Special interview with our club member S

Goooood What was the motive for starting the dating club?

Ms. S: I started my business from the time I was a civil servant, and at first I didn't have much time to spare. I felt that it was declining, but as I got older, I began to think that it should not continue to decay.
I didn't think about this at all because I didn't see any women around me other than work-related, and dating in that kind of relationship would cause trouble.She is also asked if she is a woman at a bar, but my friends go where I go, and it is a blow to be invited and refused, but she is also talked about as being invited by me. There was resistance.
In the end, it's a neck that you don't have confidence in yourself.In that sense, I thought that the dating club I saw on the Internet was one option.

　Also, I had another reason.I got into a good mood with a woman, and unexpectedly, I got into that kind of relationship, but when the scene actually happened at the hotel, it didn't go well.Were you nervous because you had an affair after a long time?I thought, but it didn't go well after that, and she said, "Isn't it because of the rubber?"
I couldn't have children, so I didn't use contraception at home.When this became a reality, I realized that it would be quite difficult to play with sex and think about illness.One of the reasons why I wanted to find a woman who I could have a long relationship with at the dating club was that I had no choice but to find a partner who I could talk to and have them use contraception.

ーー What is the difference between customs and play with others?

Mr. S: When I was young, I often used sex clubs, but the feeling is quite different between entertainment and dating clubs where the fee is fixed from the beginning and the contents of the service are known.I'm not talking about which is better or which is worse.Now you can check your face photo and style in advance, so the rest is whether you want to enjoy the process of dating, whether you want to enjoy eating outside the store and socializing.

As I get older, there are times when just drinking and spending time together is enough for me, but when I really feel like it, I can't do it anymore.Of course, if you feel like it, you can just go to the sex industry, but there's nothing better than just enjoying it with the girl you like.

ーー How was the first setup?

Mr. S: I didn't even know if there was a real situation, so at this time, I nominated him, saying, "Well, this child who registered last is fine."She hadn't uploaded a picture of her face yet, but I liked her body shape, and she said that she had a nice way of saying things and that she was comfortable to hold.She asked me if I didn't have to look at her face, but she said no!When the time came, my cell phone rang and we were able to meet.This girl is cute and I thought she was ok, she did it, but while she was eating she kept asking me, "What are you going to do now?"
If there is a relationship type entry column like Universe, it may be E.Then, when I talk about birth control, I say, "There are men like that, but I'm fit and I'll do it properly, so it's okay."Is that true?I actually tried it even though I thought it was, but it was no good.
Even in the comments on Universe, sometimes women say that it's tight, but I don't really believe it.But they tried their best.For the time being, I understood that the dating club, the actual situation is proper.

How did your relationship start and how did it last?

Mr. S: The next person I asked for setting was a 24-year-old graduate student.As if the people at the club were relieved, I said that this girl has a good reputation so it's okay, but I had a vague sense of what was okay with that.She had a meal at a Japanese restaurant with a private room and we were talking, but she didn't get very excited.

Me: “What do you usually do after dinner?”
She said, "Oh, I'll come back and say thank you for the meal."
No matter what, I don't think it will be well received, so I'm thinking that it means that I don't like it today, so I'm going home.
Me: “But I heard that there are many people who come from Tokyo and want to play here.
She said, "Yes. Everyone has a surprised face, but they all have a certain social status, so they probably have a lot of pride, so they won't do anything unreasonable."
I think everyone is saying that I was a good boy with good looks.
Me: “Then, are you going home today?”
She said, "Either way."

What, how should I think about this?I went to the hotel without any negotiations, even though I thought that creating such a gap would increase my reputation.However, I used birth control as usual, and in the end, it ended in failure. Actually, I talked about this and that, and when I asked her if I could keep going with her, she told me that her menstrual cycle would come every 28 days, so it would be fine for a week. I will contact you.
I also met for a while without any reason to refuse, but I received an email saying that it was okay for 3 weeks a month.Is it true? I thought, but the relationship continued.But if you ask me to start taking the pill, the woman can take the pill, but the man can also cut the pipe.I cut back.
Before long, when I was on a business trip to Tokyo, an acquaintance of mine had no one to go with, so I thought it was a chance and asked if he would like to go with me.However, at this time, for the first time, I was told, "Maybe it's a dangerous day."But after this, he took the pill and we continued dating until graduation the following year.

ーーWas there someone you liked after you said goodbye?

Mr. S: After she graduated, I met several people from around 20 to mid-30s, and I found out that there are various people.There were also university students who were unable to find a part-time job due to job hunting, and who only came to enjoy the transportation expenses for meals.
This woman said, "But men are different. I'm on my third date, but I know you're thinking about more than that, so I think I have to quit."She also met a woman who works at Deriheru.As soon as this child appeared at the meeting place, it started with "Shall we go?"
There was also a reservation for a meal here, so I was in a hurry.Deriheru said that he registered here because he couldn't refuse the customers introduced by the store, even if he didn't like it, so I asked him if he wouldn't be nominated that many. I thought I would be able to do it for a month if I could get it.”
I've come to understand that it's rare to get along well because there are various things such as the motivation for joining, the compatibility of talking, and the compatibility of the bed.Also, when it comes to dating, there are people who want to see each other for a short time and receive pocket money each time and go home quickly, and people who say that they can come to the room at any time as long as they receive a certain amount of monthly allowance.
While I was doing that, my friend spotted me going out on a date, which in itself wasn't a problem, but I thought it would be bad if I wasn't careful about doing this kind of activity in the local city A, so I thought about looking for a woman in Tokyo. I was.

--- What are the benefits of the Universe Club?

Dear S: The universe has realized quite a lot on the internet what I thought would be like when I look at photos and videos.Since we have gained a lot of support, we will increase the number of members and collect everyone's requests with the greatest pledge as much as possible, and in the future it will become even bigger and more convenient.I think that many registered women are open-minded and do not show their wariness too much.

Goooood Please give some advice to those who are about to start a dating club.

Mr. S: Tokyo is like a universe where many members are gathered, there are various places such as big ones and small ones with a single owner, so there is room for choice.On the other hand, there are likely to be female and male members who are unfamiliar with such an open club. I think you need to get information and choose a club that suits you.
I found out that women also enter for various purposes, and that there are various hopes for how to get along with men.I also found it difficult to find someone who matched my expectations.However, I feel a fresh throbbing of my heart every time I meet him, and in that sense I am grateful.

Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedules to speak with us today.
Thank you for your continued support of Universe Club.

The profile of the man we interviewed this time was Mr. S, self-employed in his 50s who has been in the dating club for 8 years.

He is a man with a very kind face and gentle way of speaking.
Thank you very much for answering the sudden question from the club and making it into an article.
I hope to continue to publish interviews like this one.
I would be happy if I could help you with a little bit of admission.
Thank you very much Mr. S.
Please look forward to next time★