Daddy-active women who want troublesome interpretations

Young women these days are very quick-witted.

I believe that the number of such children has increased since our time.

Is this good? Is it bad? With SNS and other sites making it possible to obtain information that is not readily available, I feel that there has been a significant increase in the number of women who are expressing their own strong opinions, including information about fatherhood.

For me, if I just cut that out, I can take a positive view.

However, this is also the case with information about daddy activities, but there is a pattern of picking up only the information on SNS, believing it to be true when it is not true, and incorporating it into one's own knowledge.

And a woman who has confidence in that and conveys it to others.

Of course, this is often seen among young men these days, but isn't this a negative thing? That's what I think.

As I mentioned above, I feel that I have a faster mind than women of the past, and for the most part, I feel free to purchase information from SNS (whether it's true or false). Sometimes there are many patterns of talking.

My personal opinion is that when you're talking, you can tell by the density of what the other person is saying, whether it's something like, ``Oh, I just heard this from someone else?'' or something like, ``Don't put too much stock in its credibility.'' .

However, if you meet a woman who completely believes the information on SNS about her father's activities, it will be quite troublesome.

The reason for this is that discussions between the parties don't go well, and it tends to end in fights without a clear goal.

If you go too far, you will overreact to the conversation, interpret things that have not even been discussed, and the conversation will easily spread to the wrong side.

If this happens, I won't be able to collect anymore. (quite tiring)

For this reason, if you are a father, you have probably experienced this at least once, but if you stop talking at a certain point and change the subject, or if the other woman is not satisfied, try to be considerate of the woman. Maybe they try to avoid it by talking about something fun.

To be honest, I don't really like women who make such troublesome interpretations and spread the word, so I don't know how to handle them. I still don't understand.

Something like this happened in the past

The child is a beginner in fatherhood.

Therefore, all the information I get to know about daddy life is only on SNS.

So while 7% of the content was negative, 3% seemed to be a tool to make money.

Therefore, when we met for the first time, he was very cautious and was unable to do any Q&A with me.

At that time, I also wondered, ``Why did I decide to start my life as a father with such negative feelings?''

However, as I talked to her about various things, the other woman seemed to realize that the information she was getting was quite different, so although she didn't sign a contract, she felt like she understood.

However, to be honest, there was a part of me that thought it was a waste of time because there was nothing to be gained by saying good things about being a dad on the spot.

For that reason, I was filled with the desire to avoid meeting a woman who said that as much as possible.

However, I met a woman who was a troublesome father.

This was about a year and a half ago.

I had a mistress who just canceled her solo contract, so I asked her to introduce me to someone at a dating club.

From the outside, it looks normal, which might be the case nowadays.

In particular, she didn't have flashy nails or very revealing clothes.

On the other hand, maybe that's what I liked about it.

Then we actually signed a contract and went on our first date.

This is what she told me at that time.

He asked me, ``Hey, Dad? Dad-katsu is a sole proprietorship, right? It's a business, right? After all, you're only looking for sexual services from women?'' he asked me.

I told her this.

"Of course, I think I want everything about you. But I don't like the expression "sexual services." Then it would be the same as adult entertainment. I don't think so. It feels like you're there, isn't it?''

Then she replied:

“I mean, it was written in an article that all the women in the world who are working as dads are doing sexual services, right? To me, it seemed like they were being really honest. Even when I looked at social media, I didn’t see how much money they made today. There's so much information out there. So, I wonder if it's important to be selective about it, and I also wonder if I should treat my father's life as if it were a sexual service."

Hearing this made me feel a little sad.

What was your motivation at that time? When I say that, it falls flat.

It made me want to go home.

It is true that what she is saying may not be wrong, and it is certain that there are many women who have said so.

However, isn't it the father who wants to think that the reality is different?

So I said this.

``I don't think there are only women like that, right? Also, if 〇〇-chan thinks so, and you have a contract with me, I can cancel the contract immediately, right? Because I feel boring and lonely. It won't be born."

Then, even though she had been saying things like this on social media, the story suddenly changed.

"That's true, right? I'm sorry, Dad. When I listened to Dad's story, I realized how low-level my interpretation was, and when I sorted it out, I realized that what I had written on social media and Oita Dad's activities were different. I mean that in a good way. Not all men who want to become fathers only want a woman's body. From now on, I want to rely only on my own eyes."

As I said, he was a very understanding child.

The conversation it took to get there was a little complicated, though.

However, this child was the type who showed understanding, but this is a really rare case.

In my experience, almost 9% of the time they just talk back and are not the type to show understanding.

Therefore, if you meet such a type, we recommend that you cancel the contract immediately.

But for the above child, I was lucky.

Now, he is an honest and really good boy.

It was a great decision to sign the contract.