fashion, taste and age

The other day, the woman I met for the first time was very rude, but her fashion sense was not good.
I'm writing this now because I think I'll think about it properly, first of all, I'm going to be asked what's your taste before other people.

Let's go back to that woman.

That person is in her early XNUMXs, and she is very pretty and has a good style, but when I think about what I felt was not good enough, I realized that it fits "your own atmosphere." I think they said no.I'm not talking about my tastes in the direction of fashion, and it's not like I was wearing an extremely strange outfit.

What did not match the atmosphere?Looking back on this,

・I felt that the taste of the clothes I chose for my age was young, and I felt a gap in the negative sense of my impression
・I got the impression that she was pretty rather than cute, and that the direction of her face didn't match her outfit.

I don't think so.It's all about impressions, so it's just my subjectivity.
Perhaps if I was young in my early twenties, I might not have felt these gaps.
I was very worried, but it didn't become a relationship to meet continuously.I wasn't really conscious of it, but it made me realize how important women's clothes are.

Anxiety about becoming a person who wears clothes that only old men wear

On the other hand, the woman's outfit reminded me of something I had seen on Twitter before.

One piece that I found out that the reason why the old man wears old-fashioned clothes that only old people wear is ``because I'm still dressed when I was young''.Around 1.

I think this might be the case.
His sense of fashion stopped at his prime, and with the change of the times, it became obsolete, and it looked like he was wearing "old man clothes that only old men wear" (women, too).
A woman's physical appearance is important to me.Without choosing words, I want to take a good woman with me as a tool to satisfy my vanity and selfish desires.
But on the other hand, if you think about it from the opposite point of view of a woman (especially a P-active woman), you probably don't have a boyfriend, so you can wear anything you want, but you should wear something that's not embarrassing to walk with. I thought it would be better to

"I'm not ashamed" means

・Because of the dress gap between men and women, it clearly stands out because of its liveliness
・It's hard to be with someone who doesn't suit her age.

I think I want to avoid such a situation.

As for the former, if a woman in her XNUMXs and a man in her XNUMXs or XNUMXs are walking in the first place, unless they are visible to their parents and children, it is likely that they will be considered P activities. I think it's either going on a date that won't be noticed, but what about the latter?

look back at one's clothes

I am in my XNUMXs now, but I was unprincipled and had no policy, so when I was a student, I lived as much as possible on the fashion of the time.Because I want to be popular with girls as much as possible (I don't know if I'm popular).When I look back on what kind of clothes I wore, I think there are a lot of men of my age who are similar to me (probably).

XNUMX) High school students first half
b-boy fashion was popular.So I dressed like that.
I don't dance, and I can't.I was wearing an oversized outfit and a rugged NIKE bash.It was a time when there were only black gyaru wearing loose socks whether you looked to the right or left, and I think they chose a style that would appeal to gyaru.

XNUMX) High school students second half
Pretty fashion was popular, so I dressed like that.
High-brand pants and shirts, loafers, long hair, dark skin, and long coats in winter.The clothes that KimuTaku wears in magazines were really popular, so I remember picking him up at a club dressed like that.

XNUMX) College student
There was a surfer boom.
On the contrary, I went on a casual route, and even though I didn't do surfing at all, I was dressed like that.

Thinking about it now, it's generally pretty embarrassing, but it's all youthful.

After I entered the workforce, I didn't have much time to spare and didn't pay attention to what I was wearing. I don't remember much about what I was doing.

and now

Then I wondered what he's been wearing lately, and when I looked at what he was wearing today,

・Tight pants in earth colors that are not too flashy
・Outdoor brand long-sleeve T-shirt
·sneakers.On the contrary, the color of the feet is flashy
・No accessories, just a watch

I don't wear a suit for work, and I don't like jackets, so I dress like this. I feel that the fashion sensibility (casual route) that has remained essentially unchanged and has stopped at university students is making me do that.If this was in his XNUMXs, it might be fine, but now that he's over XNUMX, it's not his age, and he feels like time has stopped (upset).

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It is a story that I want to at least look like an old man from the point of view of a P-active woman, but depending on how I perceive it, I realize that it is difficult for me to notice it myself while having contact with young women. It is also because I am getting the opportunity, so I try to make choices that match my age and appearance, but do not look ugly and hurtful, and I try not to be a person who only wears old men and wears old clothes. I thought again.