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I am Asuka Nakagawa from the Universe Club Osaka branch.

Have you ever heard of the term “Stockholm Syndrome”?

This is a hostage who has been detained by the kidnapper for a long time.
It's about having sympathy.
At first, the culprit only feels fear, but they say things like "Don't worry" and "Aren't you thirsty?"
It seems that while being talked to, you will come to think that you are really a good person.

A similar phenomenon can occur in love.

If a woman wants a man to like her,
When you meet for the first time, instead of just agreeing with what the other person is saying, "Let's be liked," talk about yourself.
It seems that there are cases where it is better to just smile and go home ... (lol)

"He was an unbelievably laughable kid," and "He was a noisy kid."
Even if the impression is not that good, if it remains in the memory strongly, it will not be forgotten (*^^*)

Actually, ``Keeping the first impression a little bad'' increases the chances of the second time.

For example, even if the impression of the first meeting on the first date was about minus 10 points
The next time you meet, just change your behavior slightly from last time and listen carefully to what the other person has to say.
The second evaluation was about plus 2 points, and the first evaluation started with minus 5 points,
In the other person's impression, the evaluation suddenly rises to 15 points ♪♪

"My first impression of him was that he was chatty, but when I talked to him, he was a solid person."
"I thought he was a straight-laced person who only read books, but I was surprised that he was a sportsman."

Ever since I saw a nice young man give up his seat to an elderly person on the train,
It's definitely more likeable when a silly Yankee does the same thing (laughs).

The bad first impression speaks for itself,
It means that the second evaluation will increase more than usual, and the favorability will increase considerably! ! !

Even if the first date did not go well,
Sometimes the second time we meet can be a more memorable date.
By all means, please go on two or three dates and build a wonderful relationship (*^^*)