Find a breakthrough to match compatibility

When a man is in a relationship with a woman who is a father-hunting woman, I think that the man becomes quite considerate towards her.

Of course, I'm sure there are many people out there who don't care about it at all, but it doesn't necessarily work out the same way with all women.

In my actual experience, it's about 7%.

This is the percentage of women you can date without having to worry about anything. (In my case only)

So what about the remaining 3%?When asked this question, 2% said they were a little careful and faced with it, and the remaining 1% felt stressed.

If you think about it that way, in my experience there are only 1% of women who aren't really compatible with you.

But we can't just focus on that 1%.

To be honest, there are cases where men who have several mistresses are so disturbed by this 1% that they are unable to be kind to other mistresses with whom they are compatible.

Measures must be taken by each man who becomes a father.

So, based on my experience, how do you deal with 3% of that 2%?I would like to tell you here. (For the last 1%, I recommend that you either give up or muster up the courage to cancel the contract on the spot.)

I think that when you first meet a woman, she will be very gentle with you, so especially if you are a father for the first time, you will not notice it at all and will think, ``This child is such a good girl,'' and sign the contract. .

Of course, at this point, if the person really likes it, that's fine.

However, what you need to be careful about is that there is a long way to go in your relationship with a woman who is working as a father.

I don't think there is a pattern where once you sign a contract with a woman, you cancel the contract after 1-2 months. (If you have ever been a father, you will understand.)

This means that over time, questions about women may arise.

To put it simply, the more time a man spends with his partner, the more information he receives about his partner.

This will give you more opportunities to learn things you don't need to know.

When that happens, there will come a few moments when you will want to deny it from an adult perspective.

Since this is a human being, I think this is a common sight even when drinking with people of the same generation.

To put it another way, once you overcome that, there is a higher possibility that something warm will bloom between you than before you got over it.

However, if you can't overcome it, it can become the trigger for a negative cycle to start.

Well, in the midst of all this, I too had many relationships with mistresses that I couldn't get over.

After all, since he was introduced to me at a dating club and we met as dads, I have to act like an adult.

So I had a certain amount of patience.

If I had just a few minutes of patience with her, I could have done it every week.

However, when I sleep over, I get really tired.

So, can't you find any workaround?I thought about it in my own way.

Then, I came up with a solution.

Of course, this doesn't apply to every woman, but it's better to do it than not.

Instead of always silently smiling at women, it is important to calmly face them and set up a place to discuss things like, ``What exactly do you want to do?'' ``Why are you working as a father?'' Saying it's important.

However, this does not mean setting up a forum for discussion.

I have the impression that most men who become fathers take a long time to ``go to the discussion''. (I guess you could say that you've been putting up with women for a long time.)

I also spoke to men around me who are now fathers.

Then, most men end up just looking at women for several months.

Actually, I used to be like that too. (I regret it now)

The important point here is to act as soon as you notice.

The sooner the relationship is repaired, the more likely it is that the relationship can be repaired.

However, if this takes a certain amount of time, the opposite sex will end up half-heartedly getting along with each other, and it will feel like it's too late, and even more so, it will create an opportunity for the woman to make excuses.

Certainly, after a certain period of time, even I wonder, ``Why are you saying this now?''

It's a race of speed here.

I actually got into the habit of having a discussion with her as soon as I realized, ``I signed a contract with this girl, but things don't fit together, even the conversation.''

Of course, there were many cases where the contract could not be resolved through discussion and the contract was canceled, but there were also cases where after talking with the woman, ``we both realized the problem.''

All women who are working as fathers have a strong sense of work.

Therefore, when a woman's contract with a man is cut off in her daily life as a father, it becomes a matter of life and death.

Women with a long history are well aware of this.

For that reason, I always have something to help me understand this.

Also, there are surprisingly many things that can be resolved if we face each other and talk about it.

So, based on my experience, the percentage of cases that can be repaired is probably just under 6%.

Whether you view this as low or not may vary from person to person, but I think it is a high number.

After all, it's a matter of repairing a relationship that has almost become cold.

Of course, it would be easiest and quickest to cancel the contract.

However, depending on the woman, there are men who sign a contract because they fall in love with her at first sight, thinking, ``It's this girl!!!''

If that's the case, you probably don't want to cancel the contract that easily.

In particular, all the women who are fathers these days are beautiful, and unlike in the past, there are a lot of really good-looking women.

Besides, if you meet a woman even once after signing a contract, don't you feel attached to her?I feel quite attached to it.

``Wouldn't it be nice if I could stay with this girl for a long time?'' or ``I don't want to give her to another man,'' etc., and I have a lot of desires.

I believe that the joy of becoming a father is truly countless.

That's why this kind of ``wisdom necessary for dad life'' is so important, and maybe we just have to find it ourselves.

In my case, there were many failures.

That is also a good memory now.

If you have been a father for a long time, you will probably understand the meaning of this.