Actions taken as a dad when interacting with a girl or when actually meeting

In fact, when I was "exchanging messages with girls", the "part I paid the most attention to" was LINE, which is currently trending.

Today's children all want to communicate using LINE stamps.

After that, plus emoji etc.
(Now I know a lot more)

At first, I wasn't good at it, but I think I learned from myself that if I don't follow my current child as much as possible, it's a pity if I'm worried about it.

So, I learned how to use LINE from the “girls in the company” and responded with “stamps of comedians” and so on.

Basically, I tried not to contact them much.

The reason is that this is an adult.

Also, you have to be a gentleman and an adult.

Otherwise, girls won't be able to rely on us casually, right?because she felt

It goes without saying, but being an adult, humility is very important.

I want to make "the other person's dream" come true and "help them to grasp their hope".

I became a dad because of that feeling, so I thought it would be "misguided" to go from here.

So, I made "one rule for myself" that I had to follow that part.

Above all, I thought that "gentlemanly" and "adult atmosphere" were really important.
(We adults also thought that was a weapon against young women.)

In the first place, it is important to "hold on".

If necessary, I thought that "environment where I could spoil you" was the position I was in.

LINE communication was also "minimum necessary level".

"Good morning, let's do our best again today" or "What did you eat today? Next time, if you have time, let's eat delicious sushi together and get stronger."

In terms of other content, "Are you even a little closer to your dream?" and "If you need anything in terms of funding, please come talk to me anytime."

I wonder if this repetition was the main thing.

It didn't take long for the other girl to "recognize me as Daddy".

I'm sure it's because we were "following the rules".
(It's just my rule)

After that, I don't know if I say, "Does this count as a point that I was careful about the other party?"

However, I tried to memorize "the words of a young child as much as possible" to say, "Is this something you studied a little?"

For example, it is a word close to "tame language".

Although it is within my range and within the range of common sense, I wonder if I tried to "eliminate" the "language barrier" to some extent.
(If you want to get closer to a young woman, this is really effective. By creating an environment where you can speak in Tame, it's easy to create a relationship like "dad and daughter". Of course, a relationship like "lover" It's also easy to become. It's amazingly versatile.)

Also, this is a personal matter for me.

Maybe it's because I've been abroad for a long time.

Japanese has too many "various" nuances of communication, such as "polite language".

However, in the "English-speaking world", it becomes quite "exchange of broken words".
(So-called simple)

So, in order to communicate openly with young girls, I asked, "Is this method good?"

Thanks to this, it took me quite a while to open up.

It seemed that the other party also recognized that they didn't have to worry about me so much.

Inevitably, there are many patterns in which the relationship between the "dad's side" and the "daddy's female side" cannot be completely wiped out from the time of the first meeting due to age and the wall of "originally a stranger".

I was actually like that with the first two people I was introduced to by the 'dating club'.

Why can't I break the wall with the woman I was introduced to?I gave it some thought.

At first, when I first became a dad, the "compromise spirit" from me was close to zero.

The reason is because of my position up until now and the people around me treated me that way.

Why should I walk away from here?I remember that I was just wondering.

But what I suddenly felt was, "The opponent is a woman who is about the same age as my daughter who is chasing her dreams."

Even in private, conversation with my daughter is close to zero.

The problem was the moment I started to realize, ``Isn't there a problem on my side as a dad?''

Somewhere in the "top-down" "behavior at the time of business" is also "the woman who was introduced at the dating club"?I started to feel.

If so, there's no way you can "escort a woman well".

My standing position is papa, and it must be an environment where women can be spoiled.

On the contrary, I am in a position where I have to be a role model for young children.

It was a moment when I could see many things to reflect on from my father's point of view.

Just improving this a little (compromising) communication with women has changed 180 degrees.

Also, outside of my private life, I also felt that people around me looked at me a little more kindly.

everything is positive for me.

As I wrote above, "the behavior of papa's approach" is proportional to our communication skills, so it can be said that it is "the point that we paid the most attention to."