The first time is important! ! !

This may be common sense to those who have been fathers for a long time, so I would like to pass this on to men who are about to become fathers.

As a father, when you sign a contract with a woman, your first date is exciting.

Depending on the man, there may be many who enjoy their first date with a woman as their casual, casual selves.

The following are my thoughts based on my experience, so they may not apply to all men. (I'll tell you this first.)

Surprisingly, women who are looking to become fathers often go on their first date without completely getting over the image of the father-to-be as an ``elderly uncle''.

No, I'd say there are a lot of them, but I think most of the places I've seen.

So, he looks at me with a sense of detachment.

However, most men who become fathers are likely to be economically wealthy.

Therefore, if you want to be particular about your appearance, you should be able to change it easily.

However, as we grow older, we become more stubborn and end up thinking, ``Is it really necessary to go that far?''

I have had a great experience with this, and I no longer have the will to change myself for the sake of someone else.

What's more, when others say something to you, you become stubborn and say, ``I absolutely don't want to change my mind.''

I also have quite a bit of experience, so I can understand.

However, I would like to say this.

In dad-hunting, such a ``hard head'' tends to be disliked by women, and especially young women are not accepted.

Of course, if you pay the allowance, the place may show ``acceptance''.

But it's best not to think that's what women really think.

Inwardly, people think that I'm too stubborn and it's tiring.

For this reason, men who become fathers must start by relaxing their minds.

With that in mind, if you're going on a first date with a young woman, it's better to take things seriously and it will last longer, and you'll be more likely to make a good impression on the other young woman.

Anyway, don't forget about cleanliness.

If you are going on a date with a woman who is becoming a father for the first time, be sure to take care of your hair the day before.

This can be done at a hair salon or at a barber shop.

The impression that women who are working as fathers have of older men is that they are filthy and only get their hair done about once a month.

Therefore, keeping your hair neat can give a clean impression to young women. (If you have a beard, please align it.)

Why is this important? I have the impression that young people these days, especially the so-called "Generation Z," tend to like pretty things.

To put it simply, I would say that I "observe people closely."

Therefore, if a young woman sees even the slightest bit of uncleanness, even if she wants to give a different impression later on, the initial impression remains so strong that it becomes difficult for young women to shake off the impression of uncleanness from their minds. right.

That's why it's important to look pretty on your first date.

In other words, if you give a beautiful impression at the beginning, that impression will remain strong in the young woman's mind later on, and even if something happens to her, she will not be left with a strange impression.

In fact, when I brought up a topic with similar nuances to the young woman I was contracting with, she said, ``That's true.''

So, especially when going on a first date with a young woman after signing a contract, it may be a bit of a hassle, but I think it's a good idea to be considerate when going out.

A private car is recommended for the first date.

I basically like alcohol.

For this reason, when he goes out with women, he almost always drinks alcohol.

Why? It's simply because I'm nervous.

After all, at this age, when I talk to young women, I feel a generation gap, and I tend to get nervous, which naturally becomes a stopper, and I talk less, which leads to pauses and endless tension. I start to feel it.

If that happens, you won't be able to say what's on your mind, and you'll be in a situation where you won't be able to express what you want to ask the woman in words.

That's why I drink alcohol, but recently I often skip alcohol on first dates with my contracted mistresses.

The reason for this is that I have started to enjoy going on dates by driving my own car across the street. (Drink driving is not allowed.)

I think most men have their own driver or prefer to take a taxi.

I also used taxis before.

However, when I used my own car for the first date, the woman was really happy.

Even though I'm nervous inside the car, it's a closed-door space, so even if I can't speak, the woman will start a conversation with me, and above all, I don't have to worry about my surroundings, which makes me feel a little less nervous. There are benefits.

Also, last month I signed a new contract with my mistress, and when we went for our first drive together, I realized something.

That means that even if there is no plan until then, something can be done.

For example, if I suddenly wanted to go to a hot spring, I could go by car, or I could drive to Odaiba late at night and use it to create an atmosphere.

This is inconvenient, as if you don't call for a taxi, it won't come.

However, private cars don't have any of those things, and good hotels in Tokyo usually have parking lots, so you won't have to worry about finding a place to park.

Also, when I pick up a woman in my own car, the other person seems to get really excited.

My contract mistress said this.

``I like traveling in my dad's car because I don't have to worry about being seen, and there's something special about it.Especially when it's a first date, there are a lot of things I don't want people to hear, and my dad... If you're in the car, no one can hear you, so I think that's a good thing."

This is the same for men as well, and they don't want other people to hear their conversations with young women, right? So there are mutual benefits.

Up until now, I have gone on dates with various young women in my own car, and not a single one of them hated it. (Just from my experience)

On the contrary, most of the children said they would like to ride in their father's car next time.

Please use your own car for your first date with a woman who is working as a father.