As much as possible, send presents to special occasions.

Some men may have contracts with multiple women when they become fathers.

Of course, I am one of them.

I also have a mistress in a rural area. (In my case, there are many children I can't meet every week, so I have contracts with several children in Tokyo alone.)

And if you have multiple women under contract at the same time, you will find women with various personalities.

It would be great if every woman had some common sense and could feel the love that money can't buy between her and a man, but the reality is that's not the case.

Most of the women I have contracted to become fathers are extremely greedy.

Therefore, I think men naturally find it difficult to refuse when someone asks for something.

For a man who sees several mistresses every month, it must be a considerable expense.

I have even experienced that some women just fade out depending on the grade of the gift.

And what's even worse is that the women who say that are the ones with the perfect appearance.

No, it's not just about looks.

There are even girls who are perfect in their service to men, and I even had a contract with such a girl for about two years.

That's why when men say, ``Dad, there's a bag I've been wanting lately...'', there are many men who respond, ``Oh! That's totally fine. Shall we go shopping together?'' Is it?

I felt the same way when I first became a father.

Or rather, I thought that was normal for dad life.

I've heard stories of people around me buying various things for the women they have contracts with, and I've also heard stories of them costing a lot of money.

But wouldn't it be nice if you could have fun with multiple women without spending so much? I'm not saying you should be stingy.

It means to cut down on unnecessary expenses that you think are unnecessary.

When you become a father, there are a lot of expenses that you feel are really wasteful.

There are also ``worst women'' who just see men as ``ATMs'' and feel no gratitude towards them, who will soon fade out.

When a woman says this, even if she buys something there, she ends up weighing it against other men, so if a man who is better treated than her appears, she immediately disappears from my eyes. (It's a sad story, but I've experienced it.)

No matter how good she looks, she probably won't last that long, so she sends a better gift than a mistress with a separate contract.

I'm sure people have different values ​​about this, but I think it's a waste of money.

The definition that wasted money = loss is a common sense that everyone has.

At the very least, if you are going to make contracts with various women in your daddy life, isn't it natural that you want to reduce unnecessary "expenses = losses"?

Naturally, if a person who has become a father for the first time suddenly decides to take action to "reduce waste" by thinking on his own, he may be wasting his time and be seen as just a stingy man. I would like to give a lecture here on how I actually do it.

In the first place, gifts are only good for special occasions.

So how do you fend off women's appeal?

In my experience, most women who are active fathers send images on LINE or other platforms, saying something along the lines of, ``Don't you think this is wonderful?''

In other words, it's better to think of it as the start of an appeal that says, ``I want you to buy this.''

And when a man receives such a message from a woman, he basically has no choice but to compliment her.

On the other hand, when I send an e-mail with questions, in my experience, they either don't back down and say, "I guess so? I think it's nice, though." Or they end up saying, "I see."

If the woman doesn't back down at this point, she'll bring up this topic every time they meet.

And women who end up saying "I see" don't want it that much.

Or, it's a pattern of sending a message knowing that it will be rejected.

Honestly, if you end up saying "I see," you can just ignore it.

However, this woman keeps saying what she wants.

In this case, it's better to wait and see what happens because it's not a special day yet, right?If I get it now, the gift I'll give on my special day will be overshadowed by what I should do.

If they still say they want it, ask them, ``Is this what you really need right now?''

If the customer responds by saying, "I want it now," I will immediately offer to cancel the contract.

This may seem a bit dry and cold.

However, even though this type of item is not a special occasion at all, once you purchase it, it becomes commonplace and the expense is really high.

And above all, because they only see things as "things and money," there is a very high possibility that they will not be able to receive good services while working as a father.

Also, since it's not a ``special occasion gift,'' it becomes commonplace, and the conversation becomes all about the gift, which can be really boring for men. (I have experienced this many times in the past.)

However, there are quite a few women out there who are working as a service industry.

The woman who said that is aware that having such a conversation with a man would be ``insane,'' and she already knows that there is a high possibility that her ``contract will be canceled.''

For this reason, women almost never take the initiative to ask men for something, and on the contrary, some women say that since they are receiving an allowance, that is enough.

It means that she never forgets to be grateful to the man who is now her father.

It's true that women who are a bit selfish may have a high level of appearance when it comes to dad-hunting.

However, if you are thinking of having a long-term relationship with the same mistress, or if you want to avoid losing your feelings towards the woman as much as possible, please read the replies I send to women. Try imitating it and see how it goes.

If you have any doubts, we recommend that you consider canceling the contract.

In my experience, if you use a dating club, you will naturally be able to meet a woman who won't feel like you're missing out even if you sign a contract.