A woman who is a father and has a habit of being late

At our age, we should be in the habit of being on time no matter what we do.

This behavior of being on time also directly leads to building a relationship of deep trust with the other party.

That is not all.

In the first place, the act of being punctual can be seen as an ``individual lifestyle''.

My personal opinion is that both men and women who are late are quite sloppy, and to be honest, I've never met a decent person.

In my mind, ``being late means that I'm missing something,'' and even at this age, I don't think I want to be in a relationship with someone who is the type of person who causes trouble to others.

I think people of my age can relate to this.

In particular, most men who are working as dads have learned from a young age that they should not cause trouble to others, or that they should not take up other people's time unnecessarily due to their own carelessness. He must have been educated.

The higher the rank of an individual's family, the more harshly they were disciplined, and my father and mother used to nag me quite a bit.

Therefore, a dating club where you can easily meet young women these days.

As I have entered into a relationship with a woman in the form of a father-hunting contract, I have gotten the impression that there is a strong polarization between women who protect their time and women who do not. I have.

In fact, the type of woman who is late gets into the habit of being late, and it becomes commonplace, and she uses excuses like she missed the train or it took too long to put on her makeup. (In the first place, it's just a matter of setting the time sooner. I guess you can't do that.)

Meanwhile, a woman who is a father who keeps track of time.

These types of people are never late and always arrive 10 minutes before the scheduled time, and sometimes even call 30 minutes early to say they're already there.

I get the impression that this type of father-active woman tries hard every day not to cause trouble to others.

So, for example, let's say that sometimes the meeting place is difficult to find.

In that case, he always sends an email saying, ``This may be difficult to understand, so please come slowly.'' You can feel that he is very considerate towards the person he is meeting with.

However, as a father-active woman who is addicted to being late, she has never received such consideration and has the impression that she is doing her best because she is the one who is going to the place.

That's why I always worry about it myself.

Should I say something about this woman's tardiness? Should I leave it alone? That's right.

As a result, I often leave it alone, but when I do point it out, I think it's limited to women I've known for a while and who aren't usually late.

When it comes to fatherhood, there is a tendency to prioritize the convenience of women, and most of the men are older, so I guess it can't be helped. There's a part of me that thinks so. (This is just my theory.)

But as for the time I mentioned, should I say it recently? That's what I think. (That's whatever the reason is.)

In the end, if you forgive someone for saying this the first time, you'll end up saying, ``Why did you say nothing last time, but now you're saying it so forcefully?'' I've actually been told this line before.

If you don't say it right then and there, ``when you realize it,'' you're also guilty of not saying what you thought right away.

In that case, no matter how righteous you are, you will end up creating an escape route for the other person, and above all, your argument will become a little less persuasive.

However, in the end, the other woman probably wants an allowance for her father's activities.

Most women don't understand and say, ``Dad, I'll be more careful next time.''

However, I have never met a woman who was able to get rid of her habit of being late, and the relationship of trust that she had with her partner began to deteriorate considerably. (I often experience this.)

Would you continue with the contract with this woman?

If it were me, I would change my mind to cancel the contract immediately.

There's a reason why.

First of all, women who are active dads are basically spoiled by men.

That's why there aren't many men who pay attention to being even a little late.

Well, I should say that there are many men who are trying not to pay attention to it.

For this reason, when women receive attention from men, they tend to feel like, ``I don't need this father!!!''

I have the impression that this is especially true for women who have contracts with many different men.

I've experienced it many times.

"〇〇-chan, it's not good to be late, and I've never been on time, so let's stick to it little by little, okay?"

When I told this to a woman who is active as a father, she said the following.

Dad doesn't know too much about women. Make-up now takes a lot more time than it used to.

Also, I'd like people to think of it as "being late = trying to be pretty for my dad", and I've never had another dad say that to me, right? I want people to treat me with a more generous heart.

Honestly, I couldn't understand her rebuttal in the slightest.

However, since I am a father, and the woman is young, I guess I have no choice but to turn a blind eye. So I ignored the situation.

However, I have never had a long-term relationship with a woman who is an active father and left this as is.

On the contrary, I started to have more doubts about her and even started to feel stressed.

When I told my friends about this, they all became fathers just like me, but their true feelings were the same.

"I can't say it even if I want to, and I'm afraid that something will be refuted. That's why I try not to touch it."

I was saying.

I felt like I wasn't the only one who had this feeling.

Therefore, when I become a father to a woman, I always make sure to tell her that I must be punctual for meetings.

I try not to enter into a basic contract with a woman who cannot abide by this.

However, there are exceptions, and I try to understand when there is a truly urgent need.