dating type scam
This is the story of a male member A and a female member B.
This is what happened when Mr. A was setting up a date with a female student Mr. B.
Ms. B has a neat appearance, of course, and is a woman like a student.
She had a good personality and was a very striking woman for Mr. A.
Mr. B is a serious person who can't believe that he is registered in a dating club.The relationship type was registered as C.
Mr. A wanted to check the answer, so he went to the meeting place on the day with his heart pounding.
My first impression after meeting her was just as I had imagined, she was a wonderful woman.
We headed to a restaurant together, and at first we enjoyed a short talk that doubled as a self-introduction.
And when my alcohol was going well, I started talking about the relationship type.
Mr. A to Mr. B
“Why are you dating type C?”
I asked.
Mr. B does not feel bad,
"I thought I would get an offer if I was in a relationship type C."
It seems that I answered.
Mr. A thinks that I see, but on the other hand, I also felt that my expectations were betrayed.
As Mr. B says, B rather than A relationship type.When I opened the lid, it was a woman with only rice.
After setting up, Mr. A called the staff.
"Why didn't you explain well at the time of the interview? Male members decide whether or not to make an offer based on the relationship type, so how important is it when interviewing women?" It's proof that they don't understand."
"If I had known that she was just a random girl, I wouldn't have made the offer in the first place, and I wouldn't have wasted my time and money. I can't make an offer if I'm just kidding.
I have received these words.
Subsequent response from Universe Club Yokohama Branch
It's a so-called dating type scam.
When interviewing women, as a club, we explain the type of relationship firmly.
On the Internet, there is a lot of knowledge, such as "In order to get an offer, you should make your relationship type like a man", and it is a story between female friends.
Therefore, as a response as the Yokohama branch,
At the interview, we listen to the woman's honest feelings and make a careful selection to make sure there are no mistakes.
For women with relationship types C and D, as in the first explanation, we will double check the "relationship type" again.
In addition, there are women who change their relationship type after registration, and each time they change, we will contact you and ask for the reason for the change of mind.
In addition, we will tell you about the case of trouble that was actually the content of the dating type and the story of the man's opinion.
I try to talk passionately to women that the dating type is not just about their own awareness of dating.
However, there are some people who do not speak their true feelings to the club and speak their true feelings to the men. I would appreciate it if you could contact me.
Universe Club Yokohama Branch
Is this woman forced to resign?
Anonymous≫
(August 2018, 8 7:8 PM)
Thank you for your comment.
Women are not forced to withdraw,
The staff confirmed the recognition of the relationship type.
> "I thought I would get an offer if I was in a relationship type C."
It's definitely not something you should say on a date, but there are a lot of women who think the same thing when they type.
But I, on the other hand, have a favorable impression of women who say bad things unintentionally.
In a sense, he is an honest person, and you can also think that he has forgiven you.
In order to increase the number of offers, while deceiving the staff and male members well
I like it much more than the old female member who earns a lot of money.
And if the setting woman was a dating type fraud,
If you enjoy capturing type camouflage women, neither time nor setting fee will be wasted lol
It is the end
Please tell us how the club responds to women and how women react.
Burning Blog Fans≫
(August 2018, 8 8:8 AM)
Thank you for your comment.
Like the burning blog fans,
I'm sure there are some people who will like you for being a woman who answers honestly.
『If you enjoy attacking a type disguised woman, neither time nor setting fee will be wasted.』
These words are very positive (laughs)
I feel like I'll have more fun if I can hear the results of the capture.
I am contacting the women again.
Align the recognition of the dating type,
We confirmed the aggressiveness of adult relationships.
I wasn't particularly upset about the reaction, but inside of me, I cherish the feeling.
If the feeling really matches, he is prepared to develop into a relationship even from the first day.
If there is a change in my feelings due to future encounters, I will immediately consult with the club.
I think there is a problem with women in saying that, but men's
C
If you can't do it, it's a scam!
I think it's funny to think.
If you want to be sure, you should offer it to a different type.
Even in this case, if the man was a very nice person and the conditions were right, the woman might say the same, but it might have developed into an adult relationship.
Anonymous≫
(August 2018, 8 9:12 AM)
Thank you for your comment.
I think it's true that the recognition that Type C will always develop into an adult relationship is a harsh one.
As for what you actually explained at the time of the interview,
Since I am telling you with the wording "It depends on the feeling"
We would like our members to understand that not everyone will start from the first day.
Compared to other branches, women registered in Yokohama often come up with price conditions on their first date.
Perhaps the staff will give such advice at the time of the interview.
It may be out of kindness so as not to put women at a disadvantage, but as a man, it's disappointing.
It is important to clearly decide how to respond in this way, but the relationship between men and women is extremely ambiguous.
I feel that if the staff casually uses the term "relationship type fraud", it will result in misunderstandings and troubles.
Blaine
(August 2018, 8 9:12 PM)
Thank you for your comment.
For women registered in Yokohama, depending on the interviewer, to check their sense of money
I would like to ask you about your wishes.
We do not publish it because it is just a guideline for financial sense.
(*In addition, it depends on the interviewer, so it is not for everyone.)
Among women, it is scary after developing into an adult relationship.
Before that happens, I would like to hear your voice.
Certainly, as Mr. Blaine said, I think that the relationship between men and women is ambiguous.
Rather than worrying about money, we would like you to enjoy the moment naturally.
We would like to conduct trial and error on how to convey to women, and we would like to have an interview so that there will be no gaps in the future.
Dating scams will never go away no matter how hard the staff tries.
In the first place, if the staff seems to take the initiative in dating fraud, no matter what you say to a woman, it will not be persuasive.
During this time, the woman told me that the staff told me to say that the number of times I dated was always the first time (actually, it was the sixth time).
Dating clubs can be thought of as a world where foxes and raccoon dogs make up for each other, and people enjoy this world.
Fundamentally, they are women who are motivated by money.Even if you think about it carefully, if the premise that it is a social gathering place for men and women to that extent is often disproved, then if you become a raccoon and pay for a date that does not meet your wishes, the dating fraud will disappear.Because it is a place of negotiation where it is possible.
It's impossible from the first time, but it's OK from the second time. .
It is the current form that makes it easy to build a fuzzy WinWin-like relationship.In the future, it won't be a business that will last XNUMX years in rural areas, but it's doing well (laughs)
rice ≫
(August 2018, 8 11:11 AM)
Thank you for your comment.
As Mr. Komemai said, the item "Depending on the conditions, it will develop into an adult relationship",
I also think that it would be easier to understand if the item was clearly stated as "meal only".
However, it is said that even women who actually thought only about meals will develop after that.
I think the possibility is also 0.
(I myself am also a private matter, but such a thing happened.)
For women who choose dating type B or C,
You won't know until you meet them first, so enjoy your meal and
If there are various conditions or if it is a wonderful person. .and dismiss the possibility
I think that women have chosen.
In particular, I feel that B has been properly filtered and registered.
It's just my guess, though...
I think that there is a part of the relationship between men and women that is difficult to say, so I think it will be a difficult part.
I think it's difficult to understand a woman's feelings 100% and make a choice without making a mistake.
We will continue to do our best to bring our customers closer to the feelings of women and convey this to men.
It's been a while since my blog post, but I'll post a comment.
I am a male member who is registered as a member of the Yokohama branch.
Whether it is a relationship type C or D, it will be shaken when it is shaken.
I think it's precisely because you're chosen and developed in the midst of that fear that you can feel that the other person is accepting you, and that it's a valuable relationship.
However, the way of refusing is quite important, and if you make a bad refusal, you may be called a "relationship type scam!"
So I have two suggestions.
[Proposal 1]
Why don't you make a collection of examples of how to refuse from women and have women learn the correct way of refusing socially?As shown below, how to say, advantages, disadvantages, supplements, etc.
Method 1: Increase the Allowance Amount
Example of how to say: Please use both hands for adult relationships
Merit: It is easy to give up without hurting the pride of the male side.
Disadvantages: If the men give feedback to the club about it, they may be marked as women with bad money sense, which may interfere with future offers.
Usage supplement: After breaking up with the man in this way, properly explain the circumstances to the club side (the fact that the allowance was raised as an excuse when refusing)
Method 2: I'm Already Tired Today
Example: I appreciate your invitation, but I'm nervous and tired from meeting you for the first time, so could you refrain from doing so this time?
Advantages: You can dissolve without making the male side uncomfortable for the time being on the spot
Disadvantages: It creates a misunderstanding on the part of the man, saying, "Then it's okay next time!?"
Usage supplement: It is good to use only for cases that will never fit again.Because it becomes unnatural if you run away with this excuse many times
[Proposal 2]
At the time of joining, there is a possibility that the male side will be refused with a social letter when pressing for an adult relationship, and the excuse may look like a dating type scam, but that is simply because you are not liked. Communicate firmly that there is a possibility of
When I joined, I feel like there was certainly no such information.