How much money did you spend on Christmas?

For those of you who are now fathers, what kind of presents did you send to the women you have a contract with for Christmas? I'm sure you had a luxurious time? That's what I think to myself.

I also used it quite a bit.

First of all, did you spend both Christmas and Eve with the same woman? I was with a different woman.

Actually, I wanted to spend time with the same woman, but her schedule didn't suit me so I gave up.

Therefore, I filled in the blanks with women who were under separate contracts.

Honestly, I wanted to spend time with the woman I liked the most.

After all, this is the time for women to earn money.

He told me he wanted to spend the day in private, but I'm sure he was spending it with another dad. That's what I think.

Of course, there's a little bit of jealousy, but it's because he's a father.

It is natural for women to have freedom.

I also have a woman who has a separate contract, and I think it's important to be transparent about that.

Well, Christmas can be enjoyed by such men and women.

I think I may have used it a little too much this year. That's what I thought.

In terms of money alone, the total for the two days was about 400 million yen.

Breaking it down, 8% is gifts, and the remaining 2% ​​is meals and hotels.

Hotels are expensive everywhere around Christmas time, and it's hard to look good unless you have a decent place to eat.

Somehow, just in terms of Christmas total, I'm spending more money in 2022.

But why did I feel overused for this year? That's because even though I didn't spend as much money as I did last year, I felt more satisfied last year.

Of course, there are some women who have a contract and are stuck in a rut, so maybe that's the reason? There's a part of me that thinks so.

But I'm sure that's not all.

It's possible that over the past two days, the woman's reaction was a little different from what I expected, and my motivation had dropped considerably.

This may be true in the life of a father.

First, I met the girl I liked the most on the first day, but the conversation was a little cold.

Maybe he was tired.

Apart from her father's activities, she is also involved in entertainment activities.

The eggs haven't sold yet.

So, it's fun for me to watch her, and I've made a contract with her to take care of her in a certain way, thinking, ``I hope I can be of some help.''

However, on this day, she looked a little different than usual.

He didn't talk to me as much as usual, and we went shopping for a present together, but he didn't seem happy at all, even though he seemed to be thinking, ``This is a good one'' when choosing a present.

If it was my previous girlfriend, she would call out to me every time she made a choice.

But on this day, that's not the case at all.

Since then, even when I'm eating, I'm constantly looking at my smartphone and drinking wine with cold eyes.

I couldn't resist and asked her.

“〇〇-chan, did something happen today?”

Then she answered:

"Hmm. I'm sorry, Dad. Actually, I'm feeling a little depressed because my senior at the office said something unpleasant to me..."

To be honest, I thought, ``I want you to tell me first.''

At this point, it's already night.

On the first day, I felt completely defeated.

Every year, I set this time as a day to have honest conversations with women.

A special period for me.

I didn't think the dinner that day was delicious at all.

So, I wanted to have some fun memories somewhere, so after that we had sex at a hotel, but I didn't feel like it.

feelingIt's a failure, as if no difference = no energy.

It's already the worst.

I could tell by looking at her that she was thinking something else.

So, the next morning, we disbanded.

I am determined to enjoy the second day.

However, the woman he wanted to spend the most time with turns out to be a boring memory on the first day, and he disappears on the second day.

Well, are you okay? I asked myself as I was meeting up with another woman in the evening, so I headed to Azabu where that meeting was.

The moment we met, we had a slightly dark conversation because of what happened the day before.

Then, the first thing the woman said to me was this.

"Huh? Dad, how are you doing? Aren't you feeling like Christmas? Are you feeling unwell? Are you okay?"

I thought, ``Huh? That's terrible, the other person has discovered my motivation,'' and immediately tried to respond like an adult.

Then, I bought some shopping (a present for my girlfriend) and headed to the restaurant.

And, as I mentioned earlier, during this period, I have decided to face the woman I have a contract with and have an honest conversation with her.

So, I honestly talked about the terms and conditions of the contract.

Then she started talking to me like this.

"I want to open an apparel store, but I need your help, Dad."

And I replied:

"First of all, don't you have a proposal? If you just want to do it, you won't be able to do business, so where are you thinking of setting up your shop?"

Then she answered:

"If possible, around Minami Aoyama..."

To be honest, I thought, "Huh?"

And from what I've heard, it's not in the millions.

``If Dad were to give money to 〇〇-chan, wouldn't it be an investment?But if there is no proposal or anything, he would just be throwing away a lot of money.It might be difficult if it was just Dad.No. In terms of location, aren't you thinking about starting with a small store?"

Then she answered me:

“Daddy has decided that I will definitely make mistakes, but I will try my best, okay?”

Most men probably won't be able to say anything when asked this.

On this day, I successfully deflected the conversation, but after that day, the number of conversations on the line decreased a little, and for two days during the Christmas period.

The money I had spent on it seemed like a huge waste, and I felt it was expensive.

If I was going to spend my time like this, wouldn't I have kept it to around 100 million? That's what I thought.

If that was the case, I don't think I would have regretted it even if I didn't get stuck.

After using it for a while, I'm left with some bad feelings.

At this age, it's a little difficult to answer.

And I made my own decision.

Early at the end of the year, we terminated our contracts with these two.

Daddy life is no good if the men can't enjoy it too.

I signed a new contract early in the new year.

I hope we can talk about this again next time.

No matter how active dads are, men and women still need to give and take.

This is important, and I feel it is the most important part of a long-term contract.