2020/02/12

If you are not good at it, turn right

Thank you for watching.
I'm Itsuki Fukuda from Universe Omiya Branch.

Lately, I often hear the word “papa katsu” on variety shows, etc.
Every time I hear it on the TV, I startle.

A while back, I saw this tweet on Twitter.

"In Shinjuku, the women in front of me suddenly started doing squirrels."

Incidentally "Shinjuku Riska"If you search with , you will get hits immediately.
There are bloody pictures, so if you are not good at reading, please be careful.

I would like to write about "self-harm" in such a flow.
If you don't like it, turn around and turn right...!

Let me first explain why I wanted to write about this.
Some of the women who visit our branches have experienced self-harm,

Because there are people like that around you.
A woman with a history of self-harm is a bit... there are men too.

In general, more women than men
It seems that there are many cases of mental instability related to hormones.
Typical examples are PMS and maternity blue.
Of course, just because you're a man doesn't mean you should never self-harm.

By the way, self-harm has different names depending on the location.

・Wrist cut
・Arm cut
・Leg cut

The standard is a wrist cut.
So why do you self-harm?
tormented by feelings that cannot be helped,
The impulse with nowhere to go is directed towards me, and as a result,
I think it's self-harm.
Others find comfort in the act itself.

I have friends who have had a history of self-harm, but it's usually very normal.
We smile a lot and sometimes joke around together.

Oh, is this something recent?There are times when I think,
"Why did you self-harm?"
I don't want to ask the other person.
"It was painful" may be ego for that person,
why?At the point of asking, it seems to be forced to say "You are wrong".

Personally, I don't think self-harm is suicide.
This may sound strong, but
If it's really painful, isn't it already dead in another way?

Do not self-harm!
Rather than saying that, I don't care even if there are traces of deeds.
I wonder if it's good for me.

Of course it's up to the individual.
I think there are people who are better off staying by your side, but there are also people who are surprisingly able to get back on their feet on their own!

It is true that those who self-harm may be more prone to swaying in some way.
However, I jumped into the train on Monday at the beginning of the week and caused an accident resulting in injury or death.
Rather than causing trouble to many people, isn't it okay to just focus on yourself?
I'll say it even if I'm heartless.

By the way, it seems that there is a method in Korea to cover the scars with a cute design tattoo.
It was a flower, a sunset, and it was cute with colors!

Some choose their own death,
In a world where young children with a bright future die from abuse and illness,

I hope you will cherish the relationships you have met at this dating club.

I wrote on a rather difficult subject,
Fukuda got sick!Please rest assured that there is no such thing!

I apologize for the inconsistent sentences at the end.
The cold weather will soon be replaced by a warmer season.

Since many wonderful women have joined us,
Please feel free to contact us if you are interested in any women.

Universe Omiya
Itsuki Fukuda

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