Standing position of a dad who cares a lot

When I become a dad, there are certain things that I can say.

It's about how much you should care about young women.

This is important for women who are basically dads even if they look it up on the internet.

 

And there are many articles that tell you to treat people with a generous heart, and in fact, most men are probably doing just that.

On the flip side, this can also mean ``accepting women as they are''.

Well, in terms of accepting women, I don't have any doubts about it, and I have a perception that daddy is what he said.

But should we really accept everything?There are many things that I think about when I become a dad.

Is dad really just treating women like princesses?If you ask me, I feel a little different.

As an adult, I understand that you should treat women with a smile, make them feel comfortable and enjoy themselves. (Because I can feel happy when I am pleased.)

However, I feel that most of the men are very careful before the women come to the scene.

For example, the contract at the first meeting.

At this time, ask the woman what she wants to some extent.

And talk to each other to some extent.

However, at this point, isn't there a certain amount of desire or hidden part for some men?Sexuality or possessiveness.

But if you show 100% to the other party, they may not like you, and you may not be able to sign a contract.

That's why, am I the only one who thinks that most men manage to listen to women's requests to some extent, fulfill all of them, and make contracts with their requests quite obscure?

So-called 100% state is not facing women from the beginning.

Women might say it's a strange way of distracting themselves, but the majority of men have no choice but to deal with it that way.

Even at this point, men must be very considerate in order to get women to sign contracts on the spot and leave with a smile.

In dad life, if it is said to be a natural sight, it is up to that.

The reason is that there is a considerable age difference between men and women, and that is why a relationship with an age difference between a daughter and a grandpa is a matter of course.

In fact, the father of the woman I am currently dating is younger than me.

So, if you say it's natural that you can't go out with women like people of your age, it's really the end of the story.

However, if it is OK to give up 100 steps on the part of accepting, is there any way to get women to accept it from here, or a way to approach them?

I think most men who are dads treat women who are dads very kindly, and I think it's a pattern of listening selfishly.

I have changed the way I interact with women in my own way.

Reforming how to deal with women who live as dads

In the beginning, I didn't make many demands on women.

That's why it was normal to have no physical relationship.

Of course, there was a lot of flow to cancel the contract immediately with a woman who had no relationship.

In the midst of this, there was something that I could not forgive as a woman living as a dad.

It's late.

After all, in my own life, I have a perception that being late is disrespectful to someone who is very late.

That's why, in response to being late, I showed a bad mood to make it easy to understand. (By the way, she is not currently dating a woman who is late.)

Then, as for the solid women, they apologized and after that, they showed me the behavior to take good care of me.

A woman who takes daddy life too lightly never apologizes, and on the contrary, the other woman was in a bad mood.

There is something I felt.

"Ah, it's a little overbearing, but I think it's necessary to firmly convey the common sense I've lived through to women."

Papa-katsu is premised on the fact that men on the street accept women with a generous feeling, but I thought that I should not make a mistake in how to take words.

Accept only if you have common sense.

I thought there was no need to accept an insane woman.

I want all men who are dads to never forget this.

Well, I think that each man has a different sense of values ​​and how they perceive what is insane.

Therefore, it may be better for men to decide based on their individual sense of values.

What should a woman do if she makes a bad face?

Is this a problem for men?Should I tell the other woman?should I not tell?Or do you pretend you didn't see it?There are many choices.

I've been a dad for several years.

To be clear, I think it's better to tell them clearly, even if they don't like you.

Dad activity may depend on women, but I think most people do it as a job.

Therefore, if you change the way you say it, it will also be recognized as a service industry.

Of course, if men recognize from the beginning that they are receiving services, they will become more selfish towards women, and there is a possibility that the relationship will not be established in terms of dad activities. may not be necessary.

However, if you put service in the corner of your mind, if you think it's rude to you, should you be careful, even if it's a little overbearing?I think so.

No, I feel that my relationship with women will be deeper if I do it, and I actually think it has become deeper.

The female side will also learn something on the spot, and the male side will also benefit and grow into a "good woman who likes herself".

It may be difficult for a man to get angry or say something to a woman who works as a dad.

But what I want to tell you here is to tell you clearly what is wrong.

However, there are some women who get offended if you correct them in the right way, so if you gently say, "Don't you hate it when you put yourself in the other person's position?" (I've actually been successful in the past by communicating in that way, and I've been able to get along with women in a good way.)

If you are a man who can't say what you want to say and is stressed.

Why don't you try it once?However, if I say that I support a woman who works as a dad in my life, I think I can naturally have a good dialogue.