Maintain dad's position

If you are already a father, have you ever had the experience of saying, ``Even though I made a contract with a good woman...'', the relationship didn't last long, and the contract was canceled after about a month? No, on the contrary, women sometimes refuse me after just two or three meetings.

I have had similar experiences several times in the past.

Well, from a man's perspective, it's quite a shock.

When you meet someone for the first time, they say, ``This girl is beautiful,'' or ``I was able to sign a contract with such a young girl,'' and men get really excited when they can sign a contract on the first time.

And in the future, I'm looking forward to dating a woman who likes me like that.

However, if one thing goes wrong, the relationship of trust with women can easily collapse.

When you say that, most men probably don't realize what they've done to women. To be honest, I was one of them.

In the end, there are surprisingly many people who look at the women's side from a slightly superior perspective, saying that they are the ones paying the allowances to the women.

So, once you have paid your allowance, is it safe to say that even if you do something unpleasant to a woman, it will be reset?

From a woman's point of view, men may naturally become unpleasant.

A man who has become a father is not supposed to say to those around him, ``I am a father to a young woman.''

There are still many people who mistakenly think that being a dad means prostitution, and the current situation is that the world doesn't really understand things like ``deep love with women'' that are commonplace.

Regardless of those who don't understand, I think the good thing about being a father is that you can create a different world together with young women. (I guess you could call it the best time you can have with a young woman.)

So, if you've signed a contract with a wonderful woman, you probably want to be with her for a long time, and you might be saying, ``I don't want to let her go right away.''

In order to become a father and stay with a young woman you like for a long time, I think it is important to have a certain attitude and to treat women with confidence.

So, how can I actually successfully date a young woman for a long time? Let me tell you here.

hold back your sexual desire

After all, when dating a woman who is trying to become a father, the thing that worries me the most is sex.

Of course, every man would want to have a contracted woman as soon as possible, and most men would not want to suppress their sexual desires.

As a man, I can understand and I think the same way.

Even though it's a contract for him to be a father, the young woman is in a sense becoming his girlfriend, so it might be unreasonable to tell him to suppress his excitement.

However, if you were to look at this from a woman's perspective as a father, what would you think of such a man who is so aggressive about sex? Don't you feel that men are ``poorish'' or ``treat me poorly?''

Of course, there are some women who don't care at all.

In my experience, there have been women in the past who were completely stubborn about it and were fine with it.

However, the standards for that part are quite vague, and once you get to a certain age, including myself, it should be difficult to change your attitude towards women each time.

Especially when dealing with young women, since we are paying them an allowance, the more likely they are to have a good personality, the less likely they will complain.

The most difficult pattern is the type of woman who accumulates mistakes without saying anything. (In my experience, most of these women are good women.)

And before I realize it, my stress explodes, and even if I try to please the woman later, it feels like it's too late.

In this case, even though I have recently signed a contract with a woman, I am given reasons such as ``I am not suitable for being a father'' or ``Maybe my father and I are not compatible.'' Is it LINE now? So, I was asked to cancel my contract.

Anyway, from a man's point of view, even if he has contracts with multiple women, he feels a bit mentally challenged.

In my personal opinion, the majority of people who get rejected in this way are women who don't want to miss out.

I think men who have been fathers for a long time will understand.

This is the only way to get rid of what I said.

In any case, don't activate your sexual desire right away.

Just by doing this, I've stopped attracting a lot of women.

When I actually asked women who have contracted to be dads, they seem to dislike men who try to hold them right away.

Also, while there are many men who try to hug me right away, if they don't immediately hug me, they'll say things like, ``You take great care of me,'' or ``You're a wonderful gentleman with great dignity.'' It seems like you feel that way.

Indeed, if you think about it, that's true.

From the perspective of women who are working as fathers, it is natural to think, ``I don't exist solely to fulfill your sexual needs.''

But unfortunately, I think there are probably very few dads who understand that.

To be honest, when I talk to my friends who are fathers like me, they say things like, ``I pay a lot of money to take care of them,'' or ``Do I have to put up with that?'' The percentage was quite high.

Besides, there was this opinion.

“Nothing special, if the contract is canceled, wouldn’t it be okay to sign a new contract with a new girl?”

Regarding this, I thought to myself, ``That's not true.''

The reason is that I have experienced a pattern of ``it's not going to work unless I have this woman''.

That's right.

There are some things you can't do without that woman.

So, how can we avoid losing such a unique woman? Regarding that part, if you have just signed a contract, I think it would be a good idea to date women as much as possible without looking for sex.

When it comes to sex, I think it would be a good idea to discuss it with a woman who has a separate contract (such as a woman who has been under contract for a while). (That's what I do.)

After all, if you open up to him, the woman will definitely give you the OK sign for sex, so isn't it an important part of being a father to wait that long? And isn't that the way to have a long-term relationship with a wonderful young woman?

In a sense, when it comes to daddying, there are many men who are ``geeky'' and they are running in the opposite direction, so women should also want to cherish such men.

Using this method, I was able to have a long-term relationship with a woman I really liked.

Please try it once.

You should be able to feel the effects in a fairly easy-to-understand manner.