Things that are surprisingly easy to forget

In dad life, when you become a dad and have a long-term contract with a woman, there comes a time when you have to show your true self.

 

Of course, showing your true self is not a bad thing, nor is it a wrong thing to do.

However, there are some things we must not forget.

What that means is that there is a line that needs to be drawn between young women and their fatherhood.

Drawing this line is quite important.

The reason for this is that women and men have different purposes for dating.

Any man who has become a father should already understand this.

However, there are many men who forget this aspect as they become closer to women.

What happens if you forget this important line?

Simply put, women hate it.

No, he'll probably end up being a painful man who doesn't understand what it means to be a father in the first place.

So, what is the position of men in fatherhood? That being said, it is what it is.

For women, it's daddy.

Of course, I think there are some women who have relationships with them as boyfriends.

But what we must not forget is, ``No matter where you go, you're still my dad.''

Therefore, no matter how close you are to a woman, no matter how long your contract is, no matter how much you take care of her, you must never forget that you are in the position of being a father.

In such a situation, many people who become fathers and are unable to maintain a contract with a woman for a long time are of this type.

Now that I'm used to it, I can show my true self and face women.

In my mind, this type of man is starting to have some misunderstandings, or I think he's not cut out to be a father.

The reason for this is that men who become fathers and women who become fathers are far different in age to begin with, and men do not realize that women are adjusting to them.

There is no way a young woman can talk to a man over 50.

However, without realizing that the woman is coordinating the conversation with the man, she begins to talk openly, under the illusion that she has become younger.

Naturally, women are expected to put up with it to some extent because they are working as dads.

However, what if men added sermons and talked to women as they would talk to their own generation? Naturally, women will not be able to bear it.

I'm sure there are many men who become fathers who think, ``That can't happen,'' but this is a reality, and in many cases it happens without the men even realizing it.

If a man were to show his true self and face a woman, it is only natural that this would happen naturally.

That's why self-control is so important when becoming a dad.

What is your control?

There's nothing wrong with showing your true self when it comes to being a dad.

However, you need to take a hard look at your own age and the age of the other person, and then show your true self.

When it comes to fatherhood, the majority of women are in their 20s.

Of course, there are many people in their 30s, but from what I've seen, the majority are in their 20s, and I feel like women are also very aware of their own worth.

Many of my friends are also fathers, and the overwhelming majority of the women who have contracts are in their early to mid-20s.

Certainly, from our perspective, it would be impossible for us to date someone in their 20s.

Unless you're active as a dad, you'll never be able to have a relationship.

So, how do you interact with women in their 20s? I think so.

In any case, be careful with your words and maintain dignity from beginning to end.

And even if the other woman speaks to you in formal language, don't waver and speak politely.

No, I think it's important to continue to speak politely when it comes to language. (from my experience)

By accumulating these things, you can instill in women that ``this father is classy.''

Then, words are very important, and using honorific language in contrast to tame language naturally creates humility.

This partly depends on how the other person perceives you, but basically, I feel that if you speak politely, a large percentage of women will perceive your response as modest. .

If a man tries to match the conversation with people of the same generation and tries to speak in a young way, or if the conversation follows the same track, it can lead to an argument over childish content, or if a woman tries to talk in a young way. I can no longer tolerate failure.

And from a man's perspective, being a father with a woman may no longer be as fun.

Furthermore, women are not seeking rejuvenation from men, nor are they trying to become fathers because they want to sign contracts with men of the same generation.

In other words, dad-hunting doesn't require men to have conversations about women's age.

However, there are quite a few men who forget this borderline and start having vulgar conversations with young women. (My friend also has one)

I'm sure it wasn't like that when we first met, but I guess it became that way with time and getting used to it.

I also had a similar experience in the past.

After all, if a woman is a father and is good at interacting with men, there is a space where men forget her age and misunderstand her. (This can realistically happen to anyone.)

And how do women view men who have degraded themselves? This is my impression when I look at women, and they will never see me as a decent man again.

As a result, the woman ends up being unreliable as a father, and even if she likes the woman, there is a possibility that the contract will be canceled. (Actually, I have experienced this in the past)

In order to prevent this from happening, if men always have humility toward women, this will not happen and they will be able to judge women calmly.

And above all, in my case, people often see me as a ``mature, mature man.''

If a man has adult qualities, women will naturally want to rely on him forever.

Once again, if there is a man who seems to have no modesty toward women, please reconsider, even if just for a moment.

I think you can feel the change in the way women look at men.