2022/02/24

700 male members answered "The actual situation of real dad activity dating"

Conducted on the site for male members from January 2022 to January 1, 13Questionnaire results of “Dating survey”We will inform you about

Despite the short period of time, a total of 755 male members of the Universe Club cooperated.thank you.

 (The introduction is long, so it's not bad)

  

For those who cooperated with the survey,

If you don't, it's only natural that you'll be worried about the results.

 

The "secret garden" called the dating club

I don't know what other people are doing

It is a world where information is cut off without horizontal connections.

 

[JP ONLY] Sugar Dating SummitA lot of questions were asked when a male member took the podium.

 

"What's your allowance?"

"Where are you guys going on dates?"

"How much does it cost to go on a date?"

 

Therefore, we conducted a questionnaire about "dating" to more members,

We did it with the feeling that we would be able to help all the men who live as dads all over Japan and the dating clubbers.

 


Announcement of the results of the first “Dating Survey”

 


 

■TOPICS

1. How many women are in a relationship?

2. How much does it cost to go to dinner?

3. What is the estimated accommodation fee? -For hotels-

4. What is the estimated accommodation fee? -In the case of a hot spring inn-

5.Which of the following is frequently used about accommodation?

6. What is the gift price? -Anniversary and non-anniversaries-

7. What is the amount of rent support?

8. Amount for living expenses support?

9. What is the most important thing when making an offer?

10. [Extra] -Failure/Deceived Episode-

 


 

1. How many women are in a relationship?

The result was that most people were dating one woman.

Surprisingly, it seems that many people who use dating clubs are dating the best women for themselves rather than dating a lot of people.

 

Here is the annual income of male members of the Universe Club expressed as a percentage.

1,000% for 41 million yen, 2,000% for 21 million yen, and 1,000% for less than 14.9 million yen.

One of the reasons why most men date one woman is their annual income.

It can be said that “annual income and continuation of relationship” are inseparable even if they are cut.

 

Therefore, I am convinced that the number of people who are dating 7 people is the lowest.

Of course, I think it also has something to do with physical strength and time.

 

Others are description methods, and many people answered "0 people".

There are also people who have joined but have not yet met or who meet very rarely.

 

To be able to match with women who want to continue dating

I feel that I have to work harder.

 

2. How much does it cost to go to dinner?

More than half of the respondents said, “Within 2 yen for 30,000 people”.

It is a price range that allows you to go to places that are considered to have a high threshold, such as sushi at the counter, French and Japanese cuisine, such as those listed in Michelin.

 

There are many members who drink alcohol, so the amount may tend to be higher.

 

A setting fee will be charged until you meet a woman who is perfect for you.

It seems that many people spend their first date at lunch or at a cafe.

 

Here are some other answers.

"Varies depending on relationship status and partner"

"After Corona, only hotel rest date"

"Lunch only"

"Sushi is under 15000 yen. Italian is under XNUMX yen, etc., depending on the menu."

 

It is difficult to recommend to everyone because it depends on the woman of the other party, but only for lunch,

As a woman, I would be happy if my allowance increased.

 

 

3. What is the estimated accommodation fee? -For hotels-

 

In the case of using the hotel, it was divided into two: within 1 yen per night and within 15,000 yen per night.

 

In addition, many of the respondents who answered “I will not stay” in “Other” were

It may be one of the reasons that the club does not recommend staying.

 

Also, since many people pay separately for the date meal,

It may be that the cost of accommodation is reduced.

 

 

4. What is the estimated accommodation fee? -In the case of a hot spring inn-

 

In the case of using a hot spring inn, there are many answers within 1 yen per night.

Staying at a hot spring inn is probably a time when you stretch your wings a little, such as traveling.

Therefore, it is an impression that the amount of money was higher than the hotel use.

 

Then "Other".

As with the previous question, most of the responses were “not using/not staying”.

It seems that some people say "within 10 to 20".

 

 

5.Which of the following is frequently used about accommodation?

Considering the price of accommodation and the market price of the hotel

It can be said that the most used "city hotel" is appropriate.

 

The second most common is the unexpected but not unexpected "love hotel (rest)".

Is it because it's easy to get in right away without a reservation?

Or do you use it because you care about your appearance?

For most male members, being exposed is the biggest risk.

 

In addition, since love hotels have abundant amenities such as hair irons,

It may be difficult for women to dislike you even if you stay overnight suddenly.

 

 

 

6. What is the gift price? -Anniversary and non-anniversaries-

If it's not an anniversary  

 

For anniversaries such as birthdays

 

 

There are many people who have never given a present to a woman.

Of course, those who have not decided on a budget and those who want to increase their allowance accordingly.

 

Because it is a relationship using the dating club,

Maybe we can have a good relationship with each other.

 

 

7. What is the amount of rent support?

When imagining dad life, I think there is an image of being allowed to move to a good apartment.

 

However, according to the data this time, the majority of respondents answered that they do not provide rent support.

 

It may also be due to the fact that the relationship does not last long.

This is probably because there are few cases that last for a very long-term relationship.

 

 

8. What is the amount for living expenses support?

As with rent support, the majority of respondents did not receive this support.

 

The average of those who answered that they provide support was about 15 yen.

 

This is lower than the average female salary of 280 million, which is about 1 yen per month (reference source: National Tax Agency), but it is enough to supplement your life.

 

It would be a great support for those who do not have enough money to live, or for women who find it difficult to work in order to study hard.

 

 

9. What is the most important thing when making an offer?

 

It seems that the most decisive factor is the “video” that shows how they are actually talking and their realistic body shape and atmosphere.

Since “videos” and “photos” directly related to appearance account for the majority,

Appearance is the first consideration for many men.

 

The next important thing after "video" is "profile content".

"Club comments" include real voices from interviewed staff.

It can be said that the strength of our company, which has continued face-to-face interviews, is that many people refer to it at the same level as “photos”.

 

 

10. [Extra] -Failure/Deceived Episode-

 

We received 385 responses (including none).

 

"A woman who borrows money every time, saying it's an allowance advance. It's an advance, so it's in the tens of thousands, but the next time we meet, I don't take out the advance and give the full amount, so it's also my fault, but the advance was too frequent. So I lost my motivation, so I said goodbye.

It would have been better if he would have asked me to raise my allowance instead of borrowing the money, or even acted like I should return the money I owe…”

 

 

"・The meeting place for the date was in a multi-tenant building, and the date started from the place where I was asked to pay at the esthetic register (about 10).

・I heard in advance that there was a jewelry shop I wanted to go to, so when I went on a date, the items were already reserved, and the checkout flowed (20).

There are many failures due to leaving the date plan to the other party too much. ”

 

 

“(1) When I asked a woman to choose a restaurant, she asked me for a 5 course per person.

(1) I was asked for clothes from the first time, and I bought 5 clothes without having a physical relationship.I lost contact after that. ”

 

 

"A nice lady A told me that XNUMX would be fine, but I gave her XNUMX,

After that, when a nice person appears in XNUMX-XNUMX,

There is a part of me that makes comparisons.”

 

 

"I was asked to purchase a product on a designated mail-order site."

 

"I gave you a monthly payment in advance and lost contact. 25 yen."

 

"I'm embarrassed, but I still haven't been able to negotiate my allowance well. I think I have to talk about it properly on the first date, but what should I do if I'm refused due to the timing and my conditions? I think there is a feeling.

In the end, if this part is half-baked, everything will be half-baked, and I think it will not go well.I think I still need more training. "

 

 

There is a proverb that came to my mind after reading many episodes.

 

It's always sunny above the clouds

 

Even if the weather is bad, the sky is always blue above the clouds.If the clouds pass, a sunny day will come.

Even if it doesn't go well now, after overcoming it, there should be a bright future waiting for you.

 

 

Although many of our members are financially successful,

Maybe we are all the same tadpoles in the same cage of dating.

Only by experiencing sourness and sweetness, you become a frog,

You may even become a nice gentleman and be a frog in society.

 

 

I'm sorry for the small blur, but how was the result of this survey?

 

You may have come across some surprising results...

 

This is the “real voice” of our members.

 

In order to lead the Japanese dad culture,

At the Universe Club, we conducted a “survey on dad activities” from various angles,

We will deliver to everyone.

 

 

It's been a long time, but thank you for reading to the end.

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