Shingo's constant x love affair ⑪ "Let's go to the hotel. I won't do anything" succeeds and fails

Shingo Lee.

Recently, I have been concentrating on writing "Pleasure Process", but I would like to continue the series of "Always x Affair".

 

■Popular Pleasure Process is a series written in hopes of improving the sex life of men and PJs (papa active women).

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Let's get down to business.

 

"go to hotel"

 

　No one uses it in the literal sense of "walking into a place called a hotel."

　It means "let's have sex".

 

　For example, when men invite each other to their room and invite them to drink alcohol, they do not say, "Let's go to the hotel."Properly proceed with the conversation with a specific purpose, "Let's drink in my hotel room."

　In other words, "Let's go to the hotel" has become an idiom for us Japanese to mean "Let's have sex."

 

　By the way, this article is an article that focuses on failures on the way to the hotel.

　Let's teach know-how to increase the success rate when saying "Let's go to the hotel".

 

"Battle over the Hotel"

　A man knows himself.I don't want to do anything that you don't like, so I'm sure you're thinking that it would be nice if you could leave yourself in peace.

　But from a woman's point of view, it's hard to tell if a man is really a harmless man.Is this man a man who rapes you as soon as he enters the hotel, or a man who has gentle sex?Is he trustworthy or not?

 

　Many template-like conversations spun in such a state.

Man: “Isn’t the bar just now good?”

Woman: “The first shop was nice, and the bar just now was also nice. Where would you like to go next? I’d like to have a few more drinks.”

Man: “Hmm, that’s right. Let’s go to the hotel, shall we?”

Woman: "Well, I'm not going."

Man: “Oh, that’s fine. I won’t do anything.”

Woman: “Let’s wait until we get to know each other better.”

Man: “Well, that’s fine. I want to talk to 〇〇 more.”

Woman: "It's no good~"

Man: “Then, let’s have another drink at the darts bar ahead.”

 

　Now, with all these "let's go to the hotel" conversations happening every day and night, what's the difference between a man who succeeds and a man who fails?

　I'll show you some of them today.

 

　If you've lost out and are eating more and more with women, I highly recommend reading on.

 

"Guda" and "Guda break"

 In the Nampa neighborhood, being displeased with this proposal is expressed as "gudareru".

　And this "excuse that is said to be loose""Guda"That's what it means.

　On the other hand, to persuade"Guda break"That.

 

Man: Let's go to the hotel

Woman: “Eh, it’s strange to suddenly go even though we just met today.”

Man: “I see. I think it depends on how the two of you are feeling right now.

Woman: “No, I don’t hate it, but…”

Man: “Then there’s no reason not to go.

 

　In this way, we persuade the other party to enter the hotel by breaking the logic and shifting the concerns about the other party's "excuse not to enter the hotel".

 

　By accumulating a lot of experiences such as "getting sucked by the other party", a creature called a pick-up teacher becomes a specialist of guda countermeasures, "Let's say this to the other party with such an attitude and persuade".

　All the exchanges up to the point of inviting them to the hotel are in a state of accumulation, like "I've done this before!"

 

　There aren't many reasons for a woman to say no when someone says, "Let's go to a hotel."If she were to be broadly classified, there would only be so many types that one could count them on two hands.

　If you have a certain amount of countermeasures against representative "excuse", you should be able to act superiorly against all "guda" just by applying it to some extent.

 

　In fact, girls lose interest if you make them feel like they are in a hurry after being gudaked.

　In order to make a man feel relaxed, let's do image training on the premise that "even if you invite him, he will refuse".

　*However, if you don't think only about success after actually confronting a woman, non-verbal communication will become effeminate, so let's limit the assumption of failure to the scope of the preliminary simulation.

 

　If you've read this far, you'd think that the pick-up masters are doing the right thing every time they're beaten up, but that's not actually the case.

　It may be disappointing, but there are surprisingly many times when “Guda” collapses easily.

　For example, a girl who has a boyfriend might want to go to a hotel together, but she says in front of the hotel, ``I'm sorry for my boyfriend, so I can't do it.''
There are some women who really feel bad for their boyfriends and turn them down, but there are also quite a few women who just want an excuse for "I feel a little guilty when my boyfriend's face crosses my mind."If she's really bad for her boyfriend, she won't go out drinking with her in the first place, so even if she says this in front of the hotel, she's already aware of her desires. is.

　Since he's full of desire to go, he says, "Then blame everything on me for today. You're not at fault."

　Guda close to only this shape"formal guda"That.

 

A man who can do it is "destroying guda"

　In the previous chapter, I told you that ``Guda'', ``Guda break'', and ``Formal Guda'' exist, but the simpler situation than this is the situation where ``Guda does not occur'' anymore.

　In fact, if the woman is interested in it and there is no situation to blame, "Guda" will not occur.

　The most ideal thing is that when inviting people to "Let's go to a hotel" in this way, there will be no waste.

　In the first place, there is a desire to go to the hotel from the beginning, or the other person is so captivating that there is no reason to refuse, and such situations certainly exist.

 

　Luck also greatly affects such situations, so it is difficult for ordinary men to be able to aim for each time.

　However, if the situation is close to that, it is possible to aim and create it.

 

　Anticipate the guda that occurs when you say "Let's go to the hotel", and crush the reason why "guda" occurs at the stage such as eating.

　When the other party goes to a hotel with someone today, find out in advance the reasons that will be obstacles and solve them in advance so that they will not be "guda".

　this"Guda crushing"That.

 

 For example, at the meal stage, ask questions such as, "Does the number of people you've experienced match the number of people you've dated?"

 The woman said, "It doesn't match (laughs) because I used to play when I was young.

　But I've calmed down recently, so why don't we have sex before dating?"

　It is easy to imagine that the reason given by the woman here leads directly to "Guda" when she says, "Let's go to the hotel."

　By eliminating this "reason" at this stage of the conversation, later "Let's go to the hotel" becomes easier.

 

In order to "kill Guda", you don't have to persuade her by directly refuting her reasons.If anything, it's better to cut into it with a completely different conversation as the cause so that there is no conflict of discussion.

 

　On a completely different topic, ``Sex is important? The girlfriend I dated had sex with me before we started dating. We dated for two years because we were compatible. Compatibility is important.”

 

　After that, she said, "It's better not to have sex before dating, but I wonder if it's fine because it's pure and innocent? I think women who have sex without hesitation with men who they think are good are more confident and attractive. I think it's a target," Sotobori affirms and should go.

 

　"Guda-busting" is not as sudden as "Guda-kuzushi", and since there is no time limit, you can slowly work on "crushing", so it is rather suitable for beginners.

 

Learn from SM the etiquette of "doing nothing" with peace of mind

　It's important to emphasize, but "Guda" is not something that can be targeted and destroyed without fail, nor can it be destroyed.

　Even if you think you've "killed yourself" in advance, there are times when the reasons why you can't go to the hotel together don't match.

 

　That's how I'll teach you how to make a last minute reconciliation when you're disappointed in the "Let's go to the hotel" challenge that you've been waiting for.

 

Man: “Isn’t the bar just now good?”

Woman: “The first shop was nice, and the bar just now was also nice. Where would you like to go next? I’d like to have a few more drinks.”

Man: “Hmm, that’s right. Let’s go to the hotel, shall we?”

Woman: "Well, I'm not going."

Man: “Oh, that’s fine. I won’t do anything.”

Woman: “Let’s wait until we get to know each other better.”

Man I won't hurt youIf you say "stop", no matter how good the mood is, I'll definitely stop'

Woman: “Will you please stop?”

Man: Absolutely

 

　This is a "safe switch" for relationship building used in SM.

　When the other party feels fear, it guarantees that they can always return to a safe position, and it can work well if a relationship of trust is built.

　By creating this "safe switch" at SM, we can take on the challenge of taking one step further while confirming what we think is acceptable to each other.

　The main point of this method is that you shouldn't use it just "to get into a hotel".

If you really say "stop" in the hotel, you have to quit smoothly.

　If you break the promise of "If you say you'll stop, I'll stop immediately," even once, the relationship will collapse at once, and you may be sued for "forced sexual intercourse."

 

　This is a method of persuasion with such fetters, so abuse is strictly prohibited.

 

　Don't say "Let's go to the hotel" on a high-stakes gamble.

　If something goes wrong, prepare a certain amount of answers before going on a date so that you can calmly break it down.

　Then, at the end of the day, promise a "safe switch" to give them peace of mind that it's okay to enter the hotel.

 

　Also, if you can't make it this far, don't forget to step back gracefully for each other's sake.

 

 

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