When it comes to dad life, not everything works

It's been a few years since I met a woman who works as a dad at a dating club.

I've met so many different women and seen so many different ways of thinking.

It wasn't my past life in a good way or a bad way.

That's what I'm learning, including the importance of facing young women at this age.

However, to be honest, even though dating clubs can't see through that much, there are quite a few women who are really clean from the bottom of their hearts.

Of course, the woman I have a contract with now has a long contract period, so I can trust her and I think she has a beautiful heart, and I want to believe that.

However, am I the only one who feels that the word "papa katsu" has a magical part somewhere?No, on the men's side, perhaps most of them think they have already sensed it.

For example, if you say something, he will appeal, "I am doing dad activities."

It goes without saying, but most of the women are also doing dad activities as a business.

That's why we men also have to understand that, and it may be natural to think about their feelings.

No, it would be fair to say that papa activities are based on the premise of working in line with their business style.

There is a high possibility that the female side also thinks, "Assuming that the male side understands, I'm a dad, right?"

However, if you are in the position of providing services to men as a sole proprietorship, isn't it important for your business not to show such insider information?I think so, but what do you guys think?

Let's talk about what happened recently.

At the beginning of February, I met a new woman in a hotel lounge to sign a contract.

Of course, but she's a new woman, so it's the first time I've met her.

So, I was very careful in my conversation.

The question I asked him was a very simple one.

First, how often do you meet?Or are you working now?Or what kind of hobbies do you usually have?Such.

After that, do you have a favorite food or a boyfriend?I think it's a general question.

Then the woman is silent for some reason.

that?Did you hear something you shouldn't have heard?I thought about it, but she made a surprising statement on the spot.

"Um, I can live here as a dad. Do you have to answer questions, including private questions?"

Are you sure you have a boyfriend?What is your favorite food?And depending on how you receive it, it's a private content.

But is this a question that shouldn't be asked?I make sure to ask every woman that question.

The reason for this is that if I had a boyfriend, I would have to take care of him, including the date we would meet. I would also like to ask him about his favorite food, and if I signed a contract with him, I would want him to eat delicious meals.

With that in mind, it's nothing more than a question I'm asking.

Of course, I may be the only one who sensed it on the spot, but the atmosphere became strange.

Of course, since this was my first time meeting the woman, I didn't feel like I had asked such a bad question, saying, "You don't have to answer at all. I'm sorry if I asked you something strange." I thought he was the type who couldn't say, so I apologized first.

That was the first and last time I met that woman.

Occasionally, there are women of this type.

In some cases, after signing a contract, I feel that I have a bad personality.

This was last winter.

I think it was around the third date after contracting with that woman.

By chance, I was supposed to go on a date in Ginza that day, but for some reason, my smartphone suddenly rang an hour before the meeting.

When I thought about what had happened, I said, "I'm sorry, Papa. I have an urgent business. Can you postpone it? I'm really sorry." Take care of yourself. I'm looking forward to seeing you next time."

After that, I had some tea, took a short walk through the night streets of Ginza, and got into a taxi.

From Ginza, I took a route through Toyosu, and on the way back, I witnessed an astonishing sight from a taxi.

A woman who canceled at the last minute is walking with another man near LaLaport in Toyosu.

I honestly looked twice.

Humans, when you encounter such a place, your body doesn't move right away.

At a later date, when I told her about it, her response was as follows.

"Sorry Papa, that's a different Papa. I happened to double-book that day, and the man over there got better. ."

Such information would probably not be obtained unless the man reported it to the dating club.

But I think most men don't tell anyone.

It is because I feel very disgraceful as a man.

If I go out of my way to tell him about it, I feel like I'm small as a man, and moreover, I think that the majority of men who are dads are just showing off.

That's why I won't say anything else.

Is it an action that takes it backwards?I felt it too.

To be honest, I was very disappointed. (It's really an honest opinion.)

I couldn't keep quiet about this matter, so I set up a discussion with the woman.

And he told her,

"I understand the contents. Then, let's cancel the contract with me. It doesn't matter if there are other men. However, if this wastes our time, it's a different story. But managing your schedule well is your most important job, right? When I think about it, I don't feel like paying an allowance to support you in the future."

Then she told me

“I also think that being a daddy is a job.

What do you think of this?Don't you think it's normal to say thank you?Of course, I said, "Thank you for the short time," but there was no reply.

Speaking of dad activities, anything doesn't work, right?I felt it.

At that time, I thought that if I was going to sign a contract with a woman, she should have common sense.

I hope that the number of children who say that will increase in Papa Katsu in the future.