The other side of a certain male member

This column is like my mere complaints struggling between a dating woman and a family.This is the content.

Probably most of the registered male members areI think that there are many people who have plenty of room at work and at home.

On the other hand, registered womenBecause I am dealing with a man who is usually relaxed,I am aware that both men and women in the club will not agree with this content..

“There are people like that in the dating club.I would appreciate it if you could read it with a sense of about.
 

It is sudden

Do you have any "scary" things?

When I was a child, I had the trauma of being stung by a paper wasp.I have a big problem with bees.

It's embarrassing, butI have an irresistible fear of bees,For example, I encountered a bee while dating a woman I met at Universe Club.I'll probably run away alone (laughs)

But what scares me more than those bees


"Golden Week"

"Summer vacation"

"New Year holiday"


It's called "long vacation".

For me, nothing scares me more than a long vacation.

rest?I can't rest at all (laughs)

And above all, I'm afraid of my "wife".

A violent quarrel broke out with his wife over trivial matters,Divorce turmoil that happens every long vacation.

On my days off, I spend all my time playing in Endless Park with my daughter.

I don't have the right to watch TV,There is nothing in the refrigerator at home that I can freely eat or drink.

Of course, neither is my room.

Perhaps the behavior that is allowed at home is "eat what is served"Take a bath, go to bed, that's all.

after,It is a major premise not to pollute the inside of the house.

Smartphones that you carry around outside are treated as garbage at home, soI am not allowed to look at my smartphone at home.


Yes.


At home, I have no free movement, time, or space.
 

Difficult questions from dating women

One of the things that bothers me when I meet women at dating clubs is the question, "What do you do on your days off?"

It's just normal small talk,Women are not bad.

Perhaps all the male members have their own hobbies and enjoyI think that there is no problem in answering.

On the other hand, I am almost XNUMX% on my days off,I went out with my daughter in the morning to parks and zoos,After eating dinner with my child, I went home, gave my child a bath,I put him to sleep and sleep with him.
(My wife is alone at home slowly.)


I have no freedom of movement at home,This is the only thing I do on my days off.

"You should be able to say that normally."

You may think thatI don't like talking about my family to the women in the club.

Don't you want to go back to reality, or is it just that I'm weak,Don't you want to hate yourself?

I'm a terrible father who plays around, but I want to deceive myself there.

After saying, "I play with my daughter all the time,"Have sex with a woman other than your wife.

I just can't get that nervous.


What would you say?


Playing tag with my daughter in the park and reading picture books at the library

→ “On my days off, I often run in the park or read books.”


Going to see Pretty Cure, Frozen, or children's movies with my daughter

→ ``Maybe I'll go see a movie once in a while.''


His hobby is taking pictures of his daughter with a single-lens reflex camera.

→ “My hobby is taking pictures of animals.”


I'm answering by rephrasing to the extent that I can't lie exquisitely.

Also, sometimes I get asked by a woman I'm dating, "I want to see you on my day off!"There is something to be said.


I'm a woman I want to meet, so I'll manage somehow,Self-responsibility is self-responsibility

devil~. .It's hard. .

After explaining to his wife that it was a drinking party for an appropriate reason, he said, "I'm going to take care of my daughter properly until I take a bath! andAfter playing with the child from morning to evening, take a bath,Hurry up and go out on a date.

I can't believe I'm doing this before a dateI can't imagine the woman you're dating.

For a dating woman, "I have business during the day, so I'll do something about it at night."That's what I'm saying, so when we meet at night, I'm usually asked.

I am fully aware that there is nothing wrong with women, but...

"What were you doing during the day?"

… Now, give me a break. .

Even though I rushed from my slapstick daily life,Please don't remind me of reality lol

When I'm about to eat and have sex


"I was just playing with my daughter in the park,After taking a bath together, I came out in a hurry."


do you want to ask? (smile)

Men who are registered in this kind of club have both work and private life.I think most of them are living a fulfilling life.

On the other hand, I have a hard time at work and at home.

In such a way, I'm working on activities at the club.


Perhaps the other single womanA man who is registered in the club can't believe that he has such a sloppy daily lifeI don't think you sent it.

I am fully aware that women are not bad.

I'm bad (laughs)
 

Why I hate taking long vacations

Long vacations are especially difficult.

It's still good to go home, butWhen I don't go home, I spend the above holidays almost every day.

It's an endless park date with my daughter.

I can only do that all the time.

So, after a long vacation, from a dating woman

"What did you do during your vacation?"

Even if you ask meI've only been to parks, so I don't have anything to talk about.

I can't even complain about my family to the woman I'm dating.I want to draw a line there.

There is no choice but to talk appropriately. .
 

Reasons why long vacations are scary

Besides, what scares me the most during long vacations is quarreling with my wife.

The reason is really trivial.For example, how to use shampoo,It's like how you do the laundry.

If my wife gets angry, I will be beaten by Mettameta,I ran away from home several times because I couldn't stand it anymore.

By the way, I've never been yelled at by a woman.

I have never been found out.

If I find out, I am no longer in this world.


In the past, my wife stabbed a kitchen knife into my neck.

"If you cheat, I'll kill you,I will kill all your relatives."

I've been told.


"Are you Nobunaga! (laughs)"


At least I'm certain that I'll be stabbed with a kitchen knife,I am always vigilant so as not to be found out.

I don't think the women I'm dating want me to die either.

By the way, while running away from home, my wife arbitrarily sent a search request to the police,After returning home, I withdrew the search request by myself.


I tell the police myself.

"I'm back" (laughs)


One time, when I went home to apologize, my parents were there for some reason.My father once scolded me for not running away from home.

(laughs)


There was also something like this.

The night I left homeI was walking around the night town to eat yakiniku alone., I see a family restaurant that happened to pass by.

Warm light leaks out from the family restaurant.

Happy family, father mother, grandfather and grandmother,And the children are smiling and talking and eating.

While staring at it alone from the cold outside

"It's not natural to have a warm home!!"

There was also a time when I screamed in my heart without saying aloud (laughs)

In addition, That was when I was playing privately before joining the club..

The other womanYou wouldn't imagine being in such a mess at home.

I never tell anyone about family discord,Never say you want a divorce or anything like that.Rather, even if there is dissonance in the family, "I will never get a divorce"I say it clearly to my opponent.

maybe,Somehow I think I'm living a warm family life on a long vacationIt will be.

A subtle atmosphere began to drift on the line during the long vacation period when we could not meet,As a result, women also get dumped.

Tired at home and frustrated with women.

With such a double punch, I am devastated and head to work after the break.

There were times like that.

Well, of course, it's a natural reward (laughs)


Since I have such an experience, every time before a long vacation, I say "I worry that something will happen."

Just "anxiety about getting frustrated by women"About was able to be resolved by the Universe Club.

In the first column, Mr. Mack said, "Before your ass catches fire with an affair,I was fortunate enough to be able to escape to a shelter called a club.”

I got a comment, and it's true.

Thanks to Universe Club.
 

Bad date content

It's a "drive".

Even if you say "I want to go for a drive", I will absolutely refuse.

You can never bring your partner into the car.

why?

normally,Since I am going out with my daughter, the child seat is installed in the passenger seat.You.

If it's just that, you can use it for a date if you remove the seat,I can't.

In front of the passenger seat, my daughter wanted to put a sticker such as Pretty Cure,My daughter gets mad at me when I take it off without permission.

Don't you hate riding in the passenger seat full of Pretty Cure stickers? (smile)

It's troublesome to prepare a rental car for a date, so "Drive" is NG.

And it is impossible to have a sudden overnight date or go home in the morning.

In terms of professional wrestling, would you say it's a "one match with no time limit"?

You can't fight like that.

For me, "four hours one game" is the limit.

I can tell from the atmosphere.

(Ah, this girl has a day off tomorrow, so before going to the hotel,I want to go to the second house! '' did you say? . )

In such a case, "I'm sorry for today! I'm going home with this!"I have no choice but to go home without going to the hotel.

So time management is very important to me.

Time for meals, time to travel to the hotel.

When you arrive at the hotel, think about the time until the return train,Count back the time so that the action will end within that time.

And before and after shower time, foreplay attack, insertion act,Pillow talk after that, roughly calculated the time to devote to each.

XNUMX hours including all of them.It is uncool to rush a woman, so you need a natural lead.

If you shorten the pillow talk time, it will feel subtle, soReduce foreplay and insertion time when time is tight.

Going home is a must.

A sudden stay is absolutely not accepted.
 

restricted activities

There are times when it is not possible to meet the demands of women with this kind of feeling.Besides, it would be troublesome if a woman would scrutinize me, so I had time.The content of the conversation is also the same, and we are active under various restrictions.

Are they all painful?

Actually it's not.

There are certainly many problems.

However, because time and conversation are limited,While trying not to go in a direction that is inconvenient for you,Acquire the ingenuity to manage time and liven up the conversation in a limited topic.to come.

Also about timeFor example, XNUMX minutes and XNUMX seconds at the last minute in a XNUMX-minute single match in professional wrestlingIf the match ends atThe match will be super exciting.

Manage your time well and make the most of your timeI want the other woman to be satisfied as well, and see you later~After parting with the woman, I walked briskly and quickly,I barely got on the train I was aiming for.

There is also a sense of accomplishment that can be enjoyed only because there are restrictions.
 

fear of women

Yes, I am afraid of my wife.

I think women have fear, not just wives.

"Fear of women" when looking at the questions in the question boxI feel that there are many men who do not understand,In a way, I'm happy to have a man like that."

A junior who was a playboy and didn't know the fear of women,Recently, my wife found out about my play,GPS keeps track of where you are at all times.

when you drink with meI took a picture of me as evidence and sent it to my wife on LINE.

Even just walking down the street, I'm scared enough to avoid love hotels.(Lol)


Aya-chan who appears in the "Japan Fill-in-the-blank Association".

I've decided to register next month, but I'm actually remarried.

At the time of the last divorce, there was a man who had a double affair,It seems that they were talking about breaking up with each other and getting married.

And Aya-chan got divorced, but the other party couldn't divorce,In a big fight of muddy.

result,Aya-chan has a past that she took a considerable amount of compensation from the other partyThere is (laughs)


Recently married Mari who appears in "The day I became a" woman ".

The husband is also "a man who doesn't know the fear of women".

However, cheating is discovered early due to the sweetness of the armpit.

With that as a trigger, she started managing money around her husband's deposits,It has secured an overwhelming position within the family.

Also my husband's GPS management (laughs)

While eating together the other day,I was following my husband's GPS with my smartphone, but halfway

"Ah, you're on your way home by train, aren't you?"

It was good, but soon

"Hey, you got off the train."

"Where are you walking?"

"That's a love hotel town, isn't it?"

And why is my husband approaching the love hotel town?

"You're being watched! Don't go! Realize!"

"Turn back~!!"

When I noticed it, I shouted out loud and for some reason I was cheering for my husband (lol)


While the man was sleeping, the mobile phone was unlocked by fingerprint authentication without permission,Internet browsing history, Google Map movement history,Take a peek at the line and take a picture as evidence, etc.It is a common method that comes out immediately if you look it up on the net.

There seems to be an app that allows you to look into the other party's mobile phone, and from now on, "It may be safer to think that women are hackers.

Time is passing.

Do you think that kind of girl is scary?

No, I'm scared too, butIf it's that kind of fear,I think she's a very normal, solid woman with a good personality."

I wonder if I'm crazy .
 

Afterword

I can't tell friends, family, dating women, anyone about this kind of content,I tried to make it a column even more.

I'm sorry.

In the first place, it's too scary to be "four-strong" with a woman without an allowance,I escaped to the club.

But what about work?Name is?home?What about your wife?where do you live?If you are prying, it will be my "death" by any chanceBecause there is a possibility that it will lead to(laughs)

Well, the other party probably didn't think about it that way. .

I don't want my death, let alone the woman I'm dating, soYou are misleading or lying.

Common issues include:I don't like lying, so please refrain from prying. .

Lastly, by the way, I would like to hear the opinions of women.

A real story about a family like this (playing with my daughter/I'm afraid of my wife)Do you want to hear from the man you're dating when you're about to have sex?

What do you think?tell me ^^;