What is the difference between a lover and a lover?

2018-01-05

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Thank you very much for always watching.
I'm Toritani, in charge of the Universe Club Kyoto Branch.

This time, I was somehow trying to summarize my thoughts for the column.
At that time, I decided to think about the difference between a mistress and a lover.

Contents

1 What is the difference between a lover and a lover?
2 What do lovers and mistresses have in common?
3 A Final Word

What is the difference between a lover and a lover?

First of all, if you look up the word koibito,

1. Someone you miss.Usually, it is said to be a relationship of mutual love.

What about mistress?

1, dear beloved.The opposite sex in a special relationship.
2. to love people.

I can't seem to find much difference...
I can't really find the difference.
I'm just going to describe the difference between a lover and a lover that Toritani thinks.

What is a lover
A relationship where you can love and respect each other
After that, I think that it is a partner who wants to make the other person happy.

And my lover...
parties to whom a contract can bind each other
However, there are many people who think that they can respect each other and that they want to make their partner happy.

I think more.
So there is not much difference here...

What do lovers and mistresses have in common?

So I thought it would be better to look for something in common, so I thought about what Toritani had in common.
So what do the two have in common?

1. It is a relationship that respects and respects the other party
2. Be a partner who feels compassionate and loving to the other person
3, I want to give something to the other party as a gift or surprise to make them happy.
4. Listen to the other person and want the other person to listen to you
And so on...

I think it's something like

I think we probably have more in common and I can hardly separate the two.
I think it's no exaggeration to say that these two are so similar that they're almost the same.
Words are difficult...

A Final Word

If you do activities that don't make your partner happy just because you're a mistress, they won't be happy either...
In order to have fun with your partner and yourself, you have to think about a date that you can enjoy while entertaining your partner.
Of course, this applies to both men and women.
It means that it is necessary to make an effort to make each other happy and to make the other party happy.
It's very difficult, but it's a necessary response to enjoy a date.
For that reason, why don't you try to make more effort than you are doing now?
I hope that it will be of some help to the mistresses and lovers who are dating.
Thank you very much.

: Writers: Universe Group
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4 thoughts on “What is the difference between a lover and a lover?”

Mac Than:

2018-01-06 5: 40 PM

A lover is a relationship that has a future open to marriage, and a lover is a relationship that can't expect more than the current situation.
For men, the feelings for women are the same, but for women, they are very different.
If you are a lover, it will lead to SEX even slowly, but in the case of a lover, once the initial relationship is completed (if you do not have sex early), a woman who does not like change It seems to become stubborn.

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- Akira Toritani Than:
  
  2018-01-09 10:39 AM
  
  Mr. Mac
  Thank you for your comment! !
  That's right... I think the point of a mistress is that the relationship can't be developed any further.
  This was a blind spot, thank you!
  In that sense, the relationship between lovers and mistresses is a very important part of building future relationships.
  It's very difficult, but I think it's fun to explore what you can do to win the first time.
  As Toritani, I think I'll think more deeply about that in the future! !
  
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A Than:

2018-01-08 12: 08 PM

It's a little different from the purpose of the column, but in short, it's just like people used to refer to mistresses as "Nigo-san."

Wife = Main = Living together = Shared fate
Mistress = sub = payment relationship = contract

Men are usually more enthusiastic about the sub, but that doesn't change the fact that the main thing is important, and it doesn't mean you can neglect it.
Judging from my personality, I think that ``it's only fun when you have a wife,'' so I'm trying not to forget moderate wife activities.
Personally, I don't think I will play with women when my wife is gone.

There are times when the "lover" is the "No. XNUMX candidate", but if he is a bad guy, he will of course "taunt the No. XNUMX position and lure him in, and only suck the No. XNUMX pleasure", so be careful.
Well, I don't think any woman who registers with a dating club will get caught in such a situation, but I think there is a risk of getting involved if the man himself is in a state of self-deception.

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- Akira Toritani Than:
  
  2018-01-09 10:47 AM
  
  Mr. A
  
  Thank you for your comment! !
  Well... I think it's only when you have a real wife, or rather a favorite, that you can be active outside with a sense of security.
  Those who have their own theories of cheating also say that their wives are very important to them, but they still seem to hang out outside, and they themselves have said so on TV programs.
  
  Toritani thinks that it is possible that men will stagnate if there is no stimulus other than that, although they feel relieved.
  Mr. A also takes care of his wife in the same way, but I thought that he continued to polish women and playboys so that his wife would not get bored.
  In that sense, I can't say that the dating club is safe, but I will make efforts to see the day when it will be active as an adult's taste.
  
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