there's a way to look good

All men in the world want to be considered cool by the opposite sex.

Because it is directly linked to "cool = popular", men in the world polish their appearance and inner self in various ways.

Everyone should have this as common sense.

However, the first thing that comes to mind for me is the gesture of sticking your hand in your pocket.

A man who usually wears a suit is really apt to do it.

In fact, when men ask each other on the spot, "What are you dressed up as?" (As expected, it would be embarrassing if someone of the same sex said that on the spot.)

Certainly, I think that in the olden days, all men had a scene where they put their hands in their pockets while smoking a cigarette, as an easy-to-understand gesture.

Then, do women actually see it and think it's really cool?Don't you think it's pretty important here?If this becomes unfashionable, men in the world will stop sticking their hands in their pockets.

Certainly, there are few people who go out of their way to take action.

I asked a young woman who is actually working as a dad.

Then I heard an interesting answer.

In the first place, the times are completely different between the past and the present.

A good example is tobacco.

In our time, you could smoke anywhere, and honestly, few people cared.

But what about now?People who smoke are treated like "evil" in an increasing number of places, and the places where you can smoke are quite limited.

And the same thing seems to be said.

In the old days, sticking your hand in your pocket while smoking a cigarette was one of the behaviors of a man that made women feel "Kyun".

However, it's just a cigarette and pocket setup.

Now, women don't seem to think anything of the gesture of sticking their hands in their pockets. (This is the result of asking a young woman friend of mine as well as a woman who works as a dad.)

For someone like me, who walks with my hands in my pockets, the results were a bit lonely, but I guess the sensations of women and men are completely different.

Even if men think they look good, there are many cases where women don't think so.

"Putting your hand in your pocket = dressing up" must be old.

If you add smoking cigarettes, it would be called "worst" in modern times.

So, what kind of gestures are people interested in in a good way these days?

Driving a car

What do you mean by this?If you say so, I think you'll check the back when the car is parallel parked by a man.

At that time, I think I will lightly ignore the woman in the passenger seat and look behind me.

The gesture of that moment seems to come to the female side "good".

That's why it seems to come "Kyun" from a man walking with his hands in his pockets.

To be honest, I don't think there are many men who are concerned about this and park in parallel. (In other words, when I was listening to this story, I asked again, "Really?")

However, if you say it, you will understand.

Certainly, at that moment, the man was innocent, and if it was said that it was the face of a man who was concentrating on something, I could understand.

Ask the women around you.

Really, that man's profile is popular.

gesture at checkout

Depending on the man, I think it's divided into those who pay in cash and those who pay by card. (Nowadays, it seems that some people pay with their smartphones, but there are quite a few people in our age group, so I will remove it this time.)

At that time, men who pay by card are overwhelmingly preferred over men who pay in cash.

Especially the gesture of silently opening the slip, inserting the card, closing it, and handing it over to the clerk.

It is quite popular.

From my point of view, I really think that men are cool, and women don't care about the gestures they do. (somewhat regrettable)

Are you around men who dress up like that when paying?Especially when it comes to our age, isn't it difficult to find someone who cares?

But in reality, there are so many women who like this casual gesture.

In addition to this, I also heard that he likes the momentary gesture of writing his signature on the slip.

Conversely, actions that women don't care about at all against actions that men think are good.

For example, I think there are several scenes where you put your hands around a woman's waist and escort her.

For example, restaurant entrances and elevators.

First of all, should I say that I will give you a light push on the waist to guide him?

It's a great, small move.

The strength of that thing is also quite important to me, and I have cultivated it through many years of experience.

And that behavior feels pretty cool to me, and I'm trying to appeal to women.

When I asked a woman about it, she said, "Huh? I don't think any woman wants to be dressed like that, right? When you're putting the ladies first, I can feel your feelings. Even if someone pushes you lightly on the waist, that's part of putting the ladies first.

Of course, she's right.

I thought that "ladies first = kindness" was right on target, and I felt a little miserable trying to dress up like that.

However, this may only be understood by men, but don't you have a sense of accomplishment when you can guide someone at the right time, and a feeling that you want them to think this is "cool"?I also do it with kindness, but I still have the feeling that I want you to think that this is wonderful.

Especially if it's a young woman.

However, I think that all the men who are dads have understood that a really young woman and a man of a reasonable age are completely different from where they look and where they empathize. Although it should be dressed up, it may be received in the opposite way, so be careful.

We men want to keep looking good no matter how old we get.