unsuccessful for some reason. The "why" must be speculated.Although it can be said that trial and error is the real pleasure of dating, I feel that the club, which acts as an intermediary, still has some role to play.Find new ideas in your daily work that will lead to self-improvement for both men and women. (I think this staff blog is one function. I think it's the most interesting part of the universe.)
"Don't expect too much" and "Accept what happened in front of you".I agree.On top of that, the only person who can change is myself, so I'm going to "make an effort to shorten the distance emotionally with women (with the help of Yukichi-san), and raise the odds." Kane.Then, as one of the male members, I would like to expect marketing (parameters), screening (quality), and matching (compatibility) from Kuru Rakubu.Also, I would be grateful if you would listen to my stories (especially in settings that didn't go well) and give me some kind of feedback or suggestions that lead to the next step.
Mr. Katsuki Thank you for your continued support.Your blog is fun and very helpful.I have met with 10 people so far.I am very happy to participate.Well, I always get a call just before we meet, but there was only one person who didn't give his number.At the club, is this point left to the person himself?Only this person has the impression that the relationship type is A rather than C.It's a selfish decision.smile
Hayato Thank you for your comment!It's a clumsy sentence, but I'm honored that you understood Kazuki's feelings.thank you. >In that case, as one of the male members, I would like to expect marketing (parameters), screening (quality), and matching (compatibility) from Mr. Rakubu.As a concierge, I would like to measure improvements in screening and matching.I'm also curious about the story of the setting that didn't go well, so I'd like to create opportunities to listen to female members in various ways in the future.And when we hear stories from female members, we will write them anonymously, so we would like to post them in our columns and blogs.I would be happy if you could look forward to future movements!
Dear Civil Servant from Chiba, Thank you for your comment!It leads to the courage to write when you say that the blog is fun.thank you! > There was only one person who did not notify the number.At the time of the interview, we ask that some people refuse to notify us, so please notify us of your cell phone number before calling us, but when you actually call, there is a part that is left up to you.From what I've heard, she might be a very cautious woman.If you don't mind, I'd be happy if you could send me your feedback by email!Thank you!