My name is Mac, and I mainly wrote articles for the men's column. I am also a respondent to the "Papa Life Question Box".

Today, I would like to write for women about the difference in perceptions of men and women regarding “treatment”.

I think that the amount of allowance is more than just money for women.Because she's a self-evaluator.

I once heard from a female doctor who graduated from a girls' high school, that even if you go to a high school for girls, you can't get high in the hierarchy just by studying.If you can study and don't have a "boyfriend".

Also, I recently heard an interesting story from one of the daddy girls I'm currently dating.

That daughter continues to have an adult relationship with me, but there are several other dads who have tea and dinner dates.

What would you do if those dads brought adults?When I asked,
"At that point, I'll kill the man."
"Is that so? Is it because the relationship has solidified as a casual date, and now it's disgusting?"
"That's part of it, but didn't the man see me as worthy of paying just for tea and dinner? I won't see you anymore because my value in the city has decreased."
I'm glad I had an adult relationship with this girl early on.

In this way, women are sensitive to their evaluation as a "woman".As an indicator, there is the amount of her allowance.Therefore, there may be problems such as whether you need money now or whether you are in trouble with money, but even if you are away from that, we will aim for a large amount of allowance.

It can be said that it is like basic makeup.The money I received from being recognized as a woman enriches my heart.

Men don't understand this kind of woman's heart.

On the other hand, there are also aspects of women that do not understand men's hearts.

It's not about reading what I'm going to write and accepting what the man thinks.Even if you can't accept it, you should be able to understand it.Understanding this will reduce your stress.

For a man, paying to have sex is a kind of humiliation.

At least some men think so.I was like that when I was young.

I am in my 60s.At this age, I finally paid money and lost my resistance to having Papa-katsu-joshi like this.

However, I have never been to a soapland.Due to the above way of thinking, I missed it when I was young and left it as it is.

A little while ago, I recommended a dating club to an acquaintance of mine who is in his 40s.

Although he was troubled, he did not join in the end.

Here's what he has to say:

"It's vain to say it's for money. There are certainly a lot of young and beautiful girls in the dating club. I admit that, but I feel a sense of accomplishment when I persuade Imo-neechan, who runs a bar, without spending money. I think so."

As long as I can hunt my own prey, I want to continue being a hunter.

I would rather catch a small wild fish than a splendid sea bream in a fish tank.

I know that feeling all too well.

Men in their 40s are at a time when such feelings fluctuate.

So to speak, "papa active puberty".

That's why I pay a lot of money to join a dating club and pay the offer fee properly, but I don't want to give a girl an allowance.

Some people say silly things like, "I'd like to have an unpaid relationship."

I'm 40 years old, but I have chuunibyou.

That's what pseudo-romance orientation in dating clubs is.Even though he has a wife and is firmly connected to the family, I wonder what he's saying, but he's very serious.

Rather than wanting to fall in love, I want to hunt.

I want the beast to recognize me as a hunter.

It's not that I don't have money, but I'm still reluctant to pay someone to have sex with me.

I believe I am still within the expiration date.Actually, it was cut a long time ago.

In the same way that men are indifferent to the psychology of papa-katsu-joshi, who thinks that a woman called herself is worthy of being treated, women are oblivious to this strange middle-aged man's mentality like chuunibyou.

So, negotiating the amount of allowance is partly a battle between a greedy woman and a stingy man, but deeper than that, it's a tug-of-war where each other's pride is at stake.

On the papa's side as well, if you get more of a sense of superiority in spending money, it certainly seems like it will become a habit.

This is called “papa upbringing”.

Anyway, I feel like both men and women can be a little more kind to each other just by being conscious of the hidden feelings behind it, not just money issues. To do.

Even if the negotiations for the amount of the allowance did not go through and they parted, I think the emotional wounds would be less painful for both of them.

That was the story this time.

I'm thinking of writing the title of the XNUMX million yen handing over story someday, but before that, I'd like to write about how I perceive what's called Papa-katsu and what kind of feelings I've been working on. .

I am a dad of 5 yen per adult.

Everyone is the same no matter what kind of woman the other party is.

5 yen is like a handicap in golf for me.I want to compete with the girl in front of me by wearing so many geta.

For example, if you make 100 million each time, you may be able to win almost 100% of the time, but that kind of golf is not fun.

It's better to lose moderately.

That's why it's a flat rate of XNUMX yen for everyone, and I won't respond to negotiations for an increase.

It is also from the idea that women do not want to make a difference in the amount, as long as the amount of allowance is easy for women to receive as their own value.

Wouldn't you hate it if someone found out that someone else paid more than you did?

I am such a XNUMX yen dad, but once I sent a wad of XNUMX million yen by courier to a certain daddy girl.

I am by no means short of money.

I would like to explain how this happened, but before that, let me write a little more.

I think it's necessary to understand why a man like me was willing to send XNUMX million yen.

See you next time.how do you do.

(Part XNUMX,Part XNUMX.Part XNUMX,Part XNUMX,XNUMX,Part XNUMX,XNUMX,Part XNUMX,Part XNUMX,XNUMX.the eleventh）