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Communication called 🛠 of Papa Katsu

This time, I would like to write about the so-called "adult" relationship with my experiences.


In the first place, "adult" refers to papa and pj having sex.


It will be a contract to have a physical relationship with the daddy, treating the relationship of having sex as an "adult relationship".


This is sometimes written as "🛠", and the meaning of "🛠" in papa katsu also refers to having sex.


This ``🛠'' is said to be a combination of the word ``hame'', and is thought to have come from the slang word ``hameru'' for sex.


It seems that the market price for adults is more than 3, and there are pj who pay hundreds of thousands of expensive people.


It seems that there are pj who trade between 1.5 and 3 yen, but it is said that it is better not to do so because it will lower the market price of pj's adult relationship.


By the way, isn't there some people who feel that the hurdle is quite high when it comes to adults?


I myself think that sex is communication, and I think that sex allows you to get to know the other person deeply, but I think there are many people who can't think like that.


My theory of sex is very simple, "I feel comfortable with my partner."


That's all.


Papa katsu doesn't mean having sex with someone you like, so you can't feel good about it!Some people may think that, but repeated sex can be a tool to get to know the other person deeply.


For example, there was a time when I myself enjoyed having sex, and having sex with many people gave me the opportunity to get to know myself better.


I chose sex as a simple way to do something I enjoy rather than having an affair or having an affair.


Sex is risky, so it makes sense that many people feel uneasy about it.


When I met someone for the first time, I also felt very uneasy.


Sex is communication.


Unless you both understand this, I don't think you can have good sex.


For example, there is a method called "dating" overseas.


Dating literally means going on a date.


This doesn't necessarily mean you're going on a date with just one person, you can go on dates with different people at the same time.


at the same time?Isn't that cheating?Some people may think that, but it is common overseas to have a date before "dating" in Japan.


By dating multiple people at the same time, you can get to know them well, and you can compare them by saying, "That person might be better" or "This person is nice here."


Of course, this dating also includes sex, and by having sex before dating, you can check the compatibility of your body with each other.


There is compatibility in sex, so I think it's very rational and wonderful to think that you should check beforehand so that you don't break up because of it.


Some people may think that this is not the case between pj and dad, but even when having sex with dad, it is better to have someone who is compatible.


At the same time, if you are a daddy, you will think that "this daddy has a good relationship, but you can't do that."


If you don't hate yourself for that kind of thing, and think that having sex is normal overseas and that having sex isn't dirty, you'll feel better.


There was a time when I hated myself for having sex like that.


However, knowing this way of thinking, I was able to think that "knowing deeply about sex is never a bad thing."


In terms of communication, the basics of communication are to be considerate of the other person's feelings, listen carefully to their reactions, and not be selfish.


Skin-to-skin contact leads to more intimate communication, and the joy of discovering the other person's pleasure is something that can only be achieved by caring about the other person.


I think some people are not good at sex because there are many people who prioritize only their own pleasure without that, but if we return to such a basic posture, we can have good sex. Is it not?


It wasn't until the Meiji era that the concept of chastity became associated with sex, and until then, Japanese people enjoyed easy-going sex.


There was also a custom of night crawling, and it seems that there were people who played the role of graduating from the virginity of the village.


I don't think there's anything wrong with enjoying sex, considering it's a practice that came with the spread of Christianity.


Enjoying sex can be difficult, but you can have a great time if you and your partner can lift each other up.


It is important for both parties to be considerate of each other, rather than one of them continuing to serve or being too passive.


I hope pj and dads can enjoy sex with each other.

Gen Z writer.He writes mostly about sex life and mental health.I want to write about life.

Article by Tjiasuka


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