Flag Maker's Black Talk ~ Winning without a mysterious win, losing with a mysterious loss ~

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In the last column, I wrote about being promoted to black, making several offers, and being nominated as the only dad by one of the women.

Appointed as only dad by flag maker black woman

This column is a continuation of the battle with such black women.

 

Winning without mysterious wins, losing with mysterious losses

One of the famous quotes of former professional baseball manager Katsuya Nomura"There is a mysterious victory in victory, and there is no mysterious loss in defeat"There is.

In fact, this was originally said by Seizan Matsuura, the feudal lord of Hirado in the late Edo period.Although he was a daimyo, he was also a master of swordsmanship.

I have also been practicing martial arts for a long time, so I can understand this word.But that is limited to martial arts and sports.

 

Recently, people are actively trying to apply this way of thinking to business and other fields, so the quality is poor.

In salaried workers and organizations, employees are often asked to do a "losing analysis".why did you lose?Why didn't you achieve it?And.And can you do what you're working on from now on?I'm going to go to the middle of the day.

 

I don't know (laughs)

 

PDCA is also quite popular, but this is just one of the methods of how to proceed with work.A lot of bosses use this as a reason to pack, so it's stupid.If the plan doesn't go smoothly, at worst you can stop it in the middle, or you can change the plan boldly.

I really want you to stop trying to overwhelm your employees by generalizing this way of thinking, such as Den*, Re*route, To*ta, etc. (laughs)

 

"Victory is a wondrous victory"It's no good because I'm thinking about it.should be more serious and thorough"Winning Analysis".

It's no good because if you win the game, you'll drink and end up with a wei.

 

Outside of martial arts and sports, I"A wondrous winNone, a mysterious loss to loseYes"I think.

つ ま り"Winning is inevitable, losing is accidental"What is it?Isn't that healthier? (smile)

For me, a losing battle is an accidental loss.So, in this column, I will focus on the analysis of the winning battles, while the losing battles will be concise and rhythmic.

Sometimes it's important to interpret things in a way that's convenient for you so that you don't get hurt (laughs).

 

loss report

・Black B female.She made a good impression, but the allowance for adult dating was high."Sorry! It's difficult with that allowance."If you reply like that, read through.

 

I'm already used to reading through ☆

 

・Black B female.This is the woman flooded with offers who was nominated for the last column, Only Papa.Next is an adult date!Just before menstruation and only meals.Then maybe next?Before the date, I was sick and rescheduled.So what's next?For some reason before the date, I got a venereal disease and only ate.After all, the only thing you can do is a meal date.that?If you think it's suspicious, the next is a mysterious hospitalization.And then there was no communication.

you"Let's go diving together♡"So I got my diving license, but by the time I got my license, you were gone.

 

What is it? (smile)

 

"See you again when you leave the hospital!"are her last words.

Did he just die?

 

Chan.My condolences☆

 

・Black C female.This woman also seemed to be flooded with offers.It seems that the schedule can not be adjusted easily, and the club can not be contacted soon.Where did your motivation and motivation go when you reshooted? (smile)

 

I can't live as a dad with such a small meal.Let's eat more papa☆

 

The above is the contents of the defeat.

Do not deceive the losing battle.One of my strengths is that I don't hide it.

 

No ~ but.

It's simply spoiled.

I'm a pretty good guy, but it's really pitiful that I can't see people.

 

Ground☆(I.e.☆To☆堕☆Chi☆The filtrate

 

I was somewhat distraught.excuse me.

After recovering, I will report the winning battle and analyze the winning factors.

 

Winning battle ① Doubt the experience of customs

I am a black B woman.Actually, I made a mistake on the first date.It wasn't until much later that she realized that.She was type B, but for some reason I misunderstood her as type C, and on her first date, she offered to date me as an adult.Why did you misunderstand me?I think it's because she got too many offers in a short period of time.

 

Rather than being compatible with her, she and I are used to each other and have good communication skills, so the conversation progresses smoothly.It was the impression that.

I mistakenly thought it was C, so I invited him to the hotel as if it were a matter of course, and on the first day we had an adult relationship.Sorry for the misunderstanding.The pay was normal.

She has a very high papa life skill and everything is smooth.However, I dare to say it with a bad expression, but I'm worried about some "excessive service".

 

"Iku as soon as I do a fingering"

No, I only touched it briefly? (smile)

 

"Blow is too good"

No, wouldn't it be better to be stingy? (smile)

 

"Reaction during insertion is too good"

No, I'm not that big or a technician? (smile)

 

Besides, the exchange before and after the adult act is somehow too smooth.

Various circumstantial evidence is coming together.

in me"Fuzoku Detective Conan"It's been a long time since I've been in the middle of a long time.

Until a long time ago, I called myself "Fuzoku Detective Conan," and there was a time when I made a living doing reasoning and analysis related to Fuzoku.

In addition to that, I have also taken a course of a business trip host, so I understand the arrangements before and after playing and the manners of the sex industry.

 

The beautiful women who belong to the Universe Club, and among them, there will be women who have experience with customs.However, they are not open about their sex experiences, and rather keep them hidden.Everyone, when joining, mimics a woman who has no experience with customs, cabaret, or dad life, and is likely to be a dad.

It seems that it is probably difficult for the staff to find out in the interview.And maybe many male members don't know either.

But alas.I am "Fuzoku Detective Conan"

Even if the woman desperately tries to mimic, I can understand the manners and customs experience.

 

"Points" and "points" are connected by "lines".

 

There is no conclusive evidence.I can't arrest them unless they confess, but I can find decisive circumstantial evidence that I can conclude that they are black.

Does she have experience with customs?Or is it an active lady in occupational fraud?

It was a satisfying date with both meals and adults having fun, but it was too smooth and something got stuck.

Conan's blood is making a fuss, and I've been in detective mode for the first time in a while, so I'm curious about "Do you have experience with customs?"

Whether to continue or not, this mystery will be solved first.Hurry up and set a second date.

 

Winning battle ① Addicted to her swamp

Let's meet somewhere in Tokyo.On the last date, her taste and my interest matched, and it became a hotel after eating and playing.

I forgot to mention her.It's really cute in the first place.What type is it? (laughs)

In addition, I have good communication skills, so I can express my frivolous and light parts without hesitation, so it is very easy.Don't be weird.

After the meal, we were in a very good mood after the meal, and we became friends and went to the hotel as it was.

Sex detective Conan in my brain tells me to keep an eye on him from now on, but on the other hand, I'm in a rather buoyant mood.

 

Now, adult acts begin at the hotel.

 

...This is that.

 

It's her first time, so it's a pattern that she used a lot of care and worked hard.Now that I think about it, even though I'm a B-type, I might have had a reason for asking her out on the first day.

The excessive reaction that I felt at the beginning was gone.

 

Conan in my brain"Hmm. This is white."I'm saying.

In other words, this time there was no discomfort, and it was a date with a high degree of satisfaction.

 

・Communication is smooth

・ Casual body touch during meals

・When you go outside, entwine your arms like a cat

・In addition to a sudden rise in body temperature

・As usual, the blowjob is good and the sensitivity is good

 

In other words, I was completely addicted to her "swamp" charm.

Where did Conan, who was treated as a criminal at first, go? (smile)

 

What's more, when I talk about my family or my daughter,"You're such a bad person to do something like this even though you have a normal family♡"That's what I said.

How long have I been waiting for this line?

Generally"You're a good person!"I was told something like that, but then I had no choice but to play a good person.

 

i have this"Good Guy Guard"Eur-lex.europa.eu eur-lex.europa.eu

 

To be honest, it's hard for me to pretend to be a good person, so this girlfriend's line touched my heart.How easy is it to let out your bad self?

Continuing the relationship was decided happily.

It's been nearly half a year since our first date, but I find myself drowning in her swampy charm.

 

It's already super cute and erotic, and it's really sloppy.

 

Winning battle ① Analysis of winning factors

Here's an analysis of the win.

I'm probably the one who can continue with this girl"A safe man who won't fall in love without unnecessary prying or restraint"That's why.

She's probably affable and a hard worker, so she'll do her best from the beginning.There aren't many women like that among daddy girls.Then the man misunderstands and binds or falls in love.And there will be many cases where we will say goodbye.

Also, one of the reasons for my success is that my girlfriend and I can enjoy meals and various activities outside of the hotel together.

 

While maintaining a moderate sense of distance as a "safe and secure man", there is also a "playfulness" to dating.

I can produce such a relationship.That's me

flag maker.

 

After winning, I will give a reason, even if it is an afterthought or forced.I think that is important.

 

Winning battle ② Takamine's flowery girlfriend

This person is also a Black B woman.She wrote and realizedFor some reason I only offer Black B (laughs)

By the way, I don't have any B illusions at all, and I think it's a little troublesome.B for me is C type after the second adult date.Rather than whether or not you can proceed to an adult relationship, as a result, "whether or not you like the woman" is overwhelmingly more important.For me, C, D and B are all the same.

 

The first date with a B-type girlfriend is only a meal.My safe method is to play a safe date on the first face-to-face date.

Wide and shallow, moderately deep, talk about various things and end.We only exchange contact information.

She was serious and self-possessed, and she had the impression of a high-class lady who had the impression of a high-class lady.

Honestly, at this point, it looks like it's going to be a good relationship.They seem to have a good personality.To put it bluntly, I had a hunch that this girl would probably like me.Yes, of course it's an afterthought (laughs)

 

And at the time of parting, the promise of the second date is also completed.And I consulted in advance about the allowance, but it was normal.

Don't forget to mention this first, but she's really cute too (laughs)

 

The adult date was completed safely on the second date, and we decided to continue the relationship without any concerns.

 

Winning battle ② personal story

The former girlfriend is very easy and fun to associate with because she can show her side of herself as a shy and easy-going villain.

On the other hand, this girl is serious and takes care of me, so I take care of her.She also has a good impression that if she treats her well, she will be rewarded.She can show herself as a good person.

By the way, I have no idea which one is better or which is worse.I have both good and bad parts, both of which are important to me.

 

I started dating her quite often.By doing so, we will become good friends.In the meantime, we hear about her family and personal stories.

 

By the way, male members, what kind of stance do you take when listening to the stories of the women you met here?

 

My stance is to "believe and eat the food served without question."To be more precise, rather than lying or telling the truth, I believe in responding in a way that makes the chef in front of me happy or reassured.

She actually seems to be a young lady with a pretty good lineage, but she seems to have various complicated family circumstances.Of course, there is a lot of weight involved in those stories.

Even though I'm worried that I'll be asked for my allowance, I will calmly and politely listen to that story.

Over time, she became more and more open to me, and began to talk to me about various things.

It makes me very happy, but I don't get emotional about it.

 

For me, being trusted by her is of course a good thing, but the worst is"The Convenient Man Who Believes the Lies She Offers"Her sense of security in that sense.It's okay if you can win it.

Whether the story is true or not is irrelevant.talk to me like that.That fact is important.

The first stage is probably cleared because he started to talk about himself in various ways, probably because he was trusted.

 

Winning battle ② Analysis of winning factors

Here's an analysis of the win.

 

She didn't have a lot of communication skills or a lot of topics, and she was a woman with a high level of vigilance.

In other words, it is difficult to attack.

Then one of my safe attacks is"Hobbies".

 

Get interested in her hobby, study it, and actually try it.By doing so, you will create a topic that is not unreasonable.

By the way, I use my "hobbies pandering strategy" frequently, so my hobbies increase.Diving license is one of them.After all, I'm going diving alone (laughs)

"Break up with a woman and keep your hobbies" This development is quite common for me.

 

Of course, there are times when pandering to a hobby succeeds.The good thing about hobbies is that the range of date content expands.While going out with her hobbies, gradually shorten the distance as a person with her.

In her case, this creation seems to have worked as a result, and you can see that the sense of distance with her is getting closer and closer.

 

Instead of attacking directly from the front with only my own body, I attack slowly from a point where it is not difficult for the opponent to feel that I am being attacked.

Even if the river flows slowly, if you take your time, even rocks will be shaved to remove corners.

 

"I don't overdo it by spending time on the offensive" I have such mental leeway.In addition, it can "pander to the other party".

I also have such a streak.That's me

flag maker.

 

After winning, I will give a reason, even if it is an afterthought or forced.I think it's important (laughs).

I've been dating her for over half a year now, and by the way, there's a little more to the story with her.

 

Winning battle ② Realization of the personal story

One day, I had an entertainment with a certain good friend president.

It's more like entertainment, or rather, we're on good terms, so we just have fun drinking with my treats, but I have some ulterior motives to expand our business.I prepare various information in advance and make business preparations.

One of them is company introduction.just blindly"Please introduce me somewhere!"Even if you ask, the effect is thin, so I will re-examine the business partners and related companies in advance.

Then I realized for the first time that one of them was her family's company.Of course, I have no intention of talking about her or involving her.However, I will put it in my head as one of the companies that I request introductions to.That was it.

 

It's just the president and I drinking, so it's naturally exciting, but I don't forget the business perspective even when I get drunk.After giving the president a drink and getting him in a good mood, he casually digs deep into the main company, introduces the company, and grabs the start of that kind of business.That is entertainment.

I didn't have any particular expectations, so I tried to talk about her company as a wait-and-see.

 

The president"Oh, I've known that for a long time."

(I.e."Heh, it's been a long relationship."

　(It feels good. Can you aim for an introduction!?)

The president"I haven't done it recently, but I used to hang out with my family."

(I.e."Ah, is that so!?"

　(Whole family?)

The president“Over there.

(I.e."Yes."

The president"This and that..."

(I.e."Yes!"

The president"...this and that."

(I.e."... yes."

The president"...it's like this."

(I.e."..."

 

To be honest, even if there was, it was only an ulterior motive to connect it to business.It was completely unexpected that the president and the company were close.

I didn't have the slightest intention of prying into her,What came out of the president's mouth was the same content as the serious story I heard from her.

I tried my best not to reveal my confusion to the president, but my heart suddenly felt indescribable.I feel like I'm out of work.

 

No, I'm at work now.

 

At work.Let's put this feeling aside for a moment.

After that, I managed to recover my mood and ended the drinking party as a fun party.

I worked hard.I.

 

The president"Thank you! Good meal! Let's drink again!"

(I.e.“No, no, thank you very much!

 

After seeing the president off until I was out of sight, I rushed into the narrow alley between the multi-tenant buildings, lit up the cigarette I had been holding back, and inhaled the smoke all at once.

 

(I.e."Fu."

In the darkness of the endless alleys, gray smoke billows into the endless urban sky visible through the gaps in the buildings.

(I.e."seriously."

(I.e."Was it true what she said?"

 

Along with the smoke, the pleasant feeling I had just now disappeared into the sky, and the indescribable feeling came back all at once.

The relationship between the president and her parents' house seems to be close, so there's no way I can tell her today's story.What should I do.No, I can't do anything in the first place, can't I?

Now that my personal story has finally become real, I think again.

 

(She's really doing her best.)

(He's definitely stronger than me. Great.)

(At such a young age, I can't divide so many things.)

(He's better than me as a person. Really.)

 

Besides, I have to cherish her who told me such a content.

The story of her life finally passes through my throat with a bitter aftertaste, turning into blood that spreads throughout my body.

And I find my feelings taken by her in laps.

 

As I wrote earlier, rather than telling the truth or lying, I believe in responding in a way that makes the chef in front of me happy or reassured.that isTo put it bluntly, I didn't believe in either the lie or the truthThat's right.

For me, if you eat it on the spot, it won't be left behind, so it was more important to eat well in front of the chef.

If it turns out to be real, it will leave an indescribable bitter aftertaste.It's hard to swallow real ingredients.

 

From my father's point of view, there seems to be a lot of truth that I don't need to know.How much easier it would be to go out with a woman just by telling lies, or by pretending to accept a woman's acting without question.

There is also merit in being honest.

 

Well, I'll accept that too.that's me

I'm a flag maker (laughs).

 

Summary of this column

From the way this column is written, you might get the impression that the latter girl has taken over my feelings, but that's actually not the case.

As I wrote earlier, the former her bog charm is also Zubuzubu Zubuzubu.Too easy to get along with and too comfortable.A feeling of euphoria that you don't have to worry about.

 

I have a feeling that I might end up going one way or the other.

Someday my feelings will be leaning forward and I will be dumped.It is easy to imagine such a development.I feel like this again (laughs)

 

Well, that's enough.

Before I'm a dad, I'm just a human with feelings.

 

That being said, there are times when you get dumped and times when you have a good relationship.If you have a good and easy relationship, there is also a somewhat serious relationship.Sometimes I feel happy, and sometimes I feel sentimental.

 

You can also enjoy this feeling at the dating club.

 

The money is gone, but the experience remains.

 

President Kida.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for creating the Universe Club.