Universe Club (location: Ebisu, Tokyo, President: Satoshi Kida, hereinafter referred to as Universe), which operates a dating club, asked members of the dating club, “How has the romantic relationship between men and women changed from the Heisei era to the next era? Iku no ka" was a questionnaire survey of experienced members of the Universe Club. (Conducted from April 2019 to 4, 15: 22 responses)
Continuing from the last time, we will introduce new encounters and various data on club members, as well as the real intentions of dating club members, including the staff of dating clubs who are experts in gender relations.
■ TOPICS
1. What do you keep in mind when you meet someone of the opposite sex at a dating club?
2. Will serious love be born in the dating club?
3. Is it true that simultaneous dating is the norm?
4. Can you actually earn money as a dad?
5. Contraceptives that tend to be problematic in relationships between men and women
6. Is it true that there are dad activities that do not generate money?
7. What is the difference between a matching app and a dating club?
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1. What do you keep in mind when you meet someone of the opposite sex at a dating club?
When meeting a person of the opposite sex for the first time, either through a joint party or through a friend's introduction, most people tend to think, "Is it possible to develop romantic feelings for the other person?"
However, encounters at dating clubs are less likely to feel like a pure love story. As for women's consciousness, 39.2% said that "dating conditions (44.6%)" and that it is difficult for men and women who meet at a dating club to date with the feeling of a newly dating couple, "matching each other's conditions" is the top priority. It was a response like a dating club.
Q.What do you keep in mind when you go on a date with the opposite sex you met for the first time at a dating club?
In addition, both men and women have almost the same awareness of "topics to talk about", and I felt the possibility of creating a pure heart-pounding feeling of awareness of the opposite sex, like a sweet and sour youth story, even when meeting at a dating club.
In other answers, we were able to receive many answers such as "Does the feeling match?"
2. Will serious love be born in the dating club?
Dating clubs, as the name suggests, are places where men and women who want to date gather and interact.
Sometimes pure love is born there.What is different from marriage agencies and dating cafes is the “opportunity and conditions to meet”, and if you are attracted to the person you meet, it is natural that men and women can develop into romance.
Q. Have you ever fallen in love with someone you met at a dating club?
According to the results of the questionnaire, 49.1% of the male members answered that they might become serious if there was a good encounter, and 14.5% answered that they had become serious. At 13.4%, most men felt the possibility of developing into a pure love at a dating club.
In addition, 44.1% of female members answered that they might become serious if they had a good encounter, 4.6% said that they had become serious, and 4.4% said that they were likely to become serious. There was, but I suppressed my feelings.” Most of the women, like men, felt the potential of pure love in a dating club.In other words, one out of two people can have pure love, and this result was a surprising result for the management of the dating club.It may be close to the day when a new relationship between men and women will be created, just as matching has become commonplace on dating apps.
3. Is it true that simultaneous dating is the norm?
Currently, we conducted a questionnaire survey on the maximum number of people of the opposite sex who were currently dating members of the dating club, and we were able to receive responses that exceeded our expectations.
Q.What's the maximum number of dads (women) you've dated at the same time?
On average, 1 to 3 people are dating at the same time, but there were some members who were dating as many as 20 people of the opposite sex at the same time, both men and women.I feel that you are making good use of the dating club and embodying the reason for the existence of the dating club.
4. Can you actually earn money as a dad?
The word “Papa-katsu”, which was popular in the Heisei era and is now firmly established.In addition, women who actively participate in papa activities are now called “papa katsu girls”.However, how much money is generated in that “papa activity”?
Q. Please tell me the total amount of entertainment expenses spent on women in a month (total amount if there are multiple people).
Questionnaire results for male members
Q. Please tell me the maximum amount of money you received from your father in a month (total amount, if more than one person, the total amount).
Survey results for female members
Compared to the average amount of money spent by men on women of about 15 yen, the amount of money received from men by women is less than 10 yen, which is within our expectations.
However, there are also men who support women with millions of yen in a month.As if proportional to that, there were also women who received millions of yen in monthly support from men.
In the dating club, there are men who are serious about papa-katsu women and women who are serious about "papa-katsu".There may be a “special relationship of trust” unique to a dating club that only the parties can understand, where you can build a relationship with mutual recognition.
5. Contraceptives that tend to be problematic in relationships between men and women
Adult relationships are inevitable when adult men and women feel the same and become more familiar, and most men who join dating clubs want that adult relationship.
However, the problem of contraceptives arises when such acts occur.
Q.What do you think about using contraceptives when having sex with a partner?
From the results of the responses, while the majority of both men and women answered that "wearing it is a gentleman's courtesy", 2.6% of men answered "of course I do not want to wear it", and 10.1% answered "I do not want to wear it if possible". bottom.
In addition, 7.4% of the women answered that they "would like it if possible" and 5.4% answered that "women should take measures", which is also a freshness unique to the dating club.
6. Is it true that there are dad activities that do not generate money?
I think that the image of papa katsu from the public is that it consists of "a woman being paid by a wealthy man to pay for herself", but while doing papa katsu, each other There is a daddy activity where the amount of money is not generated between men and women.
As mentioned earlier in "2. Can serious love be born in a dating club?"
It's just that the way they meet is special, but after that, they are ordinary lovers who are attracted to each other, and there is no need to generate money there.I felt that a new relationship between men and women would be created when the perceptions coincided.
Q.Are there any men (women) who are currently in a relationship without any allowance?
55.6% of the women answered that "there is no allowance", and most of them were looking for a relationship of divisiveness.
Women are more likely than men to want a relationship that is completely forgiving, and it turns out that there is a gap between the paying side and the receiving side.
7. What is the difference between a matching app and a dating club?
In dating apps, it is no longer rare to find friends who have common hobbies, look for a lover, or find a daddy, and it is now commonplace, but here I have a question from the management point of view of a dating club. has been born.That's the difference between a dating club and a matching app.
If it is a matching app, the purpose of matching men and women should be the same, so, we investigated where the difference is between the matching app and the dating club.
Q. Which do you think is better for you, a dating app or a dating club?
Q.I have a question for those who chose the dating club.What do you feel works best for you?
The main reason for using the dating club is that both men and women say that there is an intermediary, so there is a concierge in the dating club.We are designing the meeting of men and women so that members can work more safely and safely.In addition, we were able to get a lot of agreement on the reliability of the profile.
I think that matching apps meet the needs of the times in that they allow you to communicate with your partner yourself and that they are excellent in terms of cost performance.
If you are a woman who really wants to be a daddy, there are also people who use matching apps and dating clubs and aim to become a professional daddy girl.
In an era where AI functions and IT are evolving and making people's lives more convenient, the form of encounters in the new era is also changing.Not so long ago, it took a lot of time and effort to meet someone of the opposite sex, but now we are in an era where you can choose how to meet someone as long as you have a smartphone.
We would like to accumulate our strength so that we can provide services that are close to the generation living in that new era when they start to be more conscious of people-to-people connections than they are now.
