A woman who is an unloving father

Are there any women who are fathers like this? Perhaps, I have the impression that the number has increased recently.

A few years ago, there would have been a limit to the ``text-only exchange'' between men and women.

Therefore, we will definitely have to talk face-to-face at some point.

And even more so when it comes to being a dad.

Therefore, ``women who are not good at communicating'' may have been positioned as ``women who are not suitable for being a father.''

This is because when working as a father, it is no exaggeration to say that communication is everything when it comes to the connection between women and men.

However, in recent years, technology such as LINE that allows people to communicate through text without having to actually make a phone call has become so advanced that it has become easier and easier to communicate through face-to-face meetings or phone calls. It seems like there has been an increase in the number of young people in particular who are no longer able to have face-to-face conversations.

Also, as I have become a father myself, I feel that the number of women who cannot express themselves verbally has increased, so even if they want to say something, they cannot say it, and this situation continues. As a result, I think there has been a significant increase in the number of women who are fathers and are unable to look up and talk to each other, giving the impression to others that they are unlovable women.

Meanwhile, I have also contracted with several women of this type in the past.

Although he usually types amazing words on line, when I actually meet him, he's just looking down and fiddling with his smartphone.

Isn't this just a case of a young woman working as a father? Well, honestly, I feel bad.

I'm sure people of our age can relate to it quite a bit.

In the first place, when it comes to being a dad, there is an allowance between him and the woman.

I think some men are quite pampering, giving their women apartments, etc. (By the way, in my case, I only get the basic allowance and presents, but I think I'm spending a fair amount of money.)

Previously, the contract was only for a short period of time, but I asked the woman who was under contract at the time.

``Why are you looking at your phone so much when we're together?''

Then she answered:

``I'm a plain person and can't look people in the eye.Even though my dad is right in front of me, I'd rather communicate with him on line.''

How should I answer? I did not know.

As a result, I have no choice but to forgive her behavior.

If it were my biological daughter, I would either get angry or take some measures.

However, since I'm a dad, I'm always a stranger no matter where I go.

The reality is that men do not have the power to correct this.

I have even met some women who were ``inherently unfriendly.''

Why did you decide to become a father? It was just a question.

Of course, she looked beautiful, right? But.

A woman who clearly says, ``I'm not good at communicating with people,'' receives a certain amount of allowance from a man.Dad life to do.

I don't think dating clubs themselves can control women that much, and if they sign a contract, the men should tell them.

I have actually discussed this issue with women many times in the past.

However, there are limits to what you can say as a father-in-law, and we don't see each other every day.

So, even if you resolve the issue through discussion at the time, things go back to normal the next time.

Besides, it would be a waste of time to have such discussions every time we meet, and more importantly, we would end up having a boring time. (I think most men who become fathers stumble at this point and quit. I was like that too...)

Therefore, when I first met her, I decided that I would no longer contract with a woman who is unfriendly or spends all her time on her smartphone.

He thought that by avoiding women who behaved like this, he would be able to avoid ``wasteful thinking,'' and also be able to ``focus on having fun as a father.''

Is it ``love'' in daddy life to leave quietly instead of trying to force something to change? That's how I felt.

A woman who is a father and has a bad drinking habit

Once in a while, there are women who are fathers and have a very good relationship with each other when it comes to drinking.

I have contracted with such women many times in the past, so I will give you an example.

At first, I thought, ``They get along well and are cute.''

However, with each passing day, his views on women changed.

Especially when I was drinking, I started to wonder, ``Is this kid okay?'' He would laugh out loud even when there were other people around him, or suddenly start talking in Japanese.

``Yeah?Are all daddy women who have good drinking relationships like that?'' ``Don't they have manners?'' I had many questions.

 

However, I thought to myself, ``Why not judge everything here?''

But is it the timing? Is it fate? Several of the women I signed with during that period were like that.

And that's what I thought.

Approximately 30% of women had a bad drinking habit.

Drinking with 30% of the women was becoming more and more stressful for me day by day.

If I had known that at the first meeting, I would not have signed the contract.

Anyway, it was bad manners. (That's all there is to it)

The problem with this issue is that you won't know until you actually drink alcohol and spend time together. (First of all, if you understand, there is no need to sign a contract and you can save time.)

That said, if after signing the contract, I think, ``This kid has a bad drinking habit,'' at that point I would consider canceling the contract.

When it comes to alcohol, if the person can't control it, no matter what the outsiders say, it's useless. (I don't want to be misunderstood here; I don't mean all women who like drinking. This is different from women who are dads and have good manners. However, I'm just saying that it's difficult to tell at first.)

Besides, I don't want to spend my ``precious time'' with a woman who has paid for it.

In order to avoid such problems as much as possible, I have recently been trying to contract with women who don't drink that much. (Contracts with women who are not in the habit of drinking often end up being strangely long-term.)

If there are any men out there who have had similar troubles or who can relate to this, please try copying the way I approach the contract process. Surprisingly, if you look at it over a one-year span, you may be able to say, ``I see.''