A woman who behaves in a way that makes her feel disrespectful

To all the men who are fathers.

Do you have fun with women every week?I'm having fun as always.

Well, lately I've been hearing a lot of people talk about how my time with this woman was a huge waste of time.

As a man, how good would it be if you knew in advance whether something would suit you or not?Do you ever think about something after being offended?I had one quite a while ago.

However, we are all human beings.

It is impossible to make such predictions that are 100% accurate.

That's even more difficult after the contract has been signed.

Once you have signed a contract with a woman, you cannot simply terminate the contract immediately.

I tried to show some sympathy, saying things like, ``I'm so sorry,'' and ``Maybe things will get better if I knew more,'' but the wound deepens.

And in the end, you end up wishing you hadn't signed the contract in the first place. (The landing point of the negative chain)

As a man, all I have to learn is, ``Are there other women like this?'' Is there really a need to pay to learn that part?I have doubts.

That's why if you have some self-analysis data in advance that says, ``People who engage in this kind of behavior should quit as soon as possible'', wouldn't it be possible to prevent it from happening to some extent?That's what I thought.

From here on, this is just my "interpretation" and my "analysis data."

Therefore, it doesn't apply to everyone, and it's not something to assume that all women are like this. (Please understand this part.)

First of all, I think there are some patterns in where you meet women who are active dads.

For me, it's a hotel lobby.

So, my pattern is to first meet a woman for the first time while having a drink or something.

Should I sign a contract with a woman first?Why not?Are the materials to be judged quality?Decide on the first step.

Whenever I meet someone for the first time, I purposely order a light meal for the woman.

Why is this?

The reason is that human behavior when eating is the easiest to understand.

For example, if you use a straw to drink a drink, what should you do with the paper inside?Or, could you get me this drink?Or, are you someone who can make sure you get a portion when you order a snack?Such.

When it comes to meals, it's really easy to understand what the other person is doing.

Is that the type of person who drinks alcohol when they meet for the first time?You can profile up to (By the way, I would never choose a woman who drinks alcohol when I first meet her.)

So, to be honest, if there is even one act of disrespect, I will definitely cancel the contract on the spot.

Of course, that doesn't mean they won't sign a contract.

This means that the first contract will be postponed on the spot.

Sometimes I order snacks that I use chopsticks for.

That's the easiest to understand.

In the first place, if a man is a father, would he choose a woman who can't hold chopsticks?I would never choose.

It's not the woman's fault.

It's the child's parents' fault for not teaching them such important manners properly.

However, you can't get angry at a woman's parents on the spot, and if you sign a contract with a woman who is working as a father, you will have to treat her as an adult woman.

However, he acts like a child and has no taste in the way he eats.

How do we handle this?I think the best way to deal with this is not to sign a contract. (I think it's strange to be careful.)

We dads are not there to teach women anything, and we are not their real parents.

That's why I want you to have the minimum manners.

If not, can I also treat her as an adult woman and sign a contract with her?Won't this lead to even more doubts arising?

From Dad's position, it is possible to warn and teach him.

However, I believe that unless the bare minimum is clearly met, we will not be able to have a conversation at the same table.

This is exactly what I call "information you should know in advance."

In my experience, women who are active fathers and are able to follow this minimum etiquette will basically do better or worse if they follow this method.

However, if a woman doesn't have even the bare minimum of manners, she won't even be able to communicate with her as a person. (I have experienced this too.)

I'm sure some dads have had the experience of signing a contract with a woman who doesn't have the minimum manners?And because I didn't point out that part and overlooked it, I wasted my time.

Isn't this one answer?

If you go to French cuisine, there is more table manners than in Japanese cuisine.

Of course, if a woman doesn't know, just tell her.

Dad should be generous.

It's very understandable and understandable.

However, men who are fathers are also human beings, so there are certain limits.

Isn't our generation the generation that was told, ``If you can't hold chopsticks, we won't give you food?''

In this day and age, it would be called Sparta.

Educational policies that are certainly not suitable for today's times.

However, even if the educational policies are different, what we need to learn remains the same.

There is a minimum amount of information that you must know as an adult.

I don't feel like I'm asking young women who are working as fathers to do something difficult, nor do I feel like I'm asking them to do something they can't do.

I'm just looking for the so-called ``it's obvious to know'' and ``it's obvious that I can do this at least.''

Suppose that when you meet someone for the first time, you find yourself in a situation where you think, "Huh? You can't do this?" or "You don't even notice this?"

If you come across a situation like this, it is best to refrain from signing a contract on the spot.

The reason is that the anxiety or doubts are likely to have a negative impact on the future with the woman.

At this point, I'll just stick with her because she's young and cute.

It's definitely best to quit this.

I've failed at this many times.

I don't recommend it even for short-term contracts.

I think all men who are fathers have a generous heart.

There is a possibility that there will be more points of irritation for people like that, and personally, I basically want men to have a good time.

So, is it really necessary for such a woman to go out of her way?That's what I think.

We have the idea that we are a "social club."

I'm sure he will introduce you to a classy woman.

If you are still feeling irritated by your interactions with women, and if there are any overlaps with what I said above, please consider canceling your contract.

We also recommend that you ask the dating club to reintroduce you, as this will save you time.