2019/06/26

"Aren't you interested?" How to make a promise for the second and subsequent dates

Thank you for visiting the Universe Club blog.
I am Asuka Nakagawa from the Osaka branch.

It may be sudden, but on your first date, how do you choose a restaurant to eat?
How are they determined?

Top popular restaurants on gourmet sites?
A long-established restaurant with a special feeling?
A neighborhood shop that you usually use regularly?

In fact, all three of these choices are based on the science of popular dating that is psychologically proven.
When compared, it seems that everything is wrong (´^`)

If so, what kind of shop would you like to open (*_*)? !

What kind of shop do you choose and what kind of time do you spend?
Can you make a promise to the next date?

Two things are important for a successful first meal date after meeting
1. Naturally liven up the conversation
2. Do not interrupt the conversation

The other day, I received the following feedback from a female member after a date.
"The restaurant was very luxurious and nice, but the distance between the people at the restaurant was close.
In such a situation, I was embarrassed when men asked me various questions about club activities and adult relationships."

I am a young person who has been with the company for less than a year (actually, I am not very young),
I have seen such questionnaires three or four times.

From a woman's point of view, basically private rooms and box seats with partitions are the best → this is absolutely ^^
If you're even more greedy, it's perfect if you go to a shop where you can experience food plus α such as a magic show ♪
If you share laughter and emotions about what you experienced together, you should be able to become closer.

For men, when it comes to the first date, women tend to take care of them,
Luxury shops, restaurants that require a certain level of manners, and top popular shops on gourmet sites
I think they are often chosen.

However, I recommend eating delicious food after the distance between the two of you is sufficiently shortened.

Because women are more nervous than men on the first date,
Even if it is a high-end French dish, time will pass before you can feel the deliciousness.
I too was so nervous that I couldn't feel the deliciousness of the food.
I am embarrassed many times (laughs)

In fact, women may not be as obsessed with each store and taste on their first date as men think.
Is it a more relaxed environment where you can talk, or a place where you can relax and talk about each other?

The important thing is that it is an atmosphere where two people can get excited ♡

 

It's a little out of the point, but it's also good to eat something sweeter.
After the meal, if you go to the second place, according to the following experiment results,
I recommend going to a famous sweets store rather than going to a bar ♪

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An experiment to measure the relationship between sweets and intimacy
<Experiment content>

In 2015, Purdue University recruited 142 men and women and divided them into two groups.

1. If you eat Oreo cookies
2. If you eat potato chips

After eating 1 or XNUMX, I showed a photo and profile of the opposite sex I didn't know at all, and asked, "How much did you like that person?"
<Result>

The group that ate XNUMX Oreo compared to XNUMX potato chips rated their partner higher.

In other words, if you let the other person eat sweets, your favorability will increase.
The reason is that when you eat sweets, dopamine is released in your brain.
As a result, women become more attracted to the person they are with.

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So if you have a date with a nice person, by all means
Let's eat sweets ♡
And let's connect to the second date (^ー^)

 

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