2019/07/24

first date

It's been a hot and humid day.

I was born in the middle of summer, but I hate summer the most out of all the seasons.
This is Asuka Nakagawa from Universe Club Osaka Branch.

This is what I heard the other day at an interview with a male member when he rejoined.

"I like the excitement of a first date, but
Occasionally, there is a child who is obviously nervous,
It's hard to open up to that kind of child
I'm kind of tired," he said.

The tension is the real thrill of a first date, but...
If you go as far as you want, you'll end up exhausting your opponent,,,

I read in an article that
First date, date after a long time, etc.
"What should I talk about?"
There are people who get stuck, but it seems that this is a very bad situation.
When humans feel "fatigue" and "tension" from the other party,
You may feel that this person is lonely,
Even though "I was just tired from work" and "I was just nervous on my first date",
It seems that it is thought that it is a person who is not going well with human relationships.
What a waste, (:_;)

Appearing lonely means that you are introverted, difficult to communicate,
This creates an atmosphere that makes it difficult for people to get close to each other.
Even if you feel it, it doesn't convey at all,

It would be better to just say, "I'm a little nervous."
You might actually be able to relax.

 

In addition, by taking a consciously relaxed posture and making a smile,
Because it seems to be able to make the other person feel friendly
She says she's always too nervous on dates and can't show her true self
Ladies and gentlemen, I think that you can practice it by all means (* ^^ *)

 

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