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For the first time in two years, I received an email from someone who was originally my dad and said he wanted to meet me.Last time, I stayed with my dad for 2 yen each time, but I changed my mind in two years, and I got a boyfriend, so I can't have a physical relationship anymore.

However, I'm glad that my father is kind to me, and I miss him because I talked a lot about work with him.We have resumed exchanging e-mails, and now we do it on a daily basis, but I just want to eat.What should I say in this case?I feel like I'm already getting my hopes up.

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Thank you very much for your question.

In the first place, the fact that Papa contacted us for the first time in two years was for the purpose of resuming the "adult relationship".Unfortunately, it is better to assume that there is almost no possibility that the person who asked the question was interested in the recent situation.

Human beings are creatures who believe in actions, not words.Therefore, no matter what the questioner says, there is no doubt that the other man will think that he can do it when he comes to eat.

Whether you let it flow or refuse it, there is no doubt that it will be an unfortunate event for both of you.

Is it really okay to just eat?

By the way, this may be an unsophisticated question, but can the questioner really be satisfied with food alone?

I am not sexually harassing you.If the questioner is going out to eat with his father, it is assumed that he will receive a considerable amount of allowance.

If the person asking the question really wants to "only eat" and doesn't want any kind of medical care, then that would be a different story, but I don't think that's possible. .

Of course, I'm not saying that it's bad, but just like the other man has ulterior motives, the questioner must have ulterior motives.And I have to say that I want to fulfill my own ulterior motives, but I never want to fulfill the other person's ulterior motives.

think about your boyfriend

By the way, in this question, there is another character other than the person who asked the question and Mr. Papa.

That's the boyfriend of the questioner.I don't know what kind of person you dated, but you probably love your boyfriend to the extent that you want to refuse a physical relationship for your boyfriend's sake.

Then, if the questioner met Papa, more precisely, "I contacted a man with whom I had a mistress relationship for the first time in two years, and recently I have been in good contact with him. What would your boyfriend think if he found out that we met again and had a meal?

What you should be thinking about now is not what to do with your old dad, but how to maintain a good relationship with your current boyfriend.

If you think about it, the answer will come out naturally to your worries this time.

There is no problem if you say to Papa, "I have a boyfriend, so I try not to see other men."