This is the first time for me to be a dad.XNUMX years!(I was surprised at how quickly it was written.lol)

She spends fulfilling (?) days as a company employee during the day, a housewife at night, and sometimes a mistress.

Before I started working as a dad, I worked part-time as an office worker during the day and at a membership club at night.

This night job experience,kana-ri foodI think I've become

No experience is wasted,

Something that will be sustenance somewhere someday even if it is not immediately.

For me, I found that working at night was a shortcut to success in P-katsu.

"Now" after about XNUMX years

I think from my point of view today,"I feel good about working as a p-katsu after working at night."Talk.

What I think was connected to P-katsu after working at night

I learned how to act naturally

posture

originally,I have a complex about being hunched over and having a bad posturewas me

If you continue to be conscious of keeping your back straight while serving customers,

I naturally got used to it and improved my postureIt is

From the dads I met in Papa Katsu,

Before being praised with pinpoint "Your posture is very good" ♪

Good posture = dignified and positive imagegives

meet for the first timeMake a good impression with face-to-face, is an important point.

How to speak

this is,I learned from the tone and atmosphere of my sisters and momsThere are many points.

Tongue twisterOrMumbling under your breathIt is NG to talk in.

While staring at the other person's eyes, make a moderate nod,

Speak slowly and politelyWith thatHow to speak in a sexy wayIt will be.

Most of the dads are in their late 40s or older, soI prefer to speak in a sexy way.

Also, depending on the opponent and the atmosphere of the place,

Don't use words like "maji" or "funny"I want to.

☓This is really funny~!　○ This is so funny!

No matter how beautiful your appearance is, if you open your mouth, you will be disappointed.

It is important to be aware of this in daily conversations.

Learned about alcohol and became stronger

Until I started working the night shiftI could only drink things that were not too high in frequencyHowever,

There are many whiskeys and wines to have together at the shop,

I was rather alcohol-tolerant to begin with, but I quickly got used to it and was able to drink it.

Also, I was able to drink delicious sake at the shop that you took with me, so

The range of alcohol that can be drunk has expanded, and the brands have become more detailedOf thelater strengthTo ♪

There are dads who can't drink alcohol or don't like it very much,

Impression that there are quite a lot of dads who like alcohol.

“Drinking alone is lonely, I want to drink with young children.”　

That's what the alcohol-loving dads I've actually met said.

Socialize with alcohol as much as you likeOnce you havepretty high pointsI think it 's.

Although not very strongdrinking too much,

although strongdrink too much and get drunkto dodecency is questionedBecause,

To the lastDegree of "liking"I would like to keep it.

Resistance to the uncle generation disappears

"What should I talk about with someone who is about my parents' generation and whom I've never met before...?"

When I started working night shifts, I thought so at first.

But if I turn my back,"Because there are many things we don't know when we meet for the first time, there are many things to talk about."

Advantages and disadvantages are always two sides of the same coin.

During the limited time we spend together,

"I want to know who this person is!"If you face each other with the feeling that

Conversation never endsThing.

Work, housing, hobbies, favorite food, how to spend holidays,

You don't have to be too hard just because you're older,The topic is very normalHm.

When things get difficult,

empathize with a know-it-allOrtell me what you knowRather than

"What does that mean?"

とlisten honestlyis betterPure and cute impressionGive.

The old menWants to be asked, wants to teach, wants to talkIt is (laugh)

Even if you don't understand what you hear, remember it and look it up later.

Since questions alone won't last long,The topic of "I am ~ what ♪" in response,

little sympathyspeak out loudWhen,goodThe relaxed atmosphere makes it easy to have a lively conversation

Polished interpersonal skills

It's my first time working at night, but it's naturalGreater opportunities to interact with people of all agesIt was.

Of course, not only good customers,

Cold-hearted people, sharp-tongued people, and people who say things from the topetc··

Because I'm the type of person who cares too much about small things,

to such a person at firstI had a lot of joy and sorrowbut,

as you get used to it"Ah, this type of person."とdivide or

"If you say such words to such people, they will be happy♪"な どanalyze,

So that you can enjoy it with any person in any placebecame.

This is the bestSkills that are utilized in P lifeMaybe ♪

Good thing I quit my night job and started working as a dad

Zero pressure and anxiety about sales

As long as it is a cast of the shop,work not playSo,

I was under a lot of stress, both mentally and physically.I think so.

The good thing about being a dad isno need to competeTokoro♪

You can do it at your own pace without comparing yourself to anyone elseHowever,

I think it's more of an advantage. (Of course, stress is inevitable because it is person-to-person. Lol)

Able to lead a regular life

Originally, I was working at night as a side job of my day job, so I worked from morning until late at night...

Papa-katsu has no time limit, so you can talk to each other and decide your scheduleBecause,

Even while working the day jobEasy to adjust schedule without unreasonableness♪

Thanks to that,So that you can concentrate on your day jobbecame

Staying up late and drinking lessFor,The skin is clean and the swelling is improved!

plus for meIt was only

You can only date people you like

this for meNo. XNUMX stress-free pointIt was 🤣 (laughs)

To be honest, if it's a night job,No matter how bad a customer is, you can't say "change!"

I have no choice but to take it easy when it comes to work.

I have a personality like a chameleonFor me, he was good at standing around,

The amount of patience I can't see is enough to stress me.

With Papa Katsu, in the case of the app, you can roughly judge from the profile before matching,

Try to meet in person, and if you can't do it, don't meet next time.That's all.

How free!andWhen I first started, I was impressed.I remember the

No dress code or hairstyle required

worn at the storedress fee,Daily hair set feeetc···

All in all, it cost a lot, sohonestly this is important.

Papa lifeThe image of women that most dads want....

The kind of girl you wouldn't meet at a bar at night... it doesn't feel like a job... "a girl who cleans up"

Isn't there a lot of them?

Of course, I think that the types of dads are also divided into each person,

If I classify myself according to various systems, I am a clean system,

Loose hair that is not too flashy, announcer-like natural fashionで

I try not to make too much and meet in a natural way.

Depending on the taste of dads, use properly!I think there are people who say,

I want to come in the atmosphere that best suits me and in a state where I can convey my charm.Because,

don't use properlyConsistently, I'm piercing myself.Only with this! (smile)

I want to date someone who likes me for who I amThat's right♪

Summary

Conclusion,I'm more active as a dad than a night jobThat's it!When,

I've felt it vaguely over the past three years, but I felt it even more as I wrote the article (laughs).

I haven't met new dads now, I've only met regulars,

AlreadyYear-long relationshipThere,Supporting my private life and workstay,

Andtake care of meI am very happy to be surrounded by people like that😌

There is such a time,The various experiences I have cultivated in the night shift are useful.

There is no change in the fact that dad activities are also person-to-person,

Instead of being self-centered, take a step back objectively to see and think about the other person...

A relationship built on trustI feel strongly that it is.

In carrying out this activity

"I want to meet someone who is good for me"Of course, everyone wants to

First, as a premise,“Can you get someone interested?”is the first wall.

It is important to polish your appearance for yourself,

First,Inner polishing to face yourself that can be practiced from today for XNUMX yen　

It may be a shortcut to meeting a wonderful dad.