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    Please let me discuss the quality of the men you meet.
    Recently, dating clubs other than the Dad-katsu app and Universe...

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Question date: 2024/04/14 19:19

Nice to meet you.

Please let me discuss the quality of the men you meet.
Recently, I have been meeting men by registering with dating clubs other than the Dad-katsu app and Universe. (I am a former Universe member and know about this site.)

However, I often feel that the attitude of men is flagrant.

In particular,

Being late (suddenly being 30 minutes late on the day of the meeting/receiving a call saying "you'll be 15 minutes late" exactly at the meeting time),
Very arrogant attitude,
Some people are not able to take care of their bad breath.
Being too familiar with women when meeting them for the first time, or raising them too much (they don't treat women well),
Although he is bad at listening to what others have to say, his communication skills are a mystery, as he speaks quickly and seems only interested in what he is saying.

Etc.

I was surprised at the disparity as I had an image of an older, calm, mature and attractive man working here.
Even if the men I've met so far make a lot of money, I'm not sure if I can respect them as honest people...

You may say that's just me, but I get 8 offers from other clubs in a month, so it shouldn't be that bad. I've never been late or canceled at the last minute, and I recently met a man who is a regular.
By the way, I am registering to meet a wonderful man and improve myself.

The self-help and business books I read often tell me that people who have the above attitude are no good, so I don't think many successful people I meet actually follow this attitude. I feel confused.
I would like to hear everyone's opinions.
Thank you.

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sun moon new

I think it can be said that men who are active in clubs have a certain amount of money.

Does having a certain amount of money make you a success?
I guess people are confused because they simply think that having a little money means being successful.

Also, success or failure in the world and good or bad in self-development are completely different things.
It is not a world where the righteous win and the wicked lose, as in the fairy tale of good and punishment.

Some people may succeed if they follow self-development methods, but others may not.
Although you yourself have knowledge of self-development and business books, I guess you haven't had much success at the stage where you have to deal with unfortunate old men.
As long as you impose your self-development ideas on others and criticize them, I think you will never get closer to your own success.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/14 19:59

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