Sakaguchi's consideration of matching

Greeting/Introduction

nice to meet you!My name is Masami Sakaguchi, a Universe staff member who is appearing in this column for the first time.

Thank you for your continued support!

I will write a little bit about matching this time as soon as I introduce myself.

As for the contents of this time, the allowance for women will be paid at the asking price!No complaints there!It may be a meaningless column for men like that, so I will tell you first (lol)

First of all, what is the true meaning of Date Club? ?

For those who probably don't know date clubs in general
If I were to say it in the cleanest sense

"A place to find people you can meet for a long time"
 

But in fact, if there are 100 members, I think there are 100 different answers, and I don't think there is a correct answer.

That's why matching is so important.

From a woman's point of view, what kind of person is a wonderful man?

This is also 50 ways if there are 50 women.And vice versa.

A wonderful male figure that I think,

He is a gentleman to women, and can treat women kindly without revealing anything that doesn't make sense to him.
 

A wonderful female figure in my opinion,

She is always considerate of men, can read the atmosphere, has good manners, and can be a listener and a narrator to suit men.
 

This applies to ordinary love stories.

Of course, love is also matching, but I think that the range of matching will expand further by including the element of money.
 

Matching consideration

Now for Sakaguchi's consideration of matching.
 

First off, let me talk about fashion.

Let's say that 100 is a number that expresses a style that everyone thinks is cool and cool.

We will bring this number closer to 100 through the items we wear and the techniques we wear.
At this time, Beckham and Cristiano Ronaldo already have basic performance (face / body) values ​​of 80 to 90.
 

That's why it's so cool that you can paint a picture with just a plain unbranded T-shirt and denim.

Otherwise, everyone will easily reach 100 with the same items and dressing.
(Secretly, Sakaguchi wanted to say that fashion includes not only items but also the body.)

I would like to replace this with a date club.

Let 100 be the number that a woman thinks she can develop into a long-term relationship or a man-woman relationship.Let's analyze the breakdown of these 100 numbers.

If you divide the status, for Sakaguchi

1. Looks (face/body)
2. Personality (courtesy, consideration, talk)
3. age
4. Clothes (sense of cleanliness)
5. Added value (social status, name recognition)
6. allowance (money)

What a place, such as. (If you want to subdivide, you can do as much as you want, so I will leave it as above)
 

Here, if you want to have a long-term relationship with a dating type A woman, or if you want to develop a male-female relationship with a type B or C woman,

First of all, there is no possibility unless the status other than the above allowance has reached the matching standard value of the woman.

This is also different from the status that women value.

Women who absolutely don't like their faces, women who don't like their personalities, etc.
I'm not a sex club, I'm not hired by a club, I'm just an ordinary woman, so the values ​​​​are different for each person.

It's not love, but I'm not thinking only about my allowance (money), so this balance is difficult.
 

Dating type B, C

Women who value allowances more than humanity are classified as Type D.
 

Problems of balance and compatibility with allowances

Let's say that a woman's desired allowance is 5 yen regardless of type.But I don't think it's 5 for everyone.

In the case of a man who has the above status numerically, the total of the numerical values ​​other than the allowance greatly exceeds the matching standard value of the female,

Probably less than 5 yen. (If you are a woman with a wide range of allowances, she should be the cheapest.)

On the other hand, if the sum of the figures is close to the matching standard value, it should be higher than 5 yen because you have to cover it with your allowance.
(Well, I think there are women who have decided on this amount regardless of what kind of man they are.)
 

Also, depending on the woman who is accustomed to being approached by men and the woman who is not accustomed (not in the club but in everyday life), the experience value that the woman has cultivated so far will be different, and the environment she has been involved in will make the woman different. values ​​will also change.

Similarly, men also have their own backbones, so there is also compatibility.

Therefore, women's hopes for allowances change at any time depending on the compatibility with the man they met at that time, the woman's environment at that time, etc., so I think it's better not to rely on it too much.
 

If there is something like a mama activity that is the opposite of a papa activity, and an offer is made to me by a woman who is a messy type, even 1 is fine!

Conversely, if you are a woman who is not your type, you will definitely be refused or your allowance will be higher.I'm with you.
 

With such a wide range of possibilities, mismatches naturally occur.

So what should be done to avoid mismatches as much as possible?

 

From Sakaguchi's point of view, I think it's about how well you can self-analyze your status other than this allowance, and whether there is a gap between self-evaluation and objective (female) evaluation.
 

The only difficult thing is that even if the man understands himself correctly, the woman may be wrong in her evaluation.

A woman who misunderstands that she is in demand even though she doesn't have the looks and skills that meet her needs also misunderstands the above matching criteria that men are trying to ask.

However, this is just a self-evaluation of women, so the club cannot say anything about women.
I think it's difficult for men to figure this out before they even meet, so the club's interviews are important!

 

A Final Word

I am Sakaguchi, who is admonishing himself while writing this column.
Whether Sakaguchi's interviews so far have properly drawn out the necessary information for men,
I regretted it,,,

I wrote a lot, but I know that this matching consideration is not all.Because it is about people and people,

I am grateful that you read the column of a young person like me to the end.

Masami Sakaguchi