3 ways to get women to like you in a dating club

my story in moderation

Surely the men should have introduced a nice woman at the dating club.

And there you can enjoy a wonderful romance that you can't usually do.

If a man meets a nice woman, something hot will well up.

Then, I think you want to know yourself and want to know more about the other woman.

Actually, I was.

If I remember correctly, I think I was about the fifth person, but even if I was introduced at a dating club, it was a time when the relationship ended with a single shot and I was searching for various things in my head.


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Relationships are good and can't be built for a long time.

At that time, I was introduced to a woman from a new dating club.

I remember falling in love at first sight like in a romantic movie when we first met in the hotel lounge.

The first thing that came to my mind was the impression that she was a "beautiful person".

Of course, the women I was introduced to before that were all beautiful, but they looked a little different to me.

So, did you feel impatience in yourself?

I still remember the conversation at that time.

He didn't listen to what other people had to say and only talked about himself.

For example, I am looking for this kind of relationship with you in this kind of work history.

With this kind of upbringing, I have such a career.

Annual income is about this and allowance is about this.

My hobby is this kind of likes and dislikes.

I still don't remember listening to the other person while talking about myself.

I think it's not that I can't remember, but that I didn't give them a chance to talk.

For men, it's the worst possible pattern.

But I also had one excuse.

That's because the other person was too much for me, and I didn't have time to listen to what the other person had to say.

However, it was a later festival and ended up with two dates with her.

Here, I was not good at not listening to the other person, but of course there are other reasons, right?The point that I didn't pursue.

After that, I had four dinner dates with a woman who was introduced to me by a dating club. (After that, several people had the same result.)

So what's wrong with having a meal with a friend who's a dad, even though he's in a different dating club than you?When I asked him about it, he gave me a very simple answer.

That's the point that you talk too much about yourself from the beginning.

According to him, you don't need to talk about yourself unless you've been asked by the other party.

He advised me.

So, at the timing after his advice, I was introduced to a new woman from a dating club, so I put it into practice.

The content of the actual battle is not to talk about anything other than what is asked.

Then, the woman took the initiative and told me about herself.

It was a completely different development.

It's also different from the past, and the women are going to be able to do things clearly. She (She started dad activities for this reason, etc.)

And what I told the woman from here was only the minimum information I was asked.

Then what will it be?

From myself, I felt that women were a little more interested in this story than when I was talking loudly.

And as a result, I was able to associate with that woman for almost a year.

I realized later that I didn't need to talk about my hobbies and likes and dislikes from the beginning.

The reason is that if a woman is interested, she will ask me.

Besides, if you make too much self-appeal from the beginning, the other person will get tired.

It's a woman's image, but I guess it feels like an adult man doesn't talk too much.

Please try it if you have similar problems.
 

Look me in the eye when you talk

I felt that this is a necessary element not only for women who work as fathers, but for all young women in modern society. (The same can be said for young men.)

To be honest, I only heard about 3% of the conversations with the women who were introduced to me at the dating club.

The reason is the seriousness of the conversation.

Of course, I think it would be rude not to listen seriously to any story.

However, I wanted to relax when I met a woman in private.

That's why I didn't want to hear anything other than positive stories from women.

This was my true intention.

Naturally, that would make conversations with women a little more appropriate.

It's a matter of course, but the gesture of looking in the eyes and listening seriously is almost zero.

I'm sure the female side also wanted to put in a tsukkomi.

Are you seriously listening to people?That's what it means.

In this day and age, it's more normal to face a smartphone than to enjoy meals and hobbies by looking at people's faces.

However, it is also true that there is a loss of seriousness in communication with people.

So to speak, I, who is a lot older than her, didn't understand that.

As a man, I'm embarrassed as an adult rather than saying I'm no good.

Facing a woman firmly is also connected to listening to her by looking her in the eye.

From the women's point of view, it's safe to just look them in the eye and listen to what they have to say.

If I may add to that, I feel that all the men who are said to be popular with women look them in the eye and face each other. (Sorry for the random image.)

However, such accumulation also leads to building a relationship of trust with women.

From there, women will be able to confide in men about their worries and the events of the day without hesitation. (This is true not only for women, but for men as well.)

In fact, the content and gestures of a woman's conversation are completely different if she doesn't look at her eyes.

When I began to look her in the eye and listen to her, she began to talk to me about very deep roots that she hadn't told me before.

By the way, when I listened to the story without making eye contact, the conversation was silent for about 2-3 minutes. (It goes without saying...)

If you are a man who is going to be a dad, please listen carefully to the story of a woman who is a dad.

Then the reaction of the woman will be completely different, and she will trust you normally, which will make it easier for her to like you.