I am Kaoru Kitamura from Universe Tokyo Main Store.
I would like to take this opportunity to alert all male members to the complaints received from women.
Even for the question box
I didn't get the transportation fee, should I give it first, how much should I give?
And so on, we have a lot of posts, and it is a featured topic.
A lot of consultations from women are
⚫Transportation expenses (not available, less, etc.)
⚫ Conversation content
・I was embarrassed when someone shouted, "Why did you join the dating club?" or "How many dads do you have?"
・I was embarrassed when someone asked me how much I wanted at a sushi bar or in a quiet place.
・I was preached that "It's outrageous to join a dating club"
There are many men who are not used to women here.
⚫Personal information system
・My real name and address were searched persistently
・My ID was seen without permission when I was away from my seat, such as in the restroom.
・I found an SNS and was contacted from there
・I was threatened with things like, “I know your university, and I will contact the school.”
Is this the result of being obsessed with a woman and wanting to know her?
⚫ Complain
"I consulted with an acquaintance's lawyer"
"The police will contact you."
'Appealed to court'
It seems to be activated when you have a dispute in your relationship.
Do you have a lot of disputes about getting your money back?
None of them are good, so if you have any idea, I would appreciate it if you could improve it.
I have no intention of defending only women and being strict with men.
It is the male member who pays the fee, and we strictly inform the female member about late arrivals and cancellations.
In order for men and women to enjoy dating, there are minimum rules that men should follow.
I have a request for you.
As with the above, I often hear about
"I was shown my page and said various things"
This is a lot.
show me the page
・The photo is weird, so please change it.
・I wrote something like this in the comment, but is it true?
・There are only rude things in the comments, don't complain to the club
・It's Standard, but I think you're Gold
etc.
It may mean that you think of a woman, or use it as a topic of conversation, but I would like you to never do this.
There is also the following in the "prohibited acts" of the membership agreement.
"Acts of telling third parties (including female members) about IDs and passwords issued by members and information obtained from this club"
Even if you tell a woman not to tell the club what you showed her, she will say no.
There are various adverse effects by women seeing the member page.
・Only positive information can be entered in comments and all other matters.
→You will have to inquire about everything except for trivial information.
・Increase in requests to change photos
→The photos that the women themselves like and the photos that clubs want to publish and receive offers are often very different.
・There is no good thing even if the class is known
→We receive inquiries from people who feel hurt when they learn that they are Standard, or who are not convinced why they are Gold.
Etc., there are few things that are good for women to see their pages.
If there are too many men to show, the information that can be posted will be limited.
In order to prevent mismatching, we would like to tell you as much information as possible (of course, excluding personal information etc.).
Could you please strictly refrain from showing the member page to women?
Of course, I'm not writing about women in a bad way.
I think that there is a mismatch that can be prevented by maximizing the good points of that woman and writing negative information as honestly as possible.
It is a love industry that can be established with your cooperation.
Thank you for your kind cooperation so that we can use it comfortably.
Universe Tokyo Kaori Kitamura
When you go on a date with a woman and exchange contact information, you almost always say your name (up to kanji).
They ask me to tell them.
They will do a search later to find out your personal information, or guess that you are sharing information with other women.
I get disillusioned when a woman I meet for the first time does this to me, regardless of how many times I've met and become close to her.
Please warn women not to step into men's personal information from the beginning when joining.the problem is
It's not just men.
Thank you for your comment Andy!
I agree with Mr. Andy.Of course, it is not only male members who have problems, but there are many things that female members should be aware of as well.
If you search the web, you may find that men are more likely to be hit than women because of their social status and work position.
We also ask women to build relationships regarding their private matters and not to search excessively. We are disposing of it.
If you have any other concerns, we would appreciate it if you could give us your frank opinions.
Mr. Kitamura Thank you for your reply.For both male and female members who seem to have problems
Please do not hesitate to ask questions and forcibly withdraw as soon as you reply.
If we can do that, it will be a better club.I think it's a difficult job, but the industry's No. 1
I have high hopes for Universe's ability to execute.
Thank you very much Andy!
Yes, we will take action to solve problems, such as hearings and interviews.If you still can't solve it, I think it will be necessary to make a forced withdrawal decision.
We will do our best to live up to your expectations, so we look forward to working with you in the future.