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For women who want to spend LINE with their dad. Is it okay to use LINE as an administrative contact?

It seems that there are surprisingly many women who want to spend LINE with their dads

It's a little surprising, but it seems that there are quite a few women who want to keep in touch with men they meet at dating clubs.
In the question box, we sometimes received questions such as "I'm worried about my dad's LINE frequency decreasing" and "I'm worried if he really likes me because he always answers bluntly."

This kind of woman is probably the type who wants to interact frequently not only with men in dating clubs, but also with friends and boyfriends of the same sex. Don't you tend to

Recently, the number of men who are not good at SNS is increasing, but for the majority of men, such things are nothing more than a tool for business communication.
If you're an adult male in your 30s or 40s, it's even more so.

By the way, if you don't have anything to say about Papua, LINE is just a means of communication.
There were a few dads who sent me long messages every day, but in my heart, I felt like I was replying because I had to reply, rather than saying, "I'm replying because it's fun."On the flip side, there is no point in replying quickly or slowly.By the way, the dad who sends the diary gets a lower allowance


"Man's time" is an irreplaceable world of one person

First of all, what men often refer to as "alone time" is usually time to think about hobbies, family, and own business.

In today's world where individual tastes have diversified, the number of hobbies that one can immerse himself in has really increased.
Men who can afford to join a dating club are more likely to immerse themselves in their hobbies because they have a lot of money at their disposal.

Papua also has "driving" as one of his few hobbies.
In the first place, it is natural for people not to look at it while driving.
For example, if you want to go from Yamagata to Bandai in Fukushima, it will take several hours, and the scenery of mountains, mountains, and mountains continues on and on. "Alone time" is flowing in the car.

In a sense, it can be said that the selfish wish of "I want to enjoy my own time" is given priority.
Compared to women, who are more likely to think about their boyfriends and that cafe at the same time, men are said to be more likely to focus on one thing at a time.
Especially when it comes to my hobbies, even if it's her, I'm not aware of it at that moment.
Women who are prone to lover dependence should first keep this difference in mind.


There is also "time to enjoy with men"

At the same time, women like that should be aware that just as women have time to get together and have fun, men also have times to get together and have fun.

At times like this, even if there is a wife or a girlfriend, most of the time I just enjoy the time when I get excited only with men.

When you meet a woman alone, you have to be careful about what you wear, what you say and do, and where you go on a date. And it's going to be a lot more fun than a date with a woman.

Some married men misunderstand that "we are having fun = my wife is having fun too!" are friends, family is family.
There is no such thing as a good worm about your best friend becoming your wife's best friend.
In general, these people are the type to take their inner circle anywhere without thinking about TPO, so I would like to be aware of this before marriage.

Some women may be shocked to find out that gathering with male friends is better than going on a date with yourself!Think of it as an occasional break and let yourself be free.


Men are lazy with smartphones...

Despite knowing this, there are many women who lament that ``he's slow to reply'' or ``he doesn't talk much on LINE''.

To be frank, if the reply speed of a man is abnormally fast, 95% of it is "I want to fuck this woman as soon as possible".It's not because she's a good girl or anything like that, it's just that there's a hole in front of her and I want to get in quickly.

Of course, many men have the desire to use LINE to get to know each other in the early stages of their relationship.

However, how many men have been dating for a few months, half a year, or a year, and continue to have the same exchanges every day, and feel that they are having fun?
Moreover, the male members of the dating club are busy every day, have many acquaintances including those related to work, and have many hobbies.

In such a busy day, I frequently check LINE from women, guess what she wants to say and what she wants to say from the text, and skillfully console, encourage, and chat... it's impossible.I'm tired.Only a marriage scammer can do this well.

By the way, Twitter often talks about tweets exposing LINE from so-called "fucking customers" with the hashtag "#fucking customers". It is interesting that the common point of this kind of man is that the sentences are long and the sentences are all the same. MORIMORI pictograms and MORIMORI crotch with the momentum of a high school girl in the early 2000s.
The point is that the content is misaligned and does not get the point for the amount of sentences of the masterpiece.

What does this mean? Do you think that the customers in Kawaguchi and Uguisudani, who prefer cheap cabaret and street sex, are leading a fulfilling life every day?If they had a girlfriend, do you think they would be able to build great relationships?


"For men, LINE and email are office contact" Anyway, please know this

It has been said for over 20 years since LINE, no, email, came into the world, but LINE and email are nothing more than a means of business contact for men.If you don't keep this in mind anyway, love will not go well.

I often get questions on Yahoo Chiebukuro, such as "I always get only one or two lines of replies from people I like on LINE, but is there no pulse?" (Laughter) is not proportional.
Well, if it's too rough and random reply, I don't care about you, but just typing one line, let alone two lines, is a kind of penance for men.In the first place, it is a creature that does not think to express affection with the length of sentences.

Calling is outrageous.
When you're tired after work or on Saturdays and Sundays when you want to relax, you don't know what to say from your girlfriend... she's crying... anyway, it's just painful, so let's stop.Men are not good at exchanging purposeless texts and long phone calls.It's already "that kind of thing", so it's not something that will change.

Papua is also a lonely person, so when I'm alone at home, I feel lonely and want to talk to someone on the phone.But hold on tight.
Phone calls eat up the other party's time more than LINE.
If you want people to understand your feelings of loneliness, at least LINE.Even that would feel like a hassle for the man who read it...because it would make him wonder, "Do I have to do something for you?"
So let's distract the feeling of loneliness with something else.

Even if you force yourself to go out with someone saying, "I'll do my best to change that!"
Even if you feel a little lonely, you can build a good relationship between men and women by leaving them alone.



This time I used men as an example, but it's basically impossible to turn your lover's heart to yourself 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.
There are lyrics like, "Tell me you love me all the time", but that doesn't mean that you really have to say you love me all the time. It's a neat lyric that says "tell me...", isn't it? ? (difference

Relationships between men and women are exciting because there are things you don't know about the other person.
The main character of "Manatsu no Kajitsu" also sings in the second lyric, "The hot look touches my heart" and "I can't wait for the night" because he doesn't know everything about the other woman.After all it is Echiechia

It seems that one of the characteristics of women who tend to miss men is that they "disclose too much about their past and life."Of course, I don't deny that the act of "tearfully revealing your true feelings" is one of the ways to win a man's heart, but it's NG to force yourself to listen to this and that without knowing it.No matter how good the story is, it's human nature to strangely lose your romantic feelings once you know all about the person's background.

A relationship where you can enjoy the pain in your heart when you can't monopolize the other person is the best way for an adult to have a romantic relationship.

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