2024/4/9
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Being a dad made me a disgusting woman.

Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽`*)

It's been 3 years and 6 months since I started working as a father.

I've never been married, I've broken off engagements, I don't have a boyfriend, but I do have someone I like. I'm around XNUMX.

To be precise, I will be 38 years old this year (°▽°)

I've met a lot of people through Papakatsu.There are about XNUMX people in total.

We've covered dating clubs, dad-hunting apps, and drinking money.

I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.

I will write about what I feel and think about being a dad.

Before I started working as a dad, I worked at night as a hostess in Ginza for about seven years in total.

I worked as a hostess in Ginza from the age of 2 to XNUMX (there was a time when I wasn't in Japan for about two years as a backpacker or on a working holiday).

And I have been working as a father since I was around 34 years old until I am currently 37 years old (*´▽`*)

The reason I started working as a father was that my mental health suffered and I fell ill.

I started having panic attacks on crowded trains in the morning and couldn't go to work, so I started doing this to earn a living (´-`)

I'm sure there are many reasons why people become fathers, such as people like me who do it for a living, to earn money for school fees, to pay off debts, to pay for a relative's medical treatment, etc.

I got the impression that there were many people who said they would be in trouble if they didn't have money to live.

I'm currently living overseas, so I'm meeting up with the dads who took care of me when I returned to Japan.

We only meet once every 3 to 6 months, so it's not like I'm fully devoted to being a dad right now, but I've come into contact with a lot of men due to my job, so

I would like to write with that in mind (*'▽'*)

My dream was to live abroad.

In fact, the reason I was able to live my dream overseas was because a gentleman I met through Dad-Katsu gave me a job that I could complete online.

Thanks to that, I can now work from anywhere in the world (o^^o)

It's thanks to Dad-katsu that I was able to live the life of my dreams! ! (*^^)v

Dad's activities are various ♪

 

Well, today's theme is ``I became a disgusting woman by being a dad.''

I think being a dad is a special way to make money.

If you pay an hourly wage, it's the same as a water business, and it's easy to make money in your free time.

If your father likes you, your life could change 180 degrees.

You may have lived in a wooden apartment until last month, but now you can live in a tower apartment and travel as much as you want.

 

Under the contract with the father, allowances are usually paid on a monthly basis or on an as-needed basis.

“Each time” is the general way to decide how much to pay each time.

It is normal for the monthly fee to be over 100,000 yen.

If there are three dads and all three of them are paid monthly, their monthly income will be 300,000 yen.

If you have a take-home pay of 300,000 yen plus a full-time job, you can live a fairly luxurious life and save money.

Currently, the number of women who are working as fathers has reached a saturation point, so there are very few women who say they have 5 or more monthly fathers.

I think 3 people is a fairly realistic number.

As long as my dad likes me, I'm sure I can live a higher level of life than I do now.

 

The same thing can be said about water business, even if you have your own goals and core intentions.

When you suddenly get a lot of money and get used to living as a father, it becomes your daily routine.

Your feelings and thoughts about money and men may have changed without you even realizing it.

For example, if I say...

 

1.I no longer want to go out to eat with men unless they treat me to something.

 I no longer want to spend a single penny when I go out for dinner or tea with people at work, on a date, or with a man.

 If it's someone I want to meet again or something related to work, I open my wallet and ask, "How much is it?" when paying the bill.

 When I was told, "Then, I'll give you ¥●●", I never wanted to see you again (lol) 

 I don't go to company meals anymore (lol)

 I know that it's normal for me to pay for what I eat.

 When I worked as a hostess until now, my job was to satisfy men's desire for approval.

 I was able to work hard because I was getting paid. If you work hard, your salary and sales will increase.

 Therefore, having a conversation with a man is not just a function.

 It's an impossible act that takes up my time and money (lol)

 Since she often didn't open her wallet when paying the bill, she must have looked like a ``nasty woman.''

 

2. The criteria for “my boyfriend” is whether or not he pays everything on a date.

This is also a pretty unpleasant woman (lol)

I know in my head that a boyfriend isn't like that.

If you don't pay everything, I feel like I'm not being treated like a woman.

I'm sure it's normal for dads to pay for everything, including meals, dates, and tea.

It's a feeling that has become ingrained in me.

 

What will happen if this happens...

I feel very tired of meeting people of the opposite sex.

As a result, I stopped going on dates and it's been two years since I've had a boyfriend (lol)

It's my own fault (lol)

 


Daddy life is not just about sweet stories, but also a lot of things that happen that you wouldn't normally think of.

You may feel hurt or betrayed.

The day will come when you will be able to admire the father you met after going through so many things ♡

 

I hope you all meet wonderful fathers (^_−)−☆

Writers: 
2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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